Do you know what parents do in adolescent sex education? Every child will gradually change from ignorance to adolescence. On the road of change, the guiding role of parents becomes the key. What should parents do about adolescent sex education? The following is my method of collecting and sorting out. I hope I can help you.
What do parents do 1 Let children face sex frankly?
Children's curiosity about sex is understandable. The key is whether we can guide children to face curiosity in a scientific way. Sex education in China has always been in a closed or semi-closed state. Parents and teachers mostly adopt the methods of blocking but not dredging, preventing but not guiding, hiding but not teaching to deal with those sexual problems encountered by children. This situation often leads to juvenile sexual crimes, unhealthy sexual behaviors and many social problems.
Children are in adolescence, and their outlook on life and world has not been formed, and their ability to distinguish things is limited. At this time, it is necessary to let them know about sex through normal channels, strengthen their own prevention and avoid sexual harm. If we are vague, evasive or even unable to face up to it, we can't talk about sex with our children calmly.
Therefore, through sex education, children can face sex with a very frank attitude from an early age and avoid detours and misinterpretations in the process of sexual psychological development. At home, if parents don't take the initiative to communicate with their children regularly, it will be more and more difficult for children to open their hearts to their parents and bring up sexual things after entering middle school.
It can be said that parents are the first teachers of children's sex education. But remember, parents should not only educate their children about sex, but also set an example and pay attention to their words and deeds.
Why talk about sex easily?
If you are embarrassed about this topic, read some related books and talk to your trusted friends. The more you know about sex, the more you will believe that you can talk about it. Even if you can't get rid of your embarrassment, or you don't have enough sexual knowledge, you should communicate honestly with your child. Don't expect yourself to answer all the questions raised by your child. Your answers to them are much more important than how many answers you know. If you make them feel that there is nothing they can't talk about in this family, then all communication will be smooth.
Targeted, take the initiative to lead to the topic
If your child hasn't asked questions about sex, then you can find an appropriate time to raise related topics. Especially after the child enters adolescence, parents should talk openly with their children about pregnancy. If there is no chance, you might as well find an excuse, such as "Have you noticed that David's mother's belly is getting bigger and bigger?" She's going to have a baby. Do you know how the child got into her stomach? "So, the conversation between you can start from here.
Talking about emotional responsibility related to sex
Children not only need to understand sex from a physiological point of view, but also need to understand the sexual relationship closely related to care, care and responsibility. Discussing the emotional components in sexual relations with children can help her (him) make better decisions and bear the pressure from peers in her future life. If your children have reached puberty, you need to tell them that sexual behavior contains responsibilities and consequences. For example, conversations with 1 1 and 12-year-old children should include unexpected pregnancy and how to protect yourself.
Provide accurate sexual knowledge in time.
When talking about sex with your child, you should pay attention to the content of the conversation to suit your child's age and growth stage. If you 12-year-old children ask, "Why do boys and girls have great physiological changes when they grow up?" You can say something like this: "Everyone has a special chemical component called hormone, but the hormones in boys and girls are different. So when the boy grows up, his voice will become deep and his hair will become more and more; When a girl grows up, she will become bigger and her hips will become round. "
How do parents do a good job in adolescent sex education? 2. Pay attention to adolescent sex education.
Nowadays, the phenomenon of puppy love is more serious. In fact, to put it bluntly, there is still a difference between this kind of love and true love. Parents don't have to worry too much, and it is not appropriate to ban it strongly, which will strengthen their confidence. This makes it difficult for them to find the problem. Correct guidance and a child-oriented attitude are the real solutions.
If the guidance is weak, it will also lead to the phenomenon of children committing crimes. The lag of sex education is a factor that cannot be ignored. Some students are precocious, which has not attracted enough attention from society, families and schools. In fact, the communication between boys and girls is a kind of mutual communication, sometimes it is learning or entertainment games, and the kind of situation that parents are worried about rarely happens.
Nearly half of junior high school students lack the basic correct understanding of sex and the most basic knowledge of sexual health care. There are 50% junior high school students who explicitly object to the statement that "sex education will lead children to have more sexual behaviors". To some extent, this expresses their subjective desire to get adolescent sex education. According to the survey, half of junior high school students are dissatisfied with the current school adolescent sex education and think that "the current school sex education is too conservative". There are 4 1.8% junior high school students who think that "the knowledge about sex taught in school should be as important as teaching Chinese and mathematics". Although children's ideas are sometimes extreme, they can't be ignored.
The responsibility of sexual health education lies in eliminating ignorance. At the same time, complete sex education not only refers to the openness of sexual activities and ideas, but also includes the education of sexual morality and responsibility. To understand in participation, we must be timely, appropriate and moderate. There should be personalized guidance and services for minority groups to really lay a good foundation for children's growth. In the process of teenagers' growth, it is helpful to tell them the significance of sexual morality and responsibility step by step, respect mothers and women, cherish friendship, talk about the difference between friendship and love, talk about the responsibility of love and family, and talk about people's different interests in the opposite sex at different stages.
This kind of naked education is the correct attitude towards children. Do you expect to hide your child for life? Any child who doesn't understand these things when he grows up may have learned them through his own mistakes. To train children into qualified people, both positive education and negative education should be done. It's really good for children.