Too much talk.
Reasoning is an important way to educate children, but if you talk too much, children may feel annoyed and bored. Therefore, parents should express their views concisely and clearly to make it easier for children to understand.
Lack of persuasion
To make children listen to themselves, we must find convincing reasons. Parents need to think from the child's point of view and understand the child's needs and ideas in order to better convince the child.
Lack of authority
Parents need to show an authoritative attitude and let their children realize that their parents' words are worth listening to. However, authority does not mean arrogance, and parents need to show their wisdom and warmth in their words and deeds.
Inconsistent signal
Parents need to be consistent in their values and educational policies and send a clear signal. If parents disagree on their children's education, children will feel confused and uneasy.
Words differ from deeds.
Leading by example is an important way to educate children, and the role of parents as role models is very important. If parents don't do what they say, children will feel confused and uneasy.