Love each other like family.
First, home, warm harbor.
1. Why not forget your parents' kindness?
(1) Parents regard their children as a part of their lives, and care more for their children than for themselves. Parents' love for their children is the most selfless and sincere love in the world.
(2) Parents should not only take care of us and teach us basic life skills, but also care about and educate us ideologically, guide us to establish life goals and teach us how to be a man.
(3) Filial piety is the duty of being a man, the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and the obligation of children stipulated by law.
2. How to honor parents?
To honor parents, we should respect, love and repay them. When we honor our parents, we should treat them politely in our daily life, understand their wishes, listen to their teachings, care about their health, understand their difficulties, share their worries, and don't make excessive demands on them.
Second, learn to communicate with parents.
3. What are the reasons that affect the communication between teenagers and their parents?
(1) The psychological characteristics of teenagers affect the communication between teenagers and their parents. Teenagers are in adolescence, and their psychological development is in a semi-mature and semi-naive stage. At this stage, on the one hand, teenagers will pretend to be adults, on the other hand, they will be limited by their own experiences and abilities. They observe and face the things around them with suspicion and scrutiny, and are unwilling to accept the opinions and opinions of adults or parents intact, to discuss things related to themselves with adults or parents, and to let others know their secrets, even to their parents. There is resistance to parents' criticism and persuasion. This kind of "rebellious psychology" will make teenagers find it difficult to communicate with their parents, thus affecting communication with their parents.
(2) The contradiction and misunderstanding between children and parents will also affect the communication between children and parents.
(3) Because children and parents are two generations with different life experiences, children and parents will have great differences in family concepts, ways of thinking and behavior habits.
4. How to build a bridge to communicate with parents?
(1) If you want to learn to communicate with your parents, you must understand them. To understand parents' nagging, these are unnecessary nagging in our view, but actually parents' love for their children; It is necessary to understand parents' ardent hopes and inappropriate ways of caring for their children. Their strict requirements are out of a sense of responsibility and concern for their children. Understand that parents also have troubles, and know that they also need to talk to their children, hoping to get comfort from their children.
(2) To learn to communicate with parents, we must respect them. We should respect our parents' opinions and suggestions, and pay attention to our tone and discretion when talking to our parents. When there are contradictions and conflicts with parents, make necessary concessions and apologies; We should respect parents' personality and appreciate their advantages. As children, when we disagree with our parents, we can't take an evasive, distant and contradictory attitude.
(3) Learn to communicate with parents and master certain skills and methods. For example, take the initiative to report to parents about their study and health; Accept parents' criticisms and suggestions with an open mind; Chat with parents more and try to reduce their work pressure; Carry out activities conducive to communication; Discuss some new ideas and ideas with parents, exchange different views with each other, and try to eliminate differences in understanding.
Lesson 2 We share a home.
I love you, China.
1. What practical actions should we take to love our motherland?
(1) We, shouldering the heavy responsibility of realizing the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation, should love the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, actively safeguard the sovereignty, independence and territorial integrity of the motherland, not lose an inch of territory, not be divided and occupied, love our own history and culture, improve our self-esteem and self-confidence, and strive to create a more splendid national culture.
(2) A big national family that loves the motherland; We should safeguard national unity, oppose national division and do more things that are conducive to national unity. In school life, students of all ethnic groups should care for and help each other, respect the customs and habits of all ethnic groups, and consciously perform the glorious task of safeguarding national unity with practical actions.
2. What is the function of ethnic communication?
(1) Historically, the exchanges between various ethnic groups in China have enriched Chinese culture, opened up the territory of the motherland and promoted social development.
(2) China's fine tradition of national unity is manifested not only in peacetime, but also when the motherland suffers from foreign aggression. In order to defend national unity and national dignity, the people of all ethnic groups fought in unity, jointly resisted foreign aggression, and waged an indomitable struggle against aggressors and ethnic separatists.
Second, we are all descendants of the dragon.
3. What are the wishes of the people of all ethnic groups in China?
Realizing the reunification of the motherland, national unity and China's soaring is the common aspiration of the people of all ethnic groups in China, including our compatriots in Taiwan Province Province, and it is also the common aspiration of many overseas Chinese.
4. What contribution have overseas sons made to the motherland?
(1) Although many overseas sons wander abroad or live abroad for a long time, they are concerned about their motherland. Whether in the past or now, they are supporting and paying attention to the construction and development of the motherland in different ways.
(2) Overseas Chinese have inherited the excellent qualities of the Chinese nation: diligence, courage, tenacity and wisdom. They traveled all over the world on five continents. They spread the material civilization and spiritual civilization of the Chinese nation to all parts of the world, contributing to the economic prosperity and cultural exchanges of all countries in the world, to the harmonious coexistence of all ethnic groups in the world, and to world peace and development.
5. Why should we share the same fate with the motherland and shoulder the historical responsibility of rejuvenating China?
(1) Loving the motherland is the glorious tradition and lofty moral character of the Chinese nation.
(2) Without inspiring spirit and noble character, a nation cannot stand on its own feet among the nations of the world. In the long history, the Chinese nation has formed a great national spirit of unity, peace-loving, hard-working, courage and self-improvement with patriotism as the core. This national spirit has become the endless source of strength for the Chinese nation from generation to generation, and it has also become the soul of the long history and culture of the Chinese nation.
(3) People always live, study and work in the specific social community of the motherland. The existence and development of the motherland is the premise of individual survival and development. Everyone has an unshirkable responsibility and obligation to his motherland, and it is our duty to consciously shoulder the historical responsibility of building the motherland and rejuvenating China.
6. How should teenagers share their destiny with the motherland?
(1) To meet the requirements of the development of the times, we should correctly understand the history and reality of the motherland, enhance our feelings of loving the motherland and our sense of responsibility for revitalizing the motherland, and establish national self-esteem and self-confidence.
(2) Carry forward the great spirit of the Chinese nation, hold high the banner of patriotism, forge ahead, strive for self-improvement and work hard to truly turn patriotism into a trip to serve the country. Study hard to revitalize China today and contribute to the creation of a more brilliant future for the motherland tomorrow!
Unit 2 Learn how to communicate with each other.
Lesson 3 Improve yourself in communication
First, communicate with life and live in communication.
1. Why do you say that "life is inseparable from communication" (the necessity of communication)
(1) In social life, each of us can't exist in isolation, and we must associate with others. Only by interacting with parents, teachers, peers or others can we better understand and develop ourselves and experience the happiness, sadness, troubles, love and hate of life. Only in healthy and extensive interpersonal communication can we meet our psychological needs and better adapt to society.
(2) Communication is necessary at all stages of life. Adolescence is a period of great changes in physiology and psychology. When students encounter difficulties or need help, they often like to ask their peers for help. It is especially important for middle school students to learn to communicate and make friends.
2. What is the significance of communication for personal growth? (The importance of communication)
(1) Through communication, we can achieve spiritual communication, find emotional sustenance, get rid of loneliness and stay happy.
(2) Through communication, you can meet many new friends and constantly improve yourself through communication.
(3) The help of friends will inspire us to overcome difficulties and setbacks.
3. How should teenagers choose their friends in communication?
Good friends are the wealth of our life. We should make more good friends who can help us grow up. At the same time, be careful in communication. If we make bad friends in communication, it will have a negative impact on our growth. This requires us to learn to communicate in life, choose friends carefully, make more useful friends, and constantly improve ourselves through communication.
Second, we have friends all over the world.
4. What are the "inner circle" and "outer circle" of communication?
A person's communication is self-centered, small and big, expanding outward, and can be divided into several circles. The relationship in adolescence can be called "inner circle". The circle of friends is the main inner circle of our current communication, and friends play an increasingly important role in our lives. After entering the society, due to the relationship between work and occupation, more communication is needed, and the communication relationship will be greatly expanded, forming an outer circle of communication. With the growth of age, people's communication range will gradually expand from the inner circle to the outer circle, and the communication range will become larger and larger.
5. What is the significance of the development of communication range from "inner circle" to "outer circle" to the growth of teenagers?
The more extensive the communication, the more beneficial it is for us to broaden our horizons. When we turn our eyes from the inner ring to the outer ring, we will find that the outside world is so wonderful. When our communication develops from the inner circle to the outer circle, our study and extracurricular activities will become more colorful, and it is possible to get more lessons.
6. Is there any good way to expand the scope of communication in adolescence?
Participating in public welfare activities or social activities is a good way to develop and expand the scope of communication from the inner circle to the outer circle.
7. How should we treat our online friends?
With the advent of the Internet age, more and more middle school students have become netizens. The Internet has brought us a lot of information, broadened our communication channels, and may even expand our communication scope to the whole world.
We should use the Internet correctly, get useful information from it, make good friends, resist its bad temptations and avoid the negative effects brought by the Internet.
In the communication without national boundaries, we should be ambassadors of friendly communication, live an independent online life, really let the Internet play an active role in communication, and let our friends spread all over the world.
The fourth lesson is to master communicative art and improve communicative competence.
First, politeness in civilized communication comes first.
1. What is the meaning of politeness?
(1) Politeness is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation, which reflects a person's ideological and moral level and cultural accomplishment.
(2) Politeness is the premise of civilized communication. Politeness is the basic quality of being a man. In interpersonal communication and social life, modest and respectful words and deeds are the necessary conditions for mutual respect, effective communication, friendship and self-attraction.
2. How to be polite in communication?
Politeness in communication is mainly manifested in language, attitude and behavior. Civilized language, friendly attitude and dignified manners are essential qualities for friendly communication with people.
(1) Language civilization can make communication harmonious and add color to interpersonal relationships. When dealing with people, you should be able to use polite language. Requirements: Speak kindly; Speak politely; Use a more consultative tone when talking to people.
(2) Attitude affinity can increase the charm of communication, shorten the distance between us, enhance the friendship and unity between people, and make us feel warm and happy. Requirements: sincere, easy-going and humble.
(3) Dignified manners can reflect our elegant temperament, our moral quality and civilization, and paying attention to the norms of manners are the basic requirements for our social interaction. Requirements: Sincerity inside and courtesy outside.
3. How to correctly understand the three principles of communication etiquette?
The three principles of communication etiquette are equal treatment, respect for others and tolerance.
(1) Treat people equally. In modern etiquette, the principle of equality is the foundation and the most important. Each of us is different in appearance, intelligence, family background and so on. However, everyone is equal in personality and legal status, and there is no distinction between high and low. Any words and actions that elevate and belittle others are not conducive to the establishment of harmonious interpersonal relationships. In communication, treat people as equals, and don't be overbearing; At the same time, you can't grovel.
(2) respect others. Everyone has self-esteem, and in interpersonal communication, everyone is eager to be respected by others. Any words and deeds that do not respect others will arouse others' disgust and will not win others' respect for themselves. Therefore, respecting others means respecting yourself.
(3) Tolerance is a virtue. It shows that a person is generous and generous. Learning to be generous and tolerant can make you have a harmonious interpersonal environment. Being strict with yourself and being lenient with others is a higher realm of treating people and a manifestation of good cultivation. There are contradictions between classmates, so be more tolerant, tolerant and generous.
Second, communication and art.
4. What skills and arts should be mastered in communication?
Communication is an art, and communication should pay attention to skills. The three basic communication skills we should master are learning to listen, express and praise others. Besides, we should learn to smile, refuse, compromise and criticize.
5. What's the point of learning to listen? How to listen in communication?
(1) Learning to listen can make us communicate with others better. Learning to listen is still a good way to expand interpersonal communication. Being good at listening, we will be loved by more people and have more and better conversation partners.
(2) Learning to listen means learning to listen carefully to others. Learn to listen to the "four hearts": patience, modesty, intention and understanding. Be patient, attentive and attentive when listening; Open-minded, don't interrupt others' speeches or judge others' opinions casually; Careful, good at thinking in listening, learn from each other's strengths; Understand and pay attention to frequent eye contact with the speaker. Or nod your head to show that you are listening carefully to encourage the other person to continue.
6. What's the point of learning to express? What are the skills of language expression in communication?
Learning to express is an important part of learning to get along with others. The skill of language expression is a bridge to communicate the mind.
Generally speaking, when you speak, you should choose topics of mutual interest, pay attention to dialogue with people, and don't just talk about yourself or yourself; Pay attention to the sense of proportion and angle when speaking, be good at choosing the opportunity of conversation and create the atmosphere of conversation; When you speak, you should have emotional input, pay attention to sincere tone, dignified and natural posture, modest and friendly attitude, etc.
7. What's the point of praising others? What are the skills of praising others in communication?
Being praised is a pleasure. Doing so not only inspires others, but also delights oneself. Appropriate praise can make people feel the understanding and warmth between people, and can effectively enhance the communication between editors and praised people, thus enhancing the friendship between the two sides.
Praise should be measured. Generally speaking, praise should be targeted, natural, natural, specific and sincere. Can give each other the praise they crave. Praise more people who are not noticed.