On the one hand, parents should strive to cultivate their children's independent personality, don't treat their children as their private property, treat them equally in a democratic way, talk with their children and guide them to grow up healthily step by step. On the other hand, let children participate in community activities and other social activities as widely as possible, cultivate children's sociability and love to play, don't blindly compare with other children, and don't put too high and unrealistic demands on children. Excessive demands will only bring lasting sense of failure and frustration to children and dampen their enthusiasm for progress. At the same time, we should affirm and encourage children's curiosity, especially their interest and enthusiasm in exploring things or problems.
Therefore, parents must have an international vision and strategic vision when educating their children. Parents should not only pay attention to their children's knowledge intake and high scores, but also pay attention to cultivating their hobbies in all aspects, improving their comprehensive quality and cultivating their creativity. Parents should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's ideals, personality, emotions and other non-intellectual factors, encourage children to participate in interest classes, encourage and support children to participate in group activities, cultivate children's social communication skills in group activities, and let children learn to communicate, cooperate, work together and survive in activities.