1. Influence of social environment: With the change and development of society, children are exposed to more and more information, including some bad information. Unclear social moral standards, diversified family structure and busy parents all have a negative impact on children's education.

2. Improper family education: Many parents lack scientific parenting knowledge, improper education methods for their children, excessive indulgence or severe punishment, and lack of patience and understanding, which leads to children's rebellious mentality or anxiety, and it is difficult to receive correct education.

3. Education system: The traditional education model pays attention to imparting knowledge, ignoring students' interests, specialties and personalities, so many children feel depressed and bored and lose their enthusiasm for learning. In addition, some educational systems and evaluation mechanisms also have problems, which lead children to pursue scores instead of real learning.

4. Individual differences: Every child has his own unique personality, interests and needs. Some children are slow to respond to education and need more patience and careful guidance, while others are easy to receive education and need more challenges and incentives.

Therefore, parents and educators should adopt correct educational methods and approaches according to children's personality characteristics, so that children can grow up better. In addition, we should strengthen education in all aspects of society, improve the moral level and civilized quality of the whole society, and provide a better environment for children to grow up.