There are three kinds of unfilial, none of which is the biggest. Who is responsible for teaching the ancients to make love?
Ancient people were very contradictory. On the one hand, they have an unusual enthusiasm for having children, and they are born one after another. On the other hand, he kept silent about the way to have children-making love. To this day, many parents still don't know how to talk about sex with their children, and stare big eyes and say that their children are picked up from the garbage. So how did the ancients learn sexual knowledge more than 1000 years ago?
In fact, there was sex education in ancient times. It's subtle, but it's enough for a baby.
It is a man's instinct to pay attention to his ability in bed. Think about it, if the groom is nothing when he gets married, like a log, people will not appreciate the shyness of a virgin, but will only worry about whether her husband needs to take Viagra for life. How humiliating the groom is! In ancient times, there was no divorce If the husband fails in bed, the wife has to be widowed for life. So in some dynasties, before the princess got married, she would send a maid-in-waiting to sleep with Xu. What about Xu? Is there any hidden disease in your body? Do you have any bad hobbies like SM? Hey, hey, give it a try. If you don't pass the test, then change people as soon as possible. Some big families also send dowry maids to test the sexual ability of prospective uncles.
If you want to be strong in bed, you must first understand sexual knowledge. But in bed, my mother won't teach, and I'm too embarrassed to ask; Dad can't say anything, or it will hurt his majesty. Talk to your son about how to pick up girls and compare the sizes. How to put strict father's score in front of my son in the future? But don't worry, ancient parents were very considerate. If you can't say it, you can do it-just give your son some maids and teach him how to understand people. This arrangement is also to prevent boys from going to brothels with great energy and being seduced by women outside. Children of small families without houses can only practice in brothels under the guidance of uncles or friends. Those prostitutes who are absolutely beauty-oriented are equivalent to Aoi sora's eldest sister, and they are for the vast number of thirsty male compatriots to enjoy YY, which has nothing to do with WeChat, thus making an in-depth discussion on sexual intercourse.
In addition to exercises, there is also an important teaching material, erotic pictures. In the TV series Hanwu the Great, the reason why teachers are disappointed with Rong is that Xiong Haizi peeks at pornographic pictures in class. In fact, erotic pictures are not only for fun, but also for ancient sex education. I understood everything when I looked at the photos. From the emperor to the common people, men like erotic pictures and collect them whenever they can. In the late Ming Dynasty, erotic painting reached its peak, and famous painters Tang Bohu and Chou Ying all participated in the creation of erotic painting. Their sales of erotic pictures are still very good, which also shows how urgent the public needs sexual knowledge.
There is also a rare way of male sex education-taking sex education classes. During the Eastern Han Dynasty, Zhang, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, once organized a national seminar on sexual issues. At that time, aristocratic children also had sex education classes, and how to attend them was unknown. The cow who openly conducted sex education activities was Emperor Taizong. His sister, Xu of Princess Danyang, is not good at sex, which makes Princess Danyang very cold. When Emperor Taizong knew about it, he called 18' s brother-in-law and had an unprecedented sex education class. Since then, the sexual lives of the princesses in the Tang Dynasty have been extremely harmonious. Facts have proved that cattle people are awesome everywhere!
In sex education, women are in a weak position and have few ways to receive knowledge. There is no need to think about finding a cowherd to practice, unless you want to try the "wonderful" taste of being immersed in a pig cage; Don't mention pornographic pictures. Girls who dare to peek at adult books will be detained immediately. The hat of "swinging" was even banned in ancient times; Don't even think about taking sex education classes. Female teachers teach abstinence, such as female commandments.
However, women know nothing about sex. If the groom is ignorant and thinks that the bridal chamber is covered with a quilt and just chatting, it will be miserable. On the second day of the wedding, the in-laws will accept the bride's falling red. Where is it red if you don't have sex? If this is labeled as infidelity, will the woman have a way out in the future? Therefore, in this critical situation, the bride has to be self-reliant, guiding and assisting the groom to complete the wedding night.
Sex education for girls is usually the night before marriage. Mother came in shyly, and then stuffed something into her daughter's hand: "Daughter, see for yourself." This thing is sometimes the "bottom of the box"-fist-sized porcelain, showing the shape of a fruit, a boat or a child. Open the lid, there is naked sex in it? Men and women are generally placed at the bottom of the dowry box, so it is called "the bottom of the box"; Sometimes it's a dowry painting, a simplified version of an erotic picture. Sometimes, my mother is too shy, and the narrator is an aunt or a married little sister. However, don't imagine how vivid this kind of words and deeds will be. Generally speaking, "just close your eyes and bear it", which makes the bride curious and a little scared. When she got to the bridal chamber, she became a dead fish and could enjoy sex. Very few.
Compared with ancient times, there are many ways for modern children to understand sexual knowledge. However, in terms of sex education, modern parents are not better than the ancients. They always regard sex as a shameful thing and hope that their children know nothing. As a result, many children do something wrong because they are too curious. In fact, it is better to take a generous sex education class, like other people's Tang Taizong, so that they can enjoy sex safely and freely and live a happy life in the future.
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