On the big screen, there is a turquoise cover, a floor with black and white squares, and books and various toys in the bookcase. The monster sat leisurely on the top of the bookcase, crossing his legs and turning over Cong's picture book ... When the cover of this picture book "Wait a minute, Cong Cong" caught my parents' eyes, I heard whispering laughter.
On the title page of the book, there is a white wall and a black and white checkered floor. Cong Cong has his hands in his pockets and his eyes are full of silent chatting. He walks alone blankly. The story begins with this long black and white square, and the classroom becomes quiet.
Dad is busy hammering nails into the wall.
Cong Cong said, "Hey! Dad! "
Dad said, "Wait a minute, Cong Cong. Dad is not available now. "
Mother is busy cleaning up the dishes in the kitchen.
Cong Cong said, "Hey! Mom! "
Mother said, "Wait a minute, Cong Cong. Mom is not available now. "
Mom and dad here smile at each other.
Cong Cong said, "Mom, there is a monster in the garden who wants to eat me."
Mom said impatiently, "Wait a minute, Congcong, mom is not available now!" " "
"You see, the water in the flowerpot overflowed and flowed onto the table. Does mom really have no time at all? "
"Congcong came to the garden alone. He said to the monster, "Hey! Hello, monster! "The monster ate Cong Cong in one bite." On the screen, the plush monster is holding a shoe of Congcong. I found many parents looked at each other, and some even opened their eyes in surprise.
Then, the monster walked into Congcong's home. The tense atmosphere spread in the classroom air, and heavy breathing came and went.
Congcong's mother is busy repainting the wall with purple wall paint with fruit green.
The monster walked behind Congcong's mother and let out a cry.
"Wait a minute, Congcong. Mom is not available now. "
Congcong's father sat cross-legged on the sofa, busy reading the newspaper.
The monster opened his mouth wide and bit Congcong's father.
"Wait a minute, Congcong. Dad is not available now. "
"It's time to eat." Cong Cong's mother said. Mother put Congcong's dinner in front of the TV.
The monster ate all his dinner. He also watched TV for a while. Read a clever comic book. Broke a clever toy.
Someone chuckled and his voice was full of depression. Someone let out a sigh. Someone blushed and they saw themselves inside.
Cong Cong's mother shouted, "Cong Cong, it's time for bed. Your milk has been taken away. " The monster went upstairs to get ready for bed. The monster drank a glass of milk and said loudly, "Hello, I am a monster."
"Congcong, mom is not available now, so hurry to sleep!" Cong Cong's mother said distressfully.
The story is over. Nobody laughed.
(2) Discussion
Question 1: How should we love our children?
"As parents, we are constantly busy, busy, busy with work, busy with trivial matters and busy making money. In the final analysis, it is also for children. "
"We don't know what children really need. We believe that creating comfortable living conditions for children is our love for them. In fact, the child just wants us to be with him. "
"Are we really that busy? Now that I think about it, actually many things are not so important and urgent. The bowl can be washed later, and the newspaper can be read later. "
"We always thought we loved children. It turns out that we don't love, don't know how to love, and don't understand what children need most. "
Question 2: Will there be such a monster?
"We are always busy and the children feel lonely. He wants to look for it, but he is too young to know that it is the monster standing in front of him. "
"I think the child seems to have turned into a monster. He swaggered into the house, yelling at his mother, biting his father, watching TV, throwing toys, reading books and drinking milk, but as parents, we didn't realize that this was a monster. "
"It's terrible, the monster is a child, the child becomes a monster. He learned to yell at his mother and bite his father. At this rate, I can't imagine what else he can learn? "
"The monster turned out to be an insidious and evil temptation lurking everywhere in children's lives." When this was said, it seemed that everyone got a cold shiver.
(3) wake up
The classroom was quiet again, and everyone's face looked dignified.
"Parents and friends, this is a story that every parent should read. We adults always have such important things to do, and let the children go away again and again. After a while, they were gradually left out in the cold. The child went in a dangerous direction, and finally, he was completely swallowed up by evil, and he became evil itself. When that day came, we were all frightened, crying and shouting: evil! This is not my child, this is obviously the devil! We have forgotten that it is ourselves and our endless busyness that makes our children become evil obstacles and demons bit by bit. " When I repeated what Mr. Xu Dongmei said, I felt a biting chill in my back, and I found my voice trembling. It seems that something is pounding every parent's heart, and I hear the sound of my crazy heartbeat.
"Many times, the money and power we have can't help us educate our children. The growth of children needs spiritual attention. We love our children, but how can we love our children? Then what else can we love children? As this story tells us, everything in the world can wait, but children's education can't wait and can't wait. "
Applause sounded. Tears crept down my cheeks.
"So, parents and friends, education needs wisdom. If you want your children to be excellent, you must first be an excellent parent. What you eat and wear has little effect on children. But reading, reading with children, having common language secrets and passwords, living and growing up with children are lifelong for children. Let's talk about parent-child reading. "