First of all, there are too many occupations and jobs in our society, but as far as family education is concerned, the profession of parents still lacks effective norms and constraints! Many parents' idea of having children is particularly straightforward. Why do they have children? Because everyone has children, I want to have them! What's more, the birth of the child is purely accidental, and it is even more irresponsible for the child to come to this world without being psychologically prepared. Many times, we regard having children as a family inheritance or convention, but never consider the life planning of future children, which makes the education after giving birth have no clue!
Secondly, the success or failure of family education, family environment atmosphere accounts for a large proportion, but looking back at our current family atmosphere, you will find that there are really not many qualified ones! For example, many fathers earn money to support their families outside, and mothers take care of their babies at home; Or both parents should go out to work and give their children to grandparents to teach; Or teach the nanny directly after birth, and rarely take the children personally; Or many special families, such as divorced couples, disharmonious family atmosphere, and so on, all these factors bring many obstacles to the effective growth of children!
Third, most importantly, many parents simply don't know how to raise their children, in other words, they only care about raising their children! This situation makes the quality of early education of many children not high, but we know that 0-6 years old is the golden period of children's brain development, and it is also the period of children's various abilities and habits. At this stage, parents' education can't match it, or as Montessori said, we can't create a prepared environment for our children. This is what we call a real loss at the starting line!
Many times, people only know how precious it is to have it when they lose it. In fact, parenting is also a truth. It is often when children grow up and start to have many problems that we begin to reflect: why didn't we educate our children well when they were young? But what is the value of such reflection? Dear parents, how old is your baby? Do you pay enough attention to children's early education? Welcome everyone to leave a message and discuss together! The answers are all original by Mr. Ge. Reprinting is strictly prohibited. Hereby explain!