For example, when my daughter comes home from school, the first thing is to turn on the TV and watch cartoons. She didn't do her homework until I came back from work, and she relied on me very much in the process of doing her homework. She will play tricks to let me play with her. At first, I felt sorry for my child, but it was definitely not good after a long time. I must cultivate her habit of doing her homework independently. One day after I made up my mind, I told her seriously that my mother would not help you with your homework in the future, so you should do it yourself. After finishing your homework, mom will give you a thumbs-up to praise you. If you don't do it, the other children will hand in your homework the next day, but you can't, because then my mother won't help you. I showed a firm attitude in front of her. She lost her temper and found it useless. The first time she struggled to finish the paste homework, the second time she consciously completed the graphic drawing homework, the third time she consciously completed the graphic alternating homework, and the fourth time ... Now she will happily poke me with her thumb after finishing her homework to show that she is great. After that, I asked her to put it in a small schoolbag every time she finished her homework.
What I am trying to do now is to encourage her to read more books. She loves to let me read to me word by word with the word card the baby brought back from school. Of course, I will praise and encourage her every progress and give her confidence and courage.
At school, teachers are hard-working gardeners, helping children learn and irrigate knowledge; At home, our parents are like fertile soil, providing a nutritional basis for children's growth. Let's work together for the healthy growth of children!
As Ren's mother, I try my best to be a "good parent".
For kindergarten activities, we actively participate, almost never miss an activity, and are happy to participate in parent-child activities with children. On weekdays, the tasks assigned by the teacher are also completed as required, or completed by the children independently or together. If the teacher will update the learning content in Baby Good, we will study it again and record the learning results and send them.
Pay close attention to the official WeChat account of kindergarten every day, learn about children's learning activities in the park, learn parenting knowledge, and constantly explore good parenting methods based on their own actual situation.
At the same time, I read books with my children almost every day, including all kinds of picture books, smart tigers, children's pictorial and so on. Spend as much time with my children as possible.
Advanced deeds of kindergarten parents' school III. It is an honor to be rated as a class of excellent parents. My daughter is not necessarily the best child in the class, but as an ordinary mother, I can definitely say proudly, "My daughter is the most motivated child in the class!" " Her progress is inseparable from the hard education of teachers Liu and Cao, and also from the good cooperation of her hometown. The following is my experience of growing up with my daughter, and I hope to share it with you.
First, be a man before being a man, pay attention to the education and cultivation of children's character from an early age, and care for the common growth of children's physical and mental health.
As a social person, you must have excellent qualities such as honesty, respect, responsibility and tolerance in order to become an outstanding talent recognized by the society. Shaping children's good character is more important than intellectual development, and the influence of environment plays a decisive role in the development of character. At home, we teach our children to respect the old and love the young from an early age. My daughter is a sensible boy. She often helps grandma do housework at home, sweeps the floor and washes the dishes, brushes her teeth and washes her face every day, and actively shares her favorite food with adults. In the life of kindergarten, teachers carry out the reading education of Disciples Rules. As parents, we very much agree. Disciples Rules is the principle of being a man and teaches us how to be a man. The most important thing in life is character. If you want to do something, be a man first. Civilized and healthy conduct and noble moral sentiments are the basics of being a man. In this way, Disciple Rules also came to our home, and children at home often use it to read it every day. Good character and virtue can not be acquired overnight, but must be accumulated bit by bit in life. I believe that with the correct education of teachers and the active cooperation of parents, children will have excellent character.
The healthy and happy growth of children is the greatest wish of every parent, but problems will inevitably be encountered in the process of growth. When I first entered the middle class, it was the teacher who first noticed that the children urinated more often before taking a nap, and suggested that parents go to the hospital to see a doctor. After several weeks of observation, it was found that the reason why children urinate frequently before going to bed is that they are afraid of wetting the bed. Teachers and parents have repeatedly advised children that the number of times they pee before going to bed has nothing to do with bed wetting, but children simply don't listen. After many times of communication with teachers Cao and Liu, I agree that if parents and teachers stop to be anxious, children will feel guilty about making mistakes. Therefore, the joint efforts of the family are not to strengthen this kind of behavior, but to dilute this kind of behavior, so that children feel that this is a normal behavior and will not be stopped and criticized. Facts have proved that relaxed children have the ability of self-regulation, and gradually understand that the two are irrelevant, and this strange and troublesome problem disappears. Family cooperation helps children overcome difficulties and become good children with physical and mental health.
Secondly, the colorful educational and teaching activities in kindergartens have cultivated children's extensive interests and hobbies, which has enabled our children to develop in all aspects. Actively participate in kindergarten parents' activities and communicate with parents in time.
Because the work unit is far from the urban area, it is impossible to pick up and drop off children every day. But I will definitely come to the parents' open day every month. I actively cooperate with and support the work of teachers. I will always finish what the teacher needs our parents to bring in the teaching activities. The colorful education and teaching activities carried out by teachers have enabled our children to develop in all aspects.
The activities of finger reading and picture book reading have been carried out in the garden since childhood, which has made my daughter a good child who loves reading and benefits for life. I remember the first time I heard the teacher introduce the method of reading and writing, and it felt very fresh. At that time, I tried card literacy at home, and the children felt bored and contradictory. Later, I also started telling stories by pointing to Chinese characters, and the long-term effect was good. We haven't attended extracurricular literacy classes, but now parents are also very satisfied with their children's literacy, which is inseparable from the effectiveness of kindergarten teaching. Speaking of picture book reading, we are even more excited, which brings us more benefits. Children have a strong ability to read pictures and can speak their own picture books; Let me tell stories every day until my mouth is thirsty. In life, parents always earnestly tell their children a lot of truth, and as a result, their children don't understand and have little effect. In fact, there are many reasons in the picture book. The good habit and good character of a child who grew up feeding storybooks are naturally formed unconsciously. In order to create a good reading environment for children, I also omitted watching TV and surfing the Internet, and read with children.
Since the middle class, we have participated in the learning activities of official documents, and the children have been able to add 3 skillfully. We often receive short messages from teachers instructing parents how to write official documents at home. At first, the children wrote official documents and I stared at them. When I'm wrong, I take an eraser and wipe it beside me, just like an "eraser" mother. Later, I found that children should be allowed to do it independently, self-check like kindergarten, and cultivate their independence. In the activities of parents' open day, we learned that Mr. Liu used interesting teaching methods to let children know odd and even numbers and learn knowledge through games and happiness.
Cultivate children's extensive interests and develop their imagination. Parent-child activities in cooking dishes are interesting and improve children's practical ability and imagination. When cooking for the first time last year, in order to pursue perfection, I participated more in the production of dishes. Although children like well-cooked dishes, they are a little unhappy because they didn't cook them themselves. This year's dishes are all painted by children themselves, using a variety of pigments, oil pastels and gouache to create an underwater world with oil-water separation effect. The child excitedly went to kindergarten with a satisfactory plate all the way.
Third, give children free space and a relaxed growth environment, so that children can return to self-confidence.
It is the wish of every parent to hope that their children will grow up healthily and happily, have independent personality and study hard, but it often backfires. Like many parents, I also have the confusion of parenting. Why does my child behave unconfident in communication and study life? In the communication with Mr. Cao, I mentioned that Xuan is a strong child. He is easily upset when he meets difficulties and often says that he can't do it. Teacher Cao suggested not being too strict with children, but encouraging them more. Indeed, in daily life, I am too strict with my children and interfere too much, which leads to their lack of independence and self-confidence. For this reason, I also read many parenting books, such as Love and Freedom and The Complete Book of Success, which deeply inspired me. "I think people are people, and people have a natural instinct. People naturally know what they need and what they should do. " This sentence deeply shocked me. Yes, please believe in children. Children know good or bad and know how to do it. Parents' constant nagging and urging will only make children rebellious; Too much parental intervention will only make children lack independence. Love the child, please set her free, please trust the child.
I often find reward stickers on children's clothes when they come back from kindergarten. There are prize flowers in the schoolbag, and the child told me that there are prize chocolates. Indeed, appreciation education can greatly cultivate children's self-confidence. In life, children are often praised concretely but not empty, so that children can grow up happily in the mentality of "I am a good boy". Children are fragile and sensitive. Proper appreciation is a kind of correct love and an encouragement and appreciation for children. Last week, Teacher Liu told me that Jessica Hester Hsuan no longer shouted "No" in origami, but she could climb high with confidence when playing naughty castle. She was very happy and had many conversations with the children. My change and the teacher's hard education have made my children make such progress, which makes us very happy.
Fourth, go into nature, follow the child's innate nature, and let her accept the enlightenment of nature in her favorite state. Feel the changes of the four seasons with children's sensitive hearts.
Every spring and autumn, kindergartens have been to zoos, botanical gardens, picking and so on. The teachers took pains to lead the children to appreciate nature, and the children were very excited when they came home. I have read a book by Chi Li, Come on Children, in which it is mentioned that "I believe that a child's impressions and feelings about nature are fertile ground for the germination of wisdom seeds. It is difficult to estimate the richness of knowledge gained by such learning, and the knowledge gained in this way has a more lasting impact on a person. " The teacher asked parents to grow beans and bring them to class, which provided children with an opportunity to be familiar with the growth process of plants. Parents cooperate with teachers to bring pictures of spring, so that children can observe the changes of the four seasons with keen eyes. At home, I plant grass dolls with my children. Water every day, and after a week, hairy grass grows. The children are very happy. One day, the child was surprised to find that there were beautiful water lilies on the duckweed in the park he went to every weekend. The child opened his mouth in surprise and was moved by the beautiful scenery. We also went to see the "Big Begonia Season", and a week later, the children will go to see the "Pool Flower". I told her that the flowering period of begonia is very short and it has withered. Yes! The enlightenment of nature to children's knowledge is incomparable with book knowledge.
The above is my experience of growing up with my children. I hope to be friends with my children and listen to their voices. Give children free room for growth and a harmonious family atmosphere, and let them become independent, confident, dedicated, cheerful and kind people. Thanks to the hard work of kindergarten teachers in the critical period of children's enlightenment.
Advanced deeds of kindergarten parents and schools 4 There will always be countless troubles on the road of baby's growth, and I will patiently help the baby solve them together. I remember when I took Mao Mao shopping, Mao Mao always cried when she saw her favorite toy. At that time, we will try our best to satisfy the baby as long as she is happy. However, with the growth of Mao Mao's age, we gradually guided and encouraged her. With the help of our teacher, we agreed with Mao Mao that we would give her a big surprise every year on her birthday, and Mao Mao was glad to agree to this request. Similarly, our parents must remember that we can't just write a bad check to our baby, as promised.
The advanced deeds of kindergarten parents and schools 5. I follow the natural curriculum in treating children. I will encourage my children to do what they like, and I will not be reluctant to do what I don't like or even fear, but gradually guide them.
Let's share the process of recording New Year's video in our family. At first, Mao Mao Lane was a bit hesitant when recording. I said to her, "If the teachers see this video, they will be disappointed, because the rain in Mao Mao looks unhappy and the teachers will be unhappy when they see it, so we stopped filming, but she immediately said," Mom, let me try again. I grabbed the child and said, "I encourage and hug my baby, give her the best sense of security and reassure her." To quote Yin Jianli: "The most beautiful education is the simplest". What children need is their parents' hugs and patient companionship. Perfection is the most imperfect way Without temper, there will be education. As long as the method is correct, they can make a difference.
I am the mother of Sun Jiaqi in Class Two. Thank you very much for giving me this rare opportunity to participate in the selection of "good parents" in Golden Apple Kindergarten. At the same time, I feel very uneasy, because I know that many parents have a very good and scientific concept of parenting. Today, I would like to share with you some of my feelings about educating children.
Family education is closely integrated with school education. Family education is the foundation of all education, and the first place where children receive education from birth is the family. When I was a child, I insisted on starting with small details in my life. After entering the school, I didn't relax my responsibilities. Pay attention to children's study and life at school every day. I will take every message sent by the teacher in the QQ class group seriously. Encourage and support children to actively participate in various activities organized by the school. I think the combination of family education and school education is a complete education system, and Golden Apple Kindergarten has done a very good job in this respect. Parents are duty-bound to educate their children, and it is also necessary for the whole family to mobilize to cultivate their children's good study and living habits. The baby has performed well in all aspects since he went to school, which is inseparable from the teacher's inculcation!
Children are the future and hope of the motherland. Educating children is not only a school matter, but also requires the cooperation of families and the attention of society. The process of educating children has a long way to go. As a parent, I will grow up with my children!
Materials of Advanced Deeds of Kindergarten Parents and Schools 7 Adhere to close contact with schools and society, and strive to learn and master the scientific knowledge and methods of educating children. Holding a parent-teacher conference at school is an activity that I am extremely concerned about. No matter how busy I am, I will take time to take an active part. This is not only to improve their own quality, but also to respect children, so that children feel that they attach great importance to her and that her affairs are no small matter. I will take an active part in school activities and guide my children to make excellent works. In all the projects my parents participated in, I strive to achieve excellent results. This is also my best chance to establish authority in front of my children.
Every day when I come home from school, my children and I will "chat" for half an hour, talking about the happiest or saddest things of the day, or playing roles with each other, performing the most interesting things of the day and sharing happiness and sadness with our children. Through this kind of chat, not only the children's retelling ability and memory ability are improved, but also their unique spiritual feelings can be shared, so that they can enter their young and pure world.