Don't children who study well and have good grades play mobile phones?
Let me give a few real cases, and the answer to the question will come out.
The child of Yin Jianli, a child-rearing expert, used to play mobile phones when she was a child, but now her daughter Yuanyuan is also a young man who has lived her life and value.
Jiu Si, the son of Goto Song Li, is now in high school, and his academic performance is excellent. He is an active child. He also plays games, and his mother creates conditions for him and helps him buy game equipment. His enthusiasm for learning has not been affected at all.
Baidu Zhou used to be an internet addiction teenager. He started playing games in Internet cafes from primary school, then played mobile games, and the university often played games.
But in the year of graduation, he realized that he was going to enter the society. Combining his past and social needs, he took family education as his career. After ten years of hard work, he has become an influential expert in helping children get rid of Internet addiction.
Zhang Huanteng, a secondary school student who went on a hot search a while ago, failed in the senior high school entrance examination and went to a secondary school. However, he was unwilling to upgrade all the way. From technical secondary school to junior college, junior college to undergraduate, graduate student of Peking University Union Medical College Hospital.
He also wants to be a doctor, a postdoctoral fellow, a university teacher, study with more people and help more people like him.
Does he have a cell phone? Yes But hot search said that he never brought his mobile phone to the library for class!
Zhao Ke Zhao Di, a twin boy from Cili, Hunan Province, was admitted to Peking University and Tsinghua University in the college entrance examination in 2020. They never brought their cell phones in high school for three years.
Judging from these real people on the Internet, whether there is a mobile phone or not does not determine whether a child is excellent or not. Children with mobile phones don't ruin their lives, and even children who are addicted to mobile phones don't ruin their lives.
There are also many stories about mobile phones and children around, which can prove to be helpful to answer the opening question.
There is a boy admitted to Tsinghua, which is a rare thing around us. But after going to college, the children were addicted to games and had to drop out of school.
A friend, her daughter was admitted to Peking University, and her son went to primary school, in the fifth and sixth grades of university. Go to her house to play, and her son's tablet will lie on the coffee table in the living room at will. Mom didn't treat the game with confiscation and prohibition.
There is also a boy, in the sixth grade this year. What grade does he start from? I didn't know his parents had prepared a tablet computer for him to play games. Television has not been banned. Learning and playing are all decided and arranged by children themselves.
The children have been doing well in school and practicing playing table tennis.
There is another boy, now a senior one. In the lower grade of primary school, his mother forced him to ban playing mobile phones, and he never played again.
My academic performance has been very good, and I was admitted to the key junior high school.
Now I can play with my mobile phone when I go home, and my mother is no longer in charge, and my child's grades are good.
Another child is now in high school, vocational education. His father said that he had been playing with his mobile phone since he got home, and he turned black and white day and night. The mobile phone is more important than his parents. I don't know how to stop this child.
So our first question is, did cell phones destroy children?
The answer is no.
There is one more question that must be added. Children are playing mobile phones and addicted to games. Is the child ruined?
The answer is obvious. Just because the child is addicted to the mobile phone now, it cannot be said that the child is ruined and hopeless.
But many parents can't help thinking, why, what to do, we will talk about this later.
One more question must be added, not the mobile phone. What destroyed this child? It shouldn't be said that it is ruined. It should be said that what causes children to be addicted to mobile phones now?
Before we act, we must find out why children are addicted to mobile phones, so as to find corresponding prevention and help methods and make correct words and deeds.
Children are addicted to mobile phones, not only because of the emergence of smart phones, but because you bought them for him.
We will discuss this problem in the next article.