If you make a mistake, you must be punished.
Children who make mistakes, whether intentionally or unintentionally, will be punished. For example, the child accidentally broke the cup. Although he didn't mean to, he should be told that it was his fault. Although he didn't anticipate the consequences of his actions, he apologized for it.
If he is unintentional and dares to admit his mistake, his parents will believe him and reduce his punishment. If he hides the facts and shirks his responsibility, he will be severely punished. Only in this way can we cultivate children's honest and responsible personality from an early age.
In addition, let children know that doing something wrong will be punished. Even if the child asks, he can't promise, otherwise there will be a precedent for cancellation, and the effect of future implementation will be difficult to guarantee.
Don't get involved in this matter.
From the point of view of the punished person, children hate their parents' "dumping pickles" most, and once it happens, they will turn over old scores. Many parents do not understand this truth. When they teach their children, they can't forget to ramble, drag their feet, tell them all kinds of problems, or even tell them nothing until they forget the theme of this training. What does the child think?
I'm not right at all anyway. My parents can't see the achievements I have made and the shortcomings I have corrected. I felt that I was born to be trained and punished, and I lost confidence in correcting my mistakes, so I went my own way. The educational effect can be imagined. Therefore, parents must educate and punish their children one by one, talk about the matter, don't get involved, and don't turn over old scores.