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Can make your heart bigger, can't tolerate the shortcomings of visitors like people in visitors' lives, and learn to be tolerant;
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Understand that all the behaviors of visitors are learned in the Origin Family as a child, and his/her relationship with consultants is only a copy of these patterns, so don't think that he/she is targeting consultants, but seize these opportunities to give feedback to visitors and help them see these patterns clearly;
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Allow visitors to make mistakes in the consulting room, but let him/her see and know that, oh, he/she can make mistakes with impunity, and let him/her experience experiences that have never been seen in life, so as to reflect on his previous life, learn to break the old automatic thinking and behavior patterns and rebuild new ones;
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Understand the inner confusion of visitors, their core beliefs, and the motives behind some behaviors, because understanding can be compassionate;
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Cultivate your patience, don't tell visitors everything just because you know, learn to wait, accompany visitors, let them see, have an epiphany and know how to change;
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Accept visitors unconditionally, respect their feelings, and firmly believe that it is normal for her to feel this way under her own situation, framework and position. Help her sort out all these things that happened in the outside world. Her inner feelings are determined by her inner structure. Through re-feeling, let her re-perceive, discover the immature cognitive model in the past, completely resolve emotions, release the free energy of life, and improve the quality of life.