Destiny is divided into life and luck. Life can't be chosen, and luck can be changed and created, so this fate can be changed through the efforts of the day after tomorrow, because it can be changed if you master luck. Luck can be created. If luck is always good and bad, it will change fate. Good or bad luck depends on whether people are good or not. Good luck will get better, bad luck will get worse, good luck will always be good, and many bad things that should happen will not happen or hurt less. In this way, people's fate has changed, and people's bad has also changed. The key is to persevere, and their fate will change. Of course, everything they do will change, because there are good and evil, and what ordinary people do is often that good and evil coexist and offset each other. If they want to change their destiny, they must work hard and do more good deeds, and their destiny will develop in one direction and change greatly. Of course, good must be really good, not Q. In real life, many people think that weak people are good people, but they are not necessarily. Some people are bullied, but they dare not resist, and they may have cut each other to pieces in their hearts. This is not good. A really good man is one who is broad-minded. This is the so-called large amount of happiness, and it is only when you suffer. Of course, some people will question that so many bad people in society are still alive and well. That's because everyone's fate is different. Some have more blessings, while others have less. Because of the large base and the great inertia of fate, it can bear the consumption, but it is always decreasing. I remember that two people in our village killed a snake together before. One of them died of illness in a few days, and the other lived for many years. So everyone's blessings are different. Some people can bear it, others can't. Of course, anyone who can bear it will die.
A person's life is fixed. When to do things in this life, when to go to college, when to get married and who to marry are all fixed, but fate can be changed. Good and evil are important factors to change fate. People's education and professional life only provide a platform, and what plays a decisive role is the good and evil in their professional life. Kindness is the source of people's happiness. With goodness, people are blessed and have umbrellas. So what is the purpose of educating children for parents? Isn't it for their happiness? Only kindness can lead to happiness, so cultivating children's kindness is the guarantee of their future happiness. Good children will not have big things in the future.
Therefore, education should be based on goodness, and everything else can follow the fate. For example, there are many cram schools and interest classes in society. The key is that parents should always protect their children's kindness. Some parents force their children to learn a lot, thinking that this is for the sake of their future, but it will make them rebellious. This is a bad generation, which will reduce their blessings. What's more, children hate their parents, which is unfilial and will lead to more blessings. But you can't spoil your children blindly, which will also produce a lot of bad things. I believe parents can observe. Therefore, schoolwork itself can't really change a child's fate. What really changes the fate of children is the good and evil in the process of completing these things. When taking the subway in Shanghai, it is often seen that some parents always let their children grab seats when taking the subway. We can also understand the psychology of parents. They just want to make their children more competitive and not suffer in the future. However, if you look at this matter carefully, it is really not worth the loss. This is a blessing to teach children to do evil, which will harm them. When they grow up, they may live up to their expectations for a while or something, but the blessing of his whole fate will always be destroyed because of his nausea. Therefore, in the process of educating children, studies are external and can't change anything. Parents are just resigned to their fate. The key is to cultivate children's kindness on these platforms, which really increases their happiness. Don't think that children will be happier if they learn more. That was not the case. This point, college students after 70 and 80 must understand very well.
Therefore, the key to education is to read a good word. Of course, the content of goodness is very extensive.
Master Yin Guang's article on how to educate children is worth learning. Master Yin Guang is recognized as the general trend, and the Bodhisattva will come back with his wish. Looking at education from the perspective of Bodhisattva has far-reaching influence.
Master of printing-how to educate children: If you can teach like this, you will decide to be virtuous when you are older. Otherwise, you will become a bandit.
When children are knowledgeable, teach them the ways of "filial piety, younger brother, loyalty, faithfulness, propriety, righteousness, honesty and shame" and the six divisions in the wheel of three generations of cause and effect and karma. Let him know his heart, which is closely related to the hearts of the gods, ghosts, buddhas and bodhisattvas. When you have an unhealthy idea and do an unhealthy thing, you have long been noticed by the gods, buddhas and bodhisattvas of heaven and earth. If you look in the mirror, you can't escape. You can be afraid or kind. No matter who, that is, servants and children, are allowed to beat and scold.
Teach them to respect their elders and humble themselves. Be sure to cherish paper, food and clothing, and insects and ants. It is forbidden to eat snacks to avoid getting sick. If you can teach like this, you will decide to be virtuous when you grow up. If you are willful when you are young, you will never learn. When you get older, you become a bandit. It's no use regretting at this time.
As the old saying goes, teach women to be new and babies to be new. Because of its habit and nature, it needs to start from scratch. All the chaos in the world is based on this.
Don't think it doesn't matter if there are too many old monks and too few porridge.
(Excerpted from "Printing Master Paper Money": a letter is repeated)