First, adjust the mentality Parents should educate their children not to blindly fight and scold, but to adjust their mentality. As parents, if they condemn and abuse their children too much, not only can they not learn good educational knowledge, but they will also suffer heavy losses to their hearts. Parents should not care too much about their children's academic performance, but more importantly, their children's physical and mental health. In the process of education, parents should have a good attitude and help their children actively and patiently.
Second, create a good environment If parents want their children to learn more knowledge, they should create a good environment for their children. Children with good environment will be willing to study. The reason why children are disobedient is because they are under the bad influence of their parents. Don't always think that you can highlight your dutiful son. Actually, it's not like this. Children will become more and more stupid. If you want your children to listen to you, you must first communicate with them and respect their ideas.
Third, be a good example If a parent wants his child to listen to himself, the first thing to do is to set a good example for his child. Children will imitate their parents. If children find that their parents don't care about themselves or have bad words and deeds, they won't listen even if you want to educate them. Every child has his own independent thoughts and is very clever. Children grow up by listening and watching. If parents want their children to listen to themselves, don't beat and scold. Sit down and talk to them, ask them what the reason is, and then teach them in accordance with their aptitude. It is more effective to deal with problems directly than to beat and scold children.