8-9-year-old children have self-awareness and obvious cognition and thoughts about things. Rebellion is actually a stage of inner maturity. Children need parents' patient communication and understanding. ? How to educate children who are a little rebellious at the age of 8 or 9?

? How to educate children who are a little rebellious at the age of 8 or 9?

1. When children are found to be rebellious, parents need to calm down and communicate with their children in a friendly way. Don't try to get a lot from the first communication, because once children resist communicating with their parents, they will get nothing, so parents should master the step-by-step method and slowly guide their children to express their ideas and share them with their parents.

2. When children tell their parents what is in their hearts, parents should listen carefully, don't interfere, don't add their own ideas and judgments, and let the children finish their words at once. The purpose of doing this is to prevent parents from misunderstanding, to prevent children from giving up their inner expression because of misunderstanding, and even not like to communicate with their parents.

3. Companionship is the best way of education. For rebellious children, the companionship of parents is out of reach. They are rebellious because they are eager for companionship, because only rebellious parents can survive. Pay more attention to him. Therefore, no matter how busy the children are, parents should also find ways to accompany them. ? (What if the child is not suitable for kindergarten? What shall we do?)

When the child insists on doing something, just make sure there is no danger and let the child do it. Don't stop too early. When a child regrets hitting a wall, he will naturally find a way to solve this mess. Parents can also show the results of this matter in advance, so that children can predict that their ideas are wrong, so as to correct them and avoid detours.

Eight or nine years old is an important period for children to grow up, and it is of great significance for parents to give appropriate guidance and education. Therefore, parents should actively learn some educational knowledge, theories and methods, and strive to learn and improve their educational ability in practice.

When a child insists on doing something, just make sure there is no danger and let the child do it. Don't stop too early. When a child regrets hitting a wall, he will naturally find a way to solve this mess. Parents can also show the results of this matter in advance, so that children can predict that their ideas are wrong, so as to correct them and avoid detours.