"If I learn a little good temper, if I learn a little kindness to others, if I can forgive and understand others-I have to thank my mother." The touching words of Hu Shi, a famous modern scholar, and the unforgettable feelings for my mother have been swirling in my mind. After reading Hu Shi's My Mother in one breath, I couldn't help but burst into tears. I deeply feel that this will be a valuable asset for everyone who has become a parent, or will soon become a parent, or will become a parent in the future. Hu Shi's mother and Hu Shi explained the philosophy of family education with their true love and truth-exchanging true love for true life.
Hu Shi lost his father when he was a child, and his mother propped up the whole family with her thin body. At home, the mother plays the role of loving mother strict father-not only to pour maternal love into children, let them feel the warmth of home, but also to strictly control children and let them learn how to behave. Facts have proved that Hu's kindness and strictness have fulfilled her responsibilities as a parent and won the respect of her children, which has to make us respect her. At the same time, we also learned the true meaning of successful family education: true love equals temperate, strict and dignified love.
It is often said that parents are children's first teachers. Yes, family education is both enlightenment education and lifelong education. In the face of education in the new century, developed countries such as the United States, Britain and Japan have clearly pointed out that "the main factor of successful education lies in the family environment", "the reform of education should start from the family" and "parents are the first teachers" have been fully implemented. This shows that family education plays an important role in modern social education. Family education in China has a glorious tradition. The story of Meng Mu and his mother-in-law educating their children is well known, but there is such a misunderstanding in modern family education: excessive love, strict requirements and unqualified. The "doting" and "doting" on children make them lose the opportunity to hone in difficult environment and setbacks from an early age. In addition, the "stick education" and "hate iron not to produce steel" failed to meet high expectations, which made many parents lose their educational direction, which was an "invisible disaster" and seriously distorted their young and tender hearts. Various indications show that the current situation of family education is worrying, so we expect more "Meng Mu", "mother-in-law" and "Hu-ma" to let more children get true love in healthy family education.
In My Mother, Hu Shi said that she was both a loving mother and the mother of strict father: she urged me to get up early and go to school in the morning every day, asking me to be a complete person like my father; She never scolds me or hits me in front of others. When I make a mistake, no matter how heavy the punishment is, my mother always forbids me to cry. She taught her son not to take it out for others to listen to. My mother is the kindest and gentlest to others and has never said anything that hurts her feelings. My mother is very angry and her personality is not insulted. Hu's mother's thoughts and principles of early childhood education are advanced. Her mother's words and deeds influenced Hu Shi's life. The mother's personality charm made Hu Shi a magnanimous, generous and wise generation of celebrities, and Hu's mother won Hu Shi's true feelings with true love. Here, I look forward to more "Hu Shi phenomenon" and new hot spots, new atmosphere and new templates for successful family education. I really hope that the stories of "mother-in-law" and "mother-in-law" will promote the growth, maturity and success of good parents in the new era one after another.
True love needs to be paid, and true love will be rewarded. A day with love is a beautiful day, and a life with love is a beautiful life. Hu Shi showed his true feelings and love for his mother with his sincerity and affection, and his works also told us an irrefutable truth: only true love can bring true feelings. I hope all parents who want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed can realize the true meaning of family education from Hu Shi's mother's educational enlightenment to their children-true love equals temperate, strict and dignified love.