(A) lack of mental health education
Teenagers are in a period of rapid physical and mental development, and their emotions are easy to fluctuate and their psychological conditions are complex. Parents should pay enough attention to their children's psychological development, but in fact, parents are seriously lacking in mental health education for teenagers. Even if children are found to have mood swings or psychological problems, parents avoid talking about them and ask them to concentrate on their studies. Long-term development, children's psychological problems can not be solved, mental health is worrying.
(B) ignoring the psychological needs of children
Parents always try their best to meet their children's material needs, but often ignore their psychological needs. Adolescence is a sensitive and rebellious period. This attitude of parents can easily lead to children's self-isolation, unable to express their needs well, affecting children's ability to communicate with others, affecting children's personality development, and children's psychological problems arise unconsciously.
Improper family upbringing
Family rearing patterns can be divided into four types: democratic, authoritarian, doting and laissez-faire. Among them, democracy is a kind of family education method worth advocating. Autocracy, connivance and laissez-faire are all inappropriate ways of family education, which will affect children's mental health to varying degrees.
Third, give full play to the positive influence of family education on teenagers' mental health.
(1) Face up to and strengthen the mental health education of teenagers.
Parents should pay enough attention to the mental health education of teenagers. On the one hand, parents should pursue the coordinated development of grades and physical and mental health. Parents should abandon the "learning-oriented" educational concept, fully understand the importance of mental health and the serious consequences of psychological problems, and pay attention to the healthy development of children's body and mind while urging their children to study, so that children can develop in an all-round way. On the other hand, parents should strengthen the study of mental health knowledge. Some parents don't know about teenagers' mental health and lack relevant knowledge about mental health, so they must strengthen their study. Understand the psychological characteristics of teenagers, find psychological problems in time, and take appropriate measures to give children positive guidance to ensure their mental health.
(B) the use of scientific methods of family education
Whether the family education method is proper or not directly affects the mental health of teenagers, so parents must adopt scientific education methods. First of all, parents should keep their word in the process of educating their children. Secondly, we should carry out democratic family education. Don't interfere too much, don't spoil too much, and don't let yourself go. Finally, we should strengthen the guidance of scientific theory. If you encounter difficulties and confusion in the process of family education, parents should not only strengthen the study of mental health-related knowledge, but also consult relevant education experts in time. Strive to solve the problem in the most appropriate way to avoid hurting the mental health of teenagers.
(3) Maintain good family relations.
Good relationship between husband and wife and harmonious parent-child relationship are important guarantees for teenagers' mental health. Husband and wife should respect each other, love each other, be harmonious and friendly, unite and make progress. Parents should care for their children, and Yan Kuan should be gentle, communicate frequently, listen to their children's voices, resolve conflicts calmly, and create a peaceful and democratic family atmosphere. Teenagers will grow up in such a safe family environment. Learning how to care about others and how to get along with others will help to form a positive and optimistic personality, which are all essential elements for teenagers' mental health. ?