First, in a sense, the influence of family education is far greater than that of school education.
As the saying goes, parents are children's first teachers. Parents always influence their children from infancy. Parents' daily manners, homework, manners and habits of dealing with others and their own personality cultivation all affect their children's growth. A good teacher may be able to influence students for three to five years or even longer, educate them to behave properly and learn to seek knowledge, but he can't accompany them all his life, nor can he always be around to educate and guide them. In contrast, parents educate their children far more than teachers, and family education has a far greater influence on children than school education. The theory of "5+2=0", which is often used in the field of education, means that five days of school education is quite effective, but if two days of family education can't keep up, then the education for students will always stand still and even get worse, revealing this phenomenon. Minister of Education Chen Baosheng pointed out: "Insufficient family education will not only offset the achievements of school education, but also have a certain negative impact on children." For example, teachers teach students to study hard at school, but when they get home, their parents are playing mahjong or playing cards, and the children are overwhelmed by the lazy atmosphere. Where did you get the enthusiasm for learning? There were not a few people who participated in the onlookers. In this way, even if the good habits cultivated hard at school come home and meet parents who don't understand education and practice education, the good habits will be wasted immediately. Therefore, as parents, they should shoulder the responsibility of family education. Only conscientious family education can consolidate the achievements of school education and make up for the shortcomings of school education. Good school education needs to be based on good family education, and the close combination of family and school education can make children's education go up a storey still higher and promote their healthy growth.
Second, the success of school education comes from a good family education foundation.
The cooperation and coordination between family and school can promote the establishment of a smooth communication platform between family and school, which requires the joint efforts of school and family to jointly educate and promote. The goal of establishing home-school communication should be the same, mainly the "unity of thought" and "unity of action" of family and school in educating people.
In order to keep the communication between family and school consistent, it is necessary for them to put themselves in others' shoes and strengthen interaction. On the one hand, when holding parent-teacher conferences, schools should explain their educational goals, educational ideas and methods to parents, so as to gain their understanding and support for school work and teacher education methods; Parents should also show their expectations of their children and the adoption of educational methods to the school, seek common ground while reserving differences, learn from each other's strong points and combine them effectively. On the other hand, in today's information society, we should not only carry forward the traditional way of home-school communication, but also enrich the communication platform with the times and make good use of the network. We should not only attach importance to face-to-face communication between schools and parents, but also establish new platforms such as WeChat group to make home-school communication more convenient and effective. It is necessary to use the information platform to tell parents about each student's behavior, academic performance and ideological quality at school, so that parents can understand the students' situation at school.
Suhomlinski once said: "The effect of education depends on the consistency of the influence of school and family education. Without this consistency, the education and teaching process of the school will collapse like a paper house. " It can be seen that only when families and schools reach a consensus on education and a good family foundation lays a good ideological foundation for the further development of school education can we really promote the healthy growth of children together.
Third, home-school interaction to jointly promote the healthy growth of students
School education is indeed very important, but no matter how important it is, it can't be separated from family education. The two promote and complement each other. As the main position of education and teaching, school education should undertake the task of teaching students to adapt to the rules, master knowledge and learn to learn. Family education should also become the main position of education and teaching, and cooperate with schools to jointly cultivate children's character and personality, so as to give children a sense of security and happiness. Although family education and school education may be different in concept, there are some differences, but as long as home-school interaction is achieved and home-school education is closely combined, students can receive a good education at school and at home. In this case, students will grow up healthily and the road to growth will be broad and colorful.