Today's topic: family education and etiquette.

Family education is the influence and education that children receive at home, and it is the enlightenment education of a person's life, which has a great influence on people.

Etiquette Baidu Part Interpretation: Etiquette is a process of self-discipline and respect for others in interpersonal communication, involving dress, communication, emotional intelligence and many other aspects. Etiquette is an indispensable ability in our life. From the perspective of personal cultivation, etiquette can be said to be the external expression of a person's inner cultivation and quality. From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be an art, a communicative way or method applicable in interpersonal communication, and a customary practice of showing respect and friendliness in interpersonal communication. From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be a skill of mutual communication in interpersonal communication. It can be roughly divided into six aspects: government etiquette, business etiquette, service etiquette, social etiquette, foreign etiquette and diplomatic etiquette.

Etiquette is a knowledge with specific requirements. Etiquette is everywhere in family, school and various public places. Personally, I think it is manifested in civilized manners, elegant movements, natural posture, proper gestures, natural expressions and dignified appearance.

When I was a child, my parents taught me family education:

Heaven and earth are teachers, benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and wisdom.

1. Don't smack your lips while eating;

2. Don't cross your legs. Girls must sit with their legs together.

3. Don't squint at people;

4. Don't learn from the inconvenience of disabled people: walking, talking, etc.

Don't call your elders by their first names, but call them you. When you talk to your elders, you should also address them first, and look them in the eyes when you talk.

6. Unless it is necessary, it is not allowed to grab the sleeves and pull the trousers at ordinary times;

7. Don't mix vegetables and chopsticks into your rice bowl when eating;

8. Don't shake your legs. It is impolite to shake your legs, and it is not suitable for Feng Shui.

9. People are not allowed to make noise, laugh loudly and cry for a long time in public;

10. Don't lie, especially malicious lies;

1 1. The food clip only holds the side where you are sitting, and you must not cross the center line of the plate.

12. Don't bite chopsticks, knock or buckle bowls while eating;

13. The spout for pouring wine and tea is not allowed to point at people;

14. greet the elders politely before eating, and the elders sit down and say that they have been encouraged to eat chopsticks before eating;

15. Speak when there is no food in your mouth. If you need other dishes, you can ask others for help (if you are a child); Wipe your mouth after eating and say to those who haven't finished eating, "Who, who, I have finished eating, you (you) eat slowly." If you are elderly people, you have to invite them to play before you leave.

16. When being a guest, the host can only move chopsticks, and the guests can only move;

17. Don't pour water or wine for others;

18. Don't tilt your ring finger and little finger when picking vegetables;

19. Don't press people's shoulders and touch their heads. Of course, don't let others touch your head and press your shoulder.

20. You can't fill the tea, but it's seven points full (my dad says the remaining three points are human feelings);

2 1. Guests are not allowed to sit in other people's beds, enter empty rooms without permission, and rummage through other people's things at will;

22. Don't step on the threshold and don't speak loudly when you stand by and walk in the door;

23. Go home and say hello to your elders;

24. Smile without showing your teeth. Laugh, you can only laugh, you can't laugh regardless of the occasion. It is said that I was trained a lot because of this. I laughed after watching the comedy, and then asked my mother, "Are you kidding?". Look at your appearance, which is like a girl. " I always reply "at home, nothing, I can't laugh." Haha, not enough. " My mother said I was talkative. Actually, I think it's good to pay attention to this in public.

25. Sneeze on the ground while eating, covering your mouth and teeth.

26. Don't whistle, especially at night (my father threatened me that it was easy to recruit thieves, and my mother said it was impolite and frivolous).

27. don't hit your face, don't swear, and don't expose your shortcomings.

That's all I can write down, and then I added some new ones, as follows:

1. Try not to eat in the subway, bus or taxi. Especially those with peculiar smell: leek, onion, garlic ... durian.

2. Don't spit everywhere. My children and I basically prepare paper towels, wrap them in paper towels and throw them in the trash can.

After eating chewing gum, be sure to wrap it in paper and throw it in the trash can.

4. Take care of public property and the environment. Don't look at what others do, but care about what you do.

5. Take the elevator, go left and stand right. This is actually a very simple habit problem. Many people think this is a bit of a fuss, but I always think it is really a good habit. Why should we abandon a good habit?

5. Be polite and kind to people. Make money harmoniously.

6. You can't call your parents and elders by their first names. Although foreigners can call their parents and elders by their names at will, we are from China and must follow our own traditions.

7. Don't look down on people. Ten years in Hedong and ten years in Hexi, not bullying the young and the poor.

8. Parents and elders have grievances and don't let their children participate. Actually, this is what my mother said, and I just thought of it. )

13, do good and accumulate virtue. Don't be a villain, do more good deeds, accumulate virtue for future generations and for yourself. Good, yin is good, yang is good. Doing good deeds is unknown; Everyone knows how to do good deeds.

14, goodness is like water, and virtue is the world. Especially verbal virtue. Easier said than taken back. "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are cold in June."

15. Dress appropriately. Wear clothes that match your age and sex If it is not a costume party, it is not recommended to wear strange clothes. (You can write about this when you have time) The same is true for dressing children.

16. Knock on the door quietly before entering the house, and don't go in until you get permission.

17. When opening and closing doors in public places, be sure to pay attention to whether there are people who need to get in and out at close range, and wait for them to get in and out before closing the door if necessary.

18. A man's hand is not born to hit a woman (the rule of two children at home). Gentleman's demeanor was not developed in a day.

19. Understanding and tolerance, tolerance and consideration.

20. If you give, don't expect anything in return and do what you want.

2 1. Brothers, friends and brothers respect each other like guests, regardless of each other.

22. Husband and wife are United, and their profits are broken.

23. Everything is happy at home. You should be the most patient and gentle to your family. Be sure to remember that home is the warmest.

24. Be calm and don't be impatient; If you have your own reasons beforehand, don't complain about others.

25. Don't make decisions on impulse and speak.

26. You must love your motherland. One country, one country, one home.

27. Unity of words and deeds, not duplicity.

28. Learning should be a lifetime thing, not a period of time. "Never too old to learn"

29. Don't take risks. "I'm not afraid of 10 thousand, I'm afraid of one thousand."

Don't touch the law, even on the edge. Obeying the law is the right way.

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Family education etiquette is an obvious manifestation of personal accomplishment. To be a cultured person, you should not only have an open mind, but also have a peaceful face. With good cultivation and manners, getting along with people will be pleasing to the eye and feel particularly comfortable.

Nowadays, Chinese and western cultures blend together, and many parents tend to ignore traditional etiquette when educating their children. Personally, I think some traditional manners are worth teaching our children.

Some people say that the etiquette of family education should wait until the children are older, but I think it is best to start from an early age, form habits for them, and then become natural. Of course, as parents, it is also important to set an example.

In life, there is no big truth, only these small details. Although they are all small details, doing well is the greatest spiritual wealth in life. If they succeed, these spiritual wealth can also create material wealth for us.

For the time being, these are my personal opinions.