The parents of the fourth grade parents' meeting made a short speech 202 1 teachers and parents,
Hello everyone!
I am the parent of Class 4 (1) xx. First of all, thank you very much for your careful cultivation and care for xx and all the children. At the same time, I am very grateful to all parents for giving me such an opportunity to discuss children's education with you here. As a young parent, I have no experience in educating children. The following are some suggestions and methods I have accumulated in educating children. I hope I can share it with all the parents and friends present here!
First, let your child's eyes look straight at you.
When children look at their parents from an upward perspective, they will have a strong sense of inferiority. Therefore, we should bend down and make equal friends with our children. At this time, you will find that children are eager for their parents' eyes to be on an equal footing with themselves, and they hope that they can communicate with their parents on an equal footing. Parents' respect for their children is not only reflected in their eyes. It should also be manifested in the attitude towards children. Gentle tone, attentive listening and harmonious atmosphere will cultivate children's self-confidence and affection for their parents. There is only one child now, and I am lonely at home. So I always try to take time out to communicate with my children, regard them as my friends, read books, play games, watch TV and listen to music with them, and sometimes take them out to the bookstore. Sometimes when he is upset, he will talk to him about his work and classmates. He is very interested and sometimes gives me some advice. Ridiculous as it is, he has learned to comfort people. I want him to know that adults are sometimes unhappy and it is not easy for adults.
Second, let children lose their crutches and learn to take responsibility.
Many parents simply understand love for their children as doting. Many children live a life of "clothes to reach out, food to mouth". Perhaps parents' subjective intention is to let children spend more time learning knowledge, but this is actually counterproductive, which makes children have a kind of dependence psychology and regard their parents as crutches. On the long road of life, children may fall heavily when they encounter setbacks. Although the child is young, he can't ignore it.
Cultivation of sense of responsibility. I will pay attention to cultivating him from the details of life. For example, when I do cleaning, I will ask him to help me clean the glass, doors and windows of the table, and pay attention to my tone. I will start to say, "Please, son …" You help me … "After that, I will always say," Thank you! "Although he can't do it well, even I have to do it again, but as long as he does, I will actively encourage him to form the habit of doing one thing by myself. For example, I can pour water and send garbage, and I will try to get him to buy some necessities at home. If I send him to school, I will try to make him carry a schoolbag. After finishing his homework, he will arrange his schoolbag independently and prepare clothes, shoes and socks for the next day. Pack up your toys, put the books you have read back as much as possible, put dirty clothes in the washing machine, wash your face, brush your teeth and feet, take a bath in summer, don't litter (whether at home or outside), cross the street to see the traffic lights, put the bowl in the pool for yourself to eat, and cook for yourself if you still want to eat ... Let children develop their own morality and habits of doing things and loving labor from an early age, and lay a good foundation for their future independence from society.
Third, let children study happily, and don't let them fall down during the study.
Learning is a lifelong course. Don't let children feel that learning is a burden and a kind of pressure, but let children accept it in happiness, experience it with a smile and learn actively. Want me to learn and I want to learn are two different concepts. Parents often want to cram all kinds of knowledge into their children's minds. Especially during holidays, all kinds of after-school tutoring beyond children's ability to accept follow. What parents didn't expect was that this would only backfire. After a heavy load and a long period of various studies, children's mental and physical strength will be "overdrawn" to varying degrees. Therefore, parents must selectively provide tutoring for their children according to their actual situation, and never let their children be exhausted on the journey to climb the academic peak.
Fourth, communicate with children more, love our children wholeheartedly, make friends with them, and grow up with them while educating them. I will spare some time to chat with my child every day, even if it is only ten minutes, I will ask him about his school today. In this way, over time, children have enhanced their ability to communicate with others, their courage has also improved, and they will become good friends with me, which provides a prerequisite for my future education.
Children are our hope and the future of our motherland. Believe our children, today, they are just a small bonsai at home; Tomorrow, in the vast world, they will grow into towering trees.
I hope that as parents, we should always communicate with teachers and actively assist teachers to educate children, so that children can grow up healthily and freely and have a happy and unforgettable childhood! Let's pay more attention to our children from now on, because it is our unshirkable responsibility and obligation to educate our children well!
Thank you!
Parents of the fourth-grade parent-teacher conference will make a brief speech 202 1 2, parents,
Hello everyone!
Thank you very much for attending the parent-teacher conference. For the sake of our children, I hope parents and teachers will work together to create a better present and future for their children! Teacher xx, an education expert, said: "The goal of education is to cultivate healthy personality, and the method of education is to cultivate habits." The child is in the fourth grade, which has changed a lot compared with the previous three years. Teachers and parents should master these situations and teach students in accordance with their aptitude in order to make their children grow up healthily. Let's meet the fourth grade first.
The third and fourth grades are a key grade in the primary school stage, which we call a turning point, and the fourth grade is in the late stage of the turning point. At this stage, students' body and mind and learning content will change greatly. If we ignore this stage of study, it will have a serious impact on students' future study.
1, learning content
Since the fourth grade, children's learning content has changed. The lower grades are mainly some very basic knowledge. As long as children are willing to work hard, it is generally not a problem. In middle school, the knowledge learned has changed from simple to complex, from image thinking in lower grades to abstract thinking in higher grades, which puts higher demands on students. We must have a solid grasp of the basic knowledge, read what we should read, copy what we should copy, and practice what we should practice. But at the same time, we should also expand children's thinking and consider problems from different angles.
2. Psychological aspects
When a child grows up, he learns to think, he learns to read and listen. People he likes are willing to communicate with you, and people he doesn't like will oppose you. Moreover, he will keep some things in his heart and doesn't like to communicate with teachers and parents. If you care about him and attach importance to him, maybe he will tell you his heart when he is happy, and bury it in his heart when he is unhappy, so that you can't understand his thoughts and he can't guide his study. In addition, parents should also
Grasping the scale of criticism, children's self-esteem is gradually enhanced at this stage, that is, we usually say that children know "embarrassment" and he is afraid of "losing face", so parents should grasp the scale when educating their children.
Next, I would like to make some suggestions for today's parents' meeting for reference only:
First, we should attach importance to school education and family education.
Someone once asked the question: What is the most important educational institution in the world? Some people say it's a prestigious school, some say it's a basic primary and secondary school, and some say it's a melting pot of society. And the answer of an educator is-family. Family is the main battlefield of education. Especially in the current large class, the education mode is oriented to the whole class, and most of the education and teaching have the same content, so it is difficult to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. It is the unshirkable responsibility of parents to guide their children's personality development.
However, many parents believe that whether children can receive a good education depends on whether they can send their children to a good school and meet smart teachers, but they ignore the influence of family on their growth. Results The educational effect of 5+2 was less than 7. In fact, after a little meditation, we will find that the students trained by the same school and the same teacher are very different. Where does this difference come from? Mainly from family, of course. Families with rich books, parents with good reading habits, children will slowly make friends with books when they come into contact with it; Parents don't like reading, so it's hard to make children like reading. Parents themselves and the way parents educate their children directly affect their development.
Share the story 1: Share the story of Apple.
In order to study the influence of mother on people's life, an American psychologist selected 50 successful people and 50 people with criminal records in the United States to write to them respectively, asking them to talk about the influence of mother on them. Two of them talked about the same thing: sharing apples.
A letter was written by a prisoner in a prison: When I was a child, one day my mother brought some apples of different sizes, and I really wanted that red and big apple. Unexpectedly, my brother typed what I wanted to say. His mother glared at him and scolded him, saying, "A good boy should learn to give good things to others instead of thinking about himself." . Seeing that my brother was criticized, I had a brainwave and said, "Mom, I want the smallest apple. Leave the biggest to my brother. " My mother was very happy and gave me a big red apple as a reward. From then on, I learned to lie.
Another letter was written by a famous person in the White House: When I was a child, my mother took out several apples of different sizes one day. My brothers and I are fighting for a bigger one. Mother took the reddest and biggest apple in her hand and said to us, "This apple is the reddest, the biggest and the most delicious. Everyone wants to eat it. So, let's have a game. I will divide the lawn in front of the door into three parts. Each of you is responsible for pruning. Whoever does it fastest and best has the right to get it. " The three of us competed to weed, and I won the biggest apple. I am very grateful to my mother, who made me understand the simplest and most important truth. -everything depends on labor!
It can be seen that no one can replace the careful care and guidance of parents for their children! Therefore, at any time, don't exaggerate the educational function of the school and ignore the education of the family.
Second, pay more attention to test scores and good habits.
Score is very important because it reflects the children's learning situation in a certain period; But I think good habits are beneficial for life. It is never too late to learn knowledge, but it is important to form habits when you are young. As the saying goes: look at the old at three. If a child develops the habit of loving reading, doing things seriously, learning to listen to others, doing things in a planned and orderly way, and thinking for others, his grades will certainly not be bad, and the final winner will definitely belong to him!
Speaking of grades, I want to talk about how to treat children's grades correctly.
First, don't judge children's progress and backwardness by scores, but measure them according to the difficulty of test papers, compare them with the whole class, and evaluate them in combination with children's learning attitude.
Second, don't compare the scores of grade one with those of grade one. With the increase of grade, the content of the exam is also deepening. There are more and more knowledge outside books, more and more questions that need to be studied and applied flexibly, more and more attention is paid to thinking training, and more and more contents are used to examine children's comprehensive application ability. No matter where there is a weak link, once it is tested, it may go wrong.
The third is to shift the emphasis on scores to the emphasis on exam summary. The purpose of the exam is not to say who is higher or lower, but to find problems, find weak links, and timely check for leaks and fill gaps. So, don't just look at the score after each exam. You should patiently analyze the gains and losses with your children and make a targeted study plan for their weaknesses, so as to make continuous progress.
Speaking of the cultivation of children's habits, many parents will say: children don't listen to me. But think about it, isn't the child's good habits cultivated a little? Now that children are still young, it is the best stage to cultivate good habits. You are the parents of the children, and their food, clothing, housing and transportation depend on you. It's a little unreasonable for you to say that children don't listen to you. In order to make children have a good habit, we must use our brains and work hard. If we believe in "letting nature take its course" and let it develop, it will be even more impossible to form a habit when we grow up.
Nowadays, children do everything too easily, so there is no luxury, no luxury, no pursuit, no pursuit and no sense of competition. If you want your child to develop a good habit or get rid of a bad habit, you might as well try to implement certain reward measures. Don't meet his demands easily, let him exchange his efforts for the realization of his wishes. For example, if a child wants to buy roller skates, you might as well make an agreement with him: if you can insist on reading extracurricular books for 30 minutes every day, when you insist on reading them for a month, I will satisfy your wish; In other words, let the children jump to pick peaches, and there will be motivation if there is pressure. At the same time, try to let beneficial behavior occupy his space, good habits gradually form and bad habits naturally disappear.
Share Story 2: Crops and Weeds
A philosopher took his disciples around the world. After traveling to many countries and visiting many famous universities, they all returned to the starting point. Before entering the city, the philosopher and his disciples sat down on the grass in the suburbs. The philosopher said, "When you finish your studies, today we will have the last lesson." You see, the wilderness around us is full of weeds. What I want to know now is how to eradicate these weeds. "The disciples were very surprised at the teacher's question. They didn't expect that the philosopher who has been exploring the mysteries of life asked such a simple question in the last lesson.
A disciple said first, "Teacher, a shovel is enough." "It is also a good idea to use fire."
"Sprinkle lime and you can shovel all the weeds."
"Just mow the grass and remove the roots and dig them out."
When all the disciples had finished speaking, the philosopher stood up and said, "class is over." When you go back, you will all get rid of a weed in your own way. If it hasn't been removed, come back today after one year. "
A year later, they all came. However, they found that the place where they met was no longer overgrown with weeds, but a field full of millet. When they came to the place where they sat last year, they didn't see the philosopher, but found a note that said, "The best way to eradicate weeds in the field is to make crops grow well." Similarly, if you want your child to get rid of bad habits, you can only find ways to cultivate good habits to occupy his mind.
There is little difference in IQ between children. The reason why the difference in grades is getting bigger and bigger is, in the final analysis, because of the difference in habits. Children with good habits are getting better and better, and children with bad habits will get worse and worse.
3. Pay attention to book knowledge and extracurricular reading.
The basic knowledge in books is like a brick and tile in Gai Lou, which is essential; But I think reading is like a foundation that must be dug deep to build a tall building. Only when the foundation is deep, the building will be strong and firm.
Share Story 3: Mao Mao Grass
There is a kind of hairy grass on the African grassland, which is one of the highest growing hairy grasses in Africa and has the reputation of "king of grassland", but its growth process is very strange. In the first six months. It is almost the shortest grass on the grassland, only one inch high, and people can't even see it growing. During that time, any kind of weeds on the grassland grew more vigorously than it, and no one could see that Cao Mao would be the "king of grassland" in the future! But after half a year, the rain came, and it seemed to be enchanted and grew up at a rate of one and a half feet a day. In three to five days, it will grow to a height of one meter six to two meters.
Scientists' research shows that grass grows all the time, but not in the body, but in the roots. In six months, the root of the grass has grown to more than 28 meters, silently preparing for its future. How rare it is that the root of a grass is more than 28 meters long. When enough nutrition and energy are accumulated, the grass will grow up in just a few days and become the "king of grassland".
In fact, it is the same for us to lead our children to read extracurricular books. Maybe we can't see any difference between children who don't study at the moment and children who don't study at the moment, and we can't see any difference in grades. But please believe in the truth that "many a mickle makes a mickle". It won't be long before you can see the difference. Children who love reading have active thinking, strong understanding, reading comprehension, writing ability and flexible learning and application ability.
Can get good performance! Those children who don't study can get temporary good grades even if they cram books. After all, they have no potential! A child who loves reading will show his wisdom and civilization more and more!
The most famous educator Suhomlinski said: The only way to make children smart is to read, read and read again! Therefore, it is imperative to attach importance to extracurricular reading! If the child has not fallen in love with reading, please find out why. Do you regard extracurricular reading as necessary nutrition for children's healthy growth? If not, act quickly! Reading with your child for half an hour every day will make you feel what a wonderful thing it is!
Thank you!
The parents of the fourth grade parents' meeting made a short speech 202 1 teachers and parents,
Hello everyone!
I am the mother of Class One (1) xx. First of all, I am very grateful to the class teacher for giving me such a good opportunity to discuss children's education with you. I am also very grateful to all the teachers for their careful cultivation of Zhang Jiadong. The progress of children in school is permeated with the hard work of teachers. Here, please allow me to say, on behalf of the parents present, "Thank you for your hard work."
In fact, speaking of family education experience, compared with the parents present, I have not done enough. As the saying goes, "parents are children's first teachers". Many good qualities and habits of children need the correct guidance and supervision of parents at home. Let me briefly introduce my own practice:
First, give children more praise and encouragement.
Some people say that "a good boy likes to brag". I quite agree with this view. As long as the child makes a little progress, we should praise her in time, make her feel a sense of accomplishment, urge him to make persistent efforts, and try not to scold her face to face when she regresses. Don't compare your children with other people's children. When I go home at the moment, my daughter can always pass me the slippers. Always let me eat first when eating. I always say, "hey, our little darling has grown up, and I understand that I love my mother." My daughter is always flattered and will be more diligent next time. There are many bright spots in each of our children. If parents often praise and encourage their children, they will certainly perform well.
Second, cultivate children's awareness and develop good habits.
Educator Sun Yunxiao said: "Habit determines the fate of children." It can be seen how important good habits are to children. The primary school stage is a stage for children to consciously and develop good habits. Parents should let their children know what is right and what is wrong. When to do your homework and when to play. Usually, I always encourage Zhang Jiadong to go to bed early and get up early. Let her get up early in the morning and see the sun. And tell her that the most beautiful sunrise can only be seen by the early child. Therefore, she gets up early every day and reads a book after reading. Children spend most of their time at school, and the school has a strong learning atmosphere. The children know what to do, but they don't know when to go home from school. So I always ask Jia Dong to finish his homework first when he comes home from school, and I don't allow his family to disturb him when he is doing his homework. Our parents make their children love reading. First of all, we should form the habit of reading. Parents bring books, and children will follow. Habits are naturally formed. I bought many story books for my daughter, and a short story every night. If you still want to see it, see it yourself. Then I read my book, and she reads her book, and she will read it with relish. But good habits are not formed overnight. Perseverance, accumulate over a long period.
Third, cultivate children's independence
Before, I was meticulous. In this way, children develop the psychology of dependence. At this moment, I won't remind her any more, and let her check her bag herself. If I bring less, the teacher criticizes me but asks. She has understood that these things in life and study are her own business, and he is responsible for his actions. I will be a responsible person in the future.
Watching children change day by day, as a parent, I see it in my eyes and like it in my heart. I understand that every progress he has made is inseparable from the teachers' earnest instruction, the selfless help of his classmates and the hard work of his parents. I have reason to believe that with our company and the teacher's scientific guidance, the child will grow up healthily and he will be our pride.
Thank you!
The parents of the fourth grade parents' meeting made a brief speech 202 1 Dear teachers and parents,
Good afternoon everyone!
I'm the mother of a child in Class Four, xx. Entrusted by the teacher yesterday, I was asked to speak at today's parent-teacher meeting as a parent representative. Seriously, I feel guilty. Because our family-both in class performance and academic performance can only belong to the upper middle school. Compared with other better parents, I still have a gap. However, I still cherish such a rare opportunity to communicate with teachers and parents.
Today, I am really honored to sit here and share some things I experienced in my study with my parents and teachers. Maybe what I said can only represent my personal views and opinions, but I am very eager to have the opportunity to learn good educational experience and methods from all outstanding parents and friends. Here it is. I also sincerely hope that my sharing will arouse your more recognition and resonance.
As a parent, I always hope that I can fully cooperate with the teacher's work and arrangement, and keep this kind of good communication and exchange with the teacher in time, so as to know the performance and learning trends in school at the first time. For a long time.-A timid and introverted child. He dare not show himself boldly in crowded places. He is always not confident enough, afraid that he can't finish the tasks and arrangements assigned by the teacher. He is very strong and has a personality. He is so eager to be recognized and liked by his classmates and teachers.
As a parent, I will be confused and contradictory. I am well aware of my lack of knowledge, and I am also afraid that I can't educate my children well. I am sometimes so timid and insecure because I am afraid that I can't keep up with the rapid growth of my children! Faced with the doubts and difficulties encountered in my study, I will not only analyze and search for information with him, but more often, I will ask-I should listen carefully in school and try to fully understand the key points and difficulties of the new knowledge in class under the patient explanation of the teacher, never pretend to understand, and I will deal with it with a little knowledge. I am also convinced that our responsible teachers will certainly welcome those children who have not learned and mastered new knowledge to come for advice and suggestions.
With the increasing difficulty of knowledge, we will worry that children's understanding ability will sometimes deviate or fail to keep up, but these are not reasons and excuses. Children can correct and correct their mistakes in time, and our parents should also adopt a normal attitude and try to forgive and tolerate their children in time. In order to make our children more active and enterprising in their studies, I think what our parents should try to do well should be to give their children more understanding and encouragement. After all, the mastery and accumulation of knowledge need a gradual process, right? We shouldn't be so utilitarian and impatient!
As for writing, I still advocate children's free play. Although their vocabulary and extracurricular knowledge are still limited, their imaginative thinking and happy innocence can't be replaced by anyone, even their parents can't replace their thinking and creativity. Even if their writing is not ideal, we don't have to be too impatient. Let's read, watch, share and learn those excellent exercises with our children as much as possible. I believe that rich extracurricular knowledge will not only make their life full of joy and fun, but more often, the accumulation of this knowledge will also play an invisible role in his future writing. Of course, there are not many geniuses in learning, and that will always be very few. Most children are just like mine-so ordinary and ordinary. But what does it matter? We can still teach them to be themselves; Be the most diligent and hardworking self; Be yourself that teachers and classmates like to appreciate, right?
Thank you, my speech is over!