However, we can't ignore the importance of family education. After all, family is the cradle of every child's life and growth.
Whether the family environment is harmonious or not will play a very important role in the growth and development of children; Parents and children get along with each other day and night, and every move, word and deed will also affect children subtly.
It is precisely because of this that parents should not put all the responsibility of educating their children on the school, but should play their own role in helping their children grow up healthily.
There is such an excellent boy who grew up in a beautiful family environment.
His parents not only attach importance to his study, but also attach importance to teaching him the truth of being a man. After years of hard training, he has become a teenager with excellent academic performance. He is not only sensible, filial and helpful, but also deeply loved by everyone.
In the college entrance examination in 2020, he got a good score of 675 points, became the top scholar in science county, and was admitted to Tsinghua University.
The boy named Yao Yudong comes from Huining County, Gansu Province.
His parents are both intellectuals, and his mother is a primary school Chinese teacher. She knows that "parents' words and deeds are the best education for children" and has always attached importance to "setting an example" since children are sensible.
Yao Yudong's father likes calligraphy, and when he is free, he will splash ink and write a silver hook-like handwriting.
At this time, children are always very excited. He will help his father spread paper and polish ink. After writing, the father and son will appreciate and comment and feel full of fun.
Yao Yudong's mother is a music lover. She taught herself the accordion and guzheng and often played beautiful music at home.
Influenced by his parents, Yao Yudong has also become a versatile child. He can play basketball, like reading literary classics and play the piano. He was also admitted to CET-6, but unfortunately, he was too busy studying in grade three to continue the exam.
But now, after studying, he still plays the electronic piano from time to time to help him relieve the pressure of study.
In addition to artistic edification of children, parents also pay special attention to creating a harmonious family environment.
Usually at home, they never quarrel, always love each other and care about each other, and their tone of voice is also very cordial, which makes the family atmosphere warm and harmonious.
Yao Yudong grew up in a loving environment and developed an optimistic personality and a good attitude.
Not only that, parents also pay special attention to their children's moral education.
Every year during the wheat harvest, parents will take their children back to their hometowns to help their grandparents. On the one hand, they can exercise children's ability and perseverance. On the other hand, children can also be close to the elderly and learn to honor them.
This family attaches great importance to filial piety, which has been passed down from generation to generation and has developed a good family style. With this kind of education, children also grow into honest, kind, filial and lovely people.
In terms of study, Yao Yudong's parents have always advocated not to put too much pressure on their children. In particular, the father always said, "Believe in the child's ability, don't always take care of him, urge him and refuse to let go".
When Yao Yudong was in primary school, his father's education was "semi-grazing"-giving him a study plan and letting him carry it out according to the plan, without disturbing him or interfering with the details of his study.
Father thinks that children have their own set of learning steps, and asking questions rashly will disrupt children's arrangements, so he mainly encourages and reminds them and rarely urges them.
Needless to say, my father's education method is really effective. Yao Yudong has developed a good habit of studying independently according to the plan since he was a child.
He usually gets up around 5: 20 in the morning. At this time, he felt that his mind was clearest and the effect of memorizing knowledge points was solid.
After a morning of intense study, he will give himself a 20-minute lunch break to give his tired brain a chance to relax.
School self-study at night 10: 20, and then some students will continue to "burn the midnight oil" to review, but Yao Yudong will not do this. He will take the time to wash and rest to ensure that he has enough sleep.
"I don't think learning can resist fatigue." He said this. He has been like this for three years in high school, devoted himself to his studies and was efficient; Relax completely at rest and combine work and rest.
Yao Yudong has always been among the best in his class, and became the county's top scholar in the college entrance examination.
Many people want to know how he usually studies, but he modestly says that he has no special learning methods.
But there are two things he thinks are very important, that is "diligence" and "thinking".
"Diligence" means to accomplish the learning task in a down-to-earth manner, without perfunctory or shirking. In particular, the tasks of preview before class, listening to lectures in class and consolidating after class must be completed to the letter and lay a solid foundation of knowledge.
As for "thinking", we should use more brains, ask more questions and summarize more in the learning process. If you don't do this, the knowledge you have learned is not your own. Even if you memorize knowledge by rote, you will be at a loss if the question type changes slightly.
Therefore, when he usually does problems, he always diverges his thinking, gives himself problems, or leads to more problems of the same type, and solves problems through thinking, so that the knowledge he has learned is more consolidated.
With the two magic weapons of "diligence" and "thinking", Yao Yudong became a veritable scholar and was successfully admitted to his ideal university-Tsinghua University.
While his parents are happy for him, they have not forgotten to do more for him.
Although the local performance is excellent, if you go to Tsinghua University with Crouching Tiger and Hidden Dragon, the ranking may not be so ideal.
Parents are worried that their children's emotions will be affected, so they give him a "vaccination" early, hoping that he can look at his achievements rationally, adjust his mentality, and don't be discouraged because of his temporary backwardness.
Father also encourages children to set lofty goals, study hard, be the pillars of the motherland and contribute to national construction.
I was very moved to see the picture of parents trying to persuade their children.
No wonder children are so excellent, because parents have been giving their children the best education. It is their love that holds up their flying wings.
Even the child's class teacher said with deep feelings: "The growth and success of this child is closely related to the beautiful family environment."
I believe that Yao Yudong's success story will give some inspiration to parents and friends. In life, we should not only provide children with necessary material living conditions, but also pay attention to creating a good family atmosphere, give full play to the role of "role model" and lay a solid foundation for children to become talents.