Psychological analysis and educational countermeasures of children from divorced families. Nowadays, many families divorce because of social factors. Children's personality development has a lot to do with their parents. Let's share the psychological analysis and educational countermeasures of children from divorced families.

Psychological analysis of children from divorced families and research on educational countermeasures 1 Causes of psychological problems of primary school students from divorced families

Although divorce can't directly affect the children themselves, it has a great influence on the children through various feelings and cognition later. Generally speaking, the reasons why children of divorced families have psychological problems are as follows:

family factors

First of all, parents' divorce is the period when children need their parents' care most. Parents are often troubled by their great emotional changes, unable to concentrate on taking care of their children and lack communication with their children, thus causing their psychological problems; Secondly, in most cases, the destruction of family structure brought by divorce will have some negative effects on parents' parenting style. For example, some parents will feel guilty for not giving their children a complete home, and will spoil their children, thus making their children's personality more extreme and unwilling to listen to others. Some divorced parents react that their children don't listen to their parents, which is a typical sequela of this situation.

(B) School factors

School life has a great influence on students' physical and mental health. Pupils are more dependent on school life because their minds are not yet mature. The degree of students' acceptance of children from divorced families is an important factor affecting their adaptation. If his peers discriminate against him and alienate him because of family breakdown, it will make the injury of parents' divorce more difficult to calm down.

(3) Social factors

Because children from divorced families have special psychological characteristics, unhealthy thoughts and behaviors in current social life have far greater negative effects on divorced pupils than on ordinary pupils. The current social atmosphere is easy to label the children of divorced families and treat them with colored glasses, which indirectly affects their physical and mental health.

Third, effective countermeasures to solve the psychological problems of primary school students in divorced families

(1) Take family education as the main body and take good care of children's injured hearts.

Parents should adjust their emotions and guide their children to have a correct understanding of the family. Parents themselves must adjust their emotions and thoughts, don't vent the resentment between husband and wife on their children, communicate with their children more, and try their best to reduce the harm caused by divorce.

1. Pay attention to children and continue to give them care.

Parents should give their children warm emotional support and minimize the impact of divorce on their children. No matter who the child lives with, both parents should assume the responsibility of educating the child, so that the child can strengthen the sense of intimacy and unity with his parents, reduce the child's resistance to his parents and serious sense of abandonment, communicate with the child more, understand the child's ideological trends, and let the child gradually adapt to the new family atmosphere and grow up under the endless care of his parents.

2. Encourage children and help them establish a positive outlook on life.

The shadow of parents' divorce may affect their children, but parents should actively encourage their children to exercise themselves in these setbacks and become more self-reliant. Through correct guidance and encouraging children to communicate with relatives and friends around them, children will also form a positive outlook on life and the world.

(B) school education as a supplement, trying to make up for the lack of emotional and personality development.

In order to let the children of divorced families get out of the shadows as soon as possible, and eliminate the adverse effects brought by parents' divorce to the maximum extent. Our teachers should:

First of all, as teachers, we should act as a bridge between children and parents. We should provide special help for children from divorced families, pay more attention to their study and life, actively help children solve their learning difficulties, and encourage and praise them.

Second, the understanding and acceptance of small partners is also an important way to eliminate children's psychological pressure. The head teacher should actively create a good atmosphere of unity, friendship and positive progress in the class, so that students from divorced families can live in harmony, encourage and help each other, and through this atmosphere, they can comfort their mental trauma, let them feel the warmth of this big family, and guide and educate students to treat themselves and their families correctly.

Finally, we can also strengthen mental health education in schools. Professional psychological counseling and counseling for children from divorced families with psychological and behavioral problems can effectively relieve their psychological pressure and give them psychological support.

(3) Relying on social care and paying attention to the healthy growth of children from divorced families.

Social positive factors promote the mental health growth of primary school students, especially students from divorced families are often sensitive, and some social events will make them have subtle psychological changes, which will easily develop into psychological obstacles if they are not promptly channeled. Therefore, the whole society should advocate a correct understanding of divorce and the guidance of public opinion, and abandon the discriminatory understanding of divorce and children from divorced families.

I want to form an educational synergy through the joint efforts of schools, society and parents. Carry out targeted education and guidance, help students establish a new cognitive system, correct the ideological deviation in children's minds, let children feel the love and care of people around them, cultivate children's positive personality, and look at their growth with a developmental perspective. Our children will learn and grow up healthily and happily.

Psychological analysis and educational countermeasures of children from divorced families II. Personality defects of children from divorced families.

The single-parent family formed by parents' divorce will have many negative effects on children's personality. However, children from divorced families often have psychological imbalance due to lack of fatherly love or maternal love. Their various bad emotions will make them form a defective character. There are mainly the following points:

self-abased

Inferiority is a negative and inappropriate self-denial attitude caused by low self-evaluation [2]. Children with this attitude usually can't see their own value, and always feel that they are inferior to others and are not satisfied with anything. Therefore, always show negative emotions, such as always being uneasy, timid, shy, disappointed, lost and so on. Moreover, people often look at children living in divorced families with "colored glasses". They will not get the complete love from their parents like children in a complete family, so they are prone to psychological isolation, depression, inferiority, indifference and even dislike contact or communication with others. At the same time, inferiority is often accompanied by strong self-esteem. They are extremely sensitive and highly resistant. Once someone has bad language and behavior, they will immediately resist. They often show strong suspicion, jealousy and subjective prejudice. There are several psychological problems that make it easy to have difficulties in interpersonal communication, and it is difficult to form a harmonious relationship with other children and teachers.

(2) Withdrawal

Families with divorced parents make children lose their role models and break the balance between individuals and family members and the family environment. Children from divorced families can't learn how to get along with the opposite sex imperceptibly from their parents. If they live with their father, they will be prejudiced against women, and if they live with their mother, they will be prejudiced against men. When a boy is raised by his mother, he may have more feminine personality; Similarly, when a girl lives with her father, she is likely to become a tomboy. On the other hand, children from divorced families only imitate their father or mother unilaterally, so their understanding of self-concept is vague, which will have a bad influence on the formation of their complete personality and easily form a withdrawn character. Their withdrawn personality prevents them from forming a correct understanding of their self-image, and they can neither correctly evaluate themselves nor others. Children with withdrawn personalities often seldom communicate with others and make friends. They are afraid of being despised and rejected. When their inner fear exceeds their closeness to others, they often suppress their feelings and replace them with indifference to others or a kind of self-protection.

(3) cowardice

Children from divorced families are emotionally fragile and weak-willed, and it is easy to form a timid character [2]. Its most obvious manifestation is fear, and its basic characteristics are timidity, easy to yield to others, no sense of resistance, easy to panic when encountering difficulties, at a loss, and unable to withstand setbacks and blows.

Cowardly character is cultivated from childhood, which comes from fear, mostly from parents. After divorce, many parents put more hope on their children and put everything on them. Under this pressure, children are always afraid of disappointing their parents, fearing both training and punishment. Life is always scary, and when it is serious, you will lose the courage to live. Research shows that there are obvious differences between the behavior of shrinking children and that of normal children [2]. Children who retreat often show withdrawn, sensitive and timid emotions. The main reasons for children's withdrawal are improper parental education methods, family discord and parents' divorce. Because of the breakdown of the family and the divorce of parents, the family has no ability and energy to take care of the children, which brings an emotional burden to the children. It will cast a shadow on children's psychology and bring serious trauma to their hearts. Therefore, children from divorced families often show cowardice and retreat.

Thirdly, the intervention of personality defects of children from divorced families.

Jewish economists Arthur and Burns [3] said: A child's worst behavior begins with his childhood idiocy, and the main right to education is in the hands of parents, followed by school education and social education. It can be seen that parents occupy a heavy proportion in the education of young children, or play a major role. Therefore, the education of children from divorced families should be carried out in the following aspects to promote the formation of their healthy personality.

(A) to create a happy family atmosphere

First of all, parents of divorced families should bravely face and accept the reality, use their unparalleled sense of responsibility for their children, and strive to create a relaxed and happy family atmosphere for their children, which is conducive to the formation of children's good character and mental health development. At the same time, parents of divorced families need to get out of the influence of marriage failure in time, adapt themselves to the task of cultivating and educating their children, and analyze and adjust corresponding strategies according to the trend of various adverse reactions caused by the absence of one parent to guide their children to grow up healthily.

(B) to create a good cultural atmosphere

Divorced parents should pay attention to the great influence on their children's personality and always pay attention to their words and deeds. To cultivate children's hobbies according to their characteristics, we can often take them to do sports or practice calligraphy. Those who like music can take them to concerts, create a good cultural atmosphere for their children, let them get rid of the shadow of their parents' divorce as soon as possible, and gradually develop a cheerful and optimistic personality. At the same time, there is only one role of father or mother in divorced families, which lacks the conditions needed for children to form a healthy and comprehensive personality. Therefore, parents should bring their children to the gathering of family or friends, and pay attention to mobilizing the gender resources among relatives and friends around them, which will bring beneficial influence to children.

(C) to cultivate children's hobbies and independence

Parents should, according to their children's characteristics and interests, let their children participate in activities that can make their children develop in an all-round and healthy way, divert their attention and get rid of the shadow of their parents' divorce. At the same time, encourage children to make their own decisions, give advice and support when they make choices, let children gradually form their own judgments, independently accomplish what they can, and enhance their self-confidence. Parents should encourage their children to participate in school and community activities, learn to get along with others in the activities, and gradually get rid of the mentality of autism and inferiority, which can also curb the excessive expansion of self-esteem. Exercise interpersonal skills and independence in activities.

(4) Strengthen the connection between home and school, and comfort children's trauma with love.

Teachers should set up files of students from divorced families from the first semester when their children enter kindergarten, understand the situation of children in each class, grasp their family situation through talks and home visits, and provide "one-on-one" help to children from divorced families in life, study and other aspects. Especially spiritual encouragement, comfort children's mental trauma with love and patience. Teachers should track and record the psychology and behavior of helping children in detail, and do a good job of confidentiality. They should also contact their parents to know the situation of children from divorced families in order to adjust their education methods.

Four. conclusion

In a word, in the process of psychological education for children from divorced families, only from the aspects of parents, schools and social environment of divorced families can a trinity mental health education system be formed. Only in this way can children from divorced families grow up healthily. At the same time, children from divorced families are fragile, and they also need the active attention and support of families, schools and society, so that they can get out of the shadow of their parents' divorce, reasonably prevent, vent and adjust their bad emotions, so as to achieve truly healthy and all-round development and become qualified builders and successors of society.

Psychoanalysis of Children from Divorced Families and Research on Educational Countermeasures 3 Girls are naturally sensitive, and girls from single-parent families will be more sensitive because of the lack of love. Let's analyze the psychology of girls from single-parent families.

1, girls feel insecure.

It turns out that for girls, the truest sense of security comes from the embrace and broad mind of parents in the family. There is a natural difference between the influence of father and mother on children, which is irreplaceable. Girls in single-parent families will lose the protection of love, no matter which side they lack, so they will feel more insecure.

2. Become stronger.

Girls from single-parent families are generally strong and have a strong sense of self-protection, so it is not easy for others to enter their hearts. As single-parent families, they know how to share responsibilities for their parents from an early age. Especially the girl who grew up with her mother, without her father's company, she will unconsciously play the role of a part of men and have a sense of mission to protect her mother. Therefore, most girls in single-parent families have more or less the character of boys, and they are stronger in their bones.

Relatives are close relatives.

Girls from single-parent families know more about the preciousness of family ties and cherish them. In their view, home is her real safe haven. They are afraid of losing her family and will not leave her family. It's easy to shrink back in front of family.

4. Strong sense of self-protection and self-esteem.

The single-parent girl is very kind, and she has to let others do everything, which brings her a good popularity. Because they grew up in a single-parent family, they have a strong sense of self-esteem and protection since childhood. They really seldom trust their friends because they are afraid of being hurt, and they are very vigilant. Her apparent optimism is actually deep loneliness and isolation, and only a few friends can enter her heart.

5, it is easier to have inferiority complex.

Girls are psychologically immature and have no self-regulation ability. Once hit, they will be at a loss. Their inner sadness and loss make them feel depressed and inferior. At the same time, children are the most sensitive at this time. Faced with the concern of peers and society, they will care too much and even misunderstand. Over time, they will leave the crowd and enter a self-enclosed and lonely space, which will lead to great obstacles in personality communication.

6. It is easy to lead to the breeding of jealousy.

Generally speaking, girls from single-parent families can't enjoy as much as children from healthy families, which is exactly what every girl yearns for, both materially and spiritually. Because what children from healthy families can get is not easy for children from single-parent families, their psychology can easily change from initial envy to jealousy and monk hatred. Psychologically, they will show a special attachment to their parents, hoping to get double returns from them. In terms of material enjoyment, if they can't treat this gap correctly and think that what others can get should be their own, it will easily lead to crimes such as theft.

Girls from single-parent families need more love. After understanding their psychology, we can get closer to them in the process of getting along with them. Understanding their psychology is also helpful for parents of single-parent families to better educate their children.