Let the children have a self-knowledge. Self-knowledge, first, children should correctly understand their own strengths and abilities, and second, they should correctly treat their own shortcomings and deficiencies.

Let children learn to face other people's comments correctly, and let children understand that there will always be people who don't like themselves and people who like themselves in this world. Don't be complacent when you are praised by others, don't sell yourself short when you hear criticism from others, and learn to analyze rationally.

2, communication and guidance methods should be correct.

It is certain that children spend a lot of money when they are young, because they don't know that money is hard to come by, so they don't care so much. And parents should not blindly scold, which will only make children more rebellious and compare with each other more and more serious.

Under the erosion of vanity, adolescent children will satisfy themselves by stealing, robbing and hurting people. If parents don't guide them correctly, children's study and life will be affected, and they will seriously embark on the road of crime.

Children are born children, but we are not born parents. Parents will encounter many problems from pregnancy preparation to the birth and growth of children. I can ask Feng Li, a child-rearing expert, or communicate with other parents to learn from each other's strengths, so as to gain other people's child-rearing experience for my use and realize self-cultivation on the way of child-rearing!