You should get rid of the idea that I am Lao Zi and you are son. You know, the paternalistic teaching method passed down from generation to generation has long been eliminated by the contemporary education system. You should put yourself in the position of your parents, not just in the position of your parents. You should be clear that children are not only your own flesh and blood, but also a member of this family. Since he was born, he has existed independently in this society. He has his own thoughts, will and strong self-esteem and needs to be respected by his parents. Only by establishing this sense of equality in children's education can children really listen to you and respect you from the heart.