Since I became a parent, I understand that it is easy to raise children, but difficult to teach them. I finally understand how difficult it is to shape the correct three views for children who have just come to this world. Because our parents are human beings, and their worldly desires have their own advantages and disadvantages, it is really not a simple matter to teach children.
Of course, love is not selfish possession, but selfish but selfless dedication. Love is for the sake of children's long-term future, and for the sake of children's long-term future plans after leaving their parents. Therefore, far-sighted parents, I think, must teach their children to be a complete person and a person with complete personality.
Aside from academic education, I think the most important thing for parents is to set an example. Set an example for children with their own behavior and let them know what the world is like, instead of always protecting them and letting them live carefree in the ivory tower. A complete person, I think, should know this sinister world, but still be able to love it. Therefore, children should be taught to be independent, stay away from danger, say no, resist and love.
Secondly, in education, I don't think it is necessary to oppress children, but we must let them know a truth. He studies not for his parents' face, but for his future. Only learning can change the fate of ordinary people and have more choices in the cruel future. Teaching children to learn is not for others, but for themselves. Cultivate children's interest in learning.
Generally speaking, no one is perfect, and almost all parents can't do what I said above. After all, people are not precise machines, and they can keep their state at any time. But in any case, parents still have to offer snacks for their children's unknown future.