Sometimes, children's education is about basic skills, as well as parents' attitude towards life and feelings about life. In other words, parents will participate in education for life. Only a few lucky people can continue to work hard. They continue to explore, expand and update their understanding of the world until the end of their lives. Only in this way can we keep an exploratory heart and learn more new knowledge, so as to bring a broader world outlook to our children.

Most parents lack a lasting and in-depth understanding of children and education. I suddenly realized that I had to deal with it quickly. Seeing the children's disappointments, I began to worry about their college entrance examination ten years later, their marriage fifteen years later and their career twenty years later. ...

And this kind of worry itself will ruin the child's future. Parents are worried because they have been paying attention to their children intermittently. If children have problems, they will pay more attention. If there are no obvious problems, they will pay less attention. There is a lack of macro control over children's education. I have no idea what to do and what not to do. Therefore, there is a lack of certainty about the future development of children. If you're not sure, panic.

Many mothers, after finishing their study career, have jobs, families and children, have achieved superficial "perfection" and given up self-exploration. Life follows the "most comfortable principle" and looks carefree, relaxed, free, stable and enviable.

In fact, many life problems have not been completed, but have just been put aside. For example, this is like a "growth cliff". Many mothers think that they have chosen a comfortable path, but the result is passively in trouble. In the end, it was not less, but more.

Choosing to grow up with children means re-examining the three most basic relationships, facing life problems, seeking answers and improving yourself. We are either 18 years old or adults in the true sense. At some point, we are just super children. We have accumulated a lot of hidden injuries in our growth, and many growth tasks have not been completed. Getting along with children once again surfaced, which is also a good clue. When we feel sleepy and at a loss, we might as well stop and see what is holding us back.

The king of educating children is to cultivate themselves persistently. The most ideal state-what children know, we understand; What children don't understand, we do. At least, we have to have an intersection with children. This long search process is not only for yourself, but also for children. Children's starting point is their parents' shoulders. Therefore, children will never have the same starting line.