The so-called husband and wife, because of the combination of feelings, the two sides jointly resist the risks of life and form a family to have children. Moreover, in the process of marriage continuation, with the accumulation of time, we need to manage this relationship more attentively, instead of spreading our hands after marriage. Many problems between husband and wife are not the emotional problems of both sides, but the problems of children's growth, education and children. Some ideas are inconsistent, which leads to frequent quarrels between the two sides. What should couples do if this happens? Or who should compromise first.

In fact, if we simply say that the question of who bows first is not comprehensive, we still have to see the essence of the problem, and whose ways and means have greatly improved the problem of educating children, then we will listen to who. Or both sides have their own ideas, and this idea is also in line with the current social development, then the most essential ideas of both husband and wife can be extracted, integrated, experimented and popularized.

Due to the influence of China's traditional cultural concept, many people may think that this sentence should be fully reflected in family life. With the development of modern society, women's family status or social status has been significantly improved. They have their own ideas and strong working ability. Unlike in ancient times, they have no definite views on education and career. When they have their own independent ideas, both husband and wife must negotiate together and take the opinions of both sides to achieve a balanced state.

This will not only give full play to the advantages in educating children, but also increase the feelings of both sides in daily life. If only the man or the woman speaks at the same time, then in the long life, the emotions and opinions of the other party have been suppressed. It will bottom out one day. This time will not only hurt the stability between families, but also have a certain impact on children. The ultimate goal of family education is to give children a healthy and loving growth environment.