What makes this lady even more angry and aggrieved is that the onlookers also stood on the boy's side and advised her that "there is no need to be true, children are not sensible." The lady said that she didn't know what psychology the boy was taking pictures of, and she was worried that the other party would reveal pictures of her breastfeeding.
Finally, the matter ended with the boy's family deleting photos.
Weibo's highest praise comment is: "If you think he knows nothing, then you are a child."
This sentence hit the nail on the head. Nowadays, children aged five or six know much more than you think, and the precocity of TAs is beyond your imagination.
This incident reminds me of the recent frequent incidents of child sexual abuse. I always think that children are in the position of victims. It was not until I saw this Weibo that I realized that sex education is not only to protect children from infringement, but also to prevent children from infringing others.
The topic of sex education is a cliche. Some time ago, Xu's paedophilia incident broke out, which blew up Weibo. Let me briefly introduce Xu. He is called an "Internet celebrity" because of a video about starting a business, but few people know him except Weibo.
Some netizens broke the news that Xu Weibo paid attention to many bloggers suspected of pedophilia and had traces of forwarding comments. Later, many netizens confirmed this and took screenshots to leave the certificate. Xu's attitude is: 1, completely fabricated. This matter has been handled by the lawyer.
Many parents have a misunderstanding: children are so simple and don't understand anything. Isn't popularizing sex education for children inducing ta, which will arouse children's curiosity and get out of hand?
Is that really the case? Aren't you curious without a degree?
One thing that impressed me deeply was that I went back to my grandmother's house in a small town that summer vacation when I was in fifth grade. I was accompanied by my cousin, who was seven or eight years old. There was no wifi at that time, and there were not many TV stations in the town. So we rented a CD and came back to watch movies with the adults. One of the horror movies contains many pornographic clips. When the picture jumped, my face flushed and I felt that the air in the whole room was frozen, and the adults were very embarrassed. I quickly turned off the movie and said, "I don't want to watch it." My mother casually suggested that we go to a relative's house to play together, and my little cousin said that she would go to play with her classmates. We went out, and it happened that my mother forgot her wallet. When I came back to help her get it, I ran into my cousin watching a movie with "relish" and was fascinated. I was shocked, of course I didn't break it.
Did you get a look at him? If you don't let ta see it, ta will only be more curious. Regarding sex education, both schools and parents take an evasive attitude. I remember very clearly that when introducing male and female genitalia in junior high school biology class, the teacher directly skipped it and let us teach ourselves.
Not to mention children, even if adults watch TV with their parents, the most embarrassing moment is kissing. Why? Because we just think that "sex" can't be made public, we can watch it secretly, but we can't get on the table and we are quite reluctant to talk about sex with our parents.
Schools don't teach, parents don't teach, but this can't stop children's curiosity at all, so they can only learn by themselves. What are the most ways of self-study? Porn movies? Little yellow book?
Unfortunately, these methods can not accept the correct sex education, which is undoubtedly a serious misleading for children with blank sex education.
What China needs most in sex education is not children, but parents.
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In grandma's town, everyone takes a bath in the public bathroom. I remember taking a bath once. Just as I was getting dressed and ready to leave, an old woman came in with her six or seven-year-old grandson. The young girl in the bathroom was startled and quickly covered her body with a towel. She said angrily, "How can such a big boy be brought into the women's bathhouse?" Grandma said indifferently, "Children are not sensible. What's wrong? " Then I walked in by myself.
Children aged six or seven have a vague sense of gender, and the difference between men and women should be taught from an early age. I went swimming a few days ago. Although there is a sign hanging outside the dressing room: children of the opposite sex are not allowed, many mothers come in with their sons. This phenomenon is really disgusting. Imagine what it's like to be stared at naked by a little boy as a girl.
Many mothers take a boy who has finished swimming into the women's bathroom, saying that the child is small and has no gender consciousness. However, it is rare for a father to take a little girl to the men's room. In fact, parents are very clear about the gender distinction of their children, but these mothers think that boys "don't suffer" in the women's bathroom anyway, so they don't care what impact this behavior has on others.
Parents themselves have never received sex education, so they also take an evasive attitude when educating their children. Not only do nothing in sex education, but also do some absurd and ignorant things.
Some time ago, a sad news broke out. 16 month old baby girl was sexually assaulted. The sex offender is a man in his fifties. He and his baby mother sell vegetables in the same vegetable market and often take their children out to play. This time I took the child away for nearly 40 minutes before sending it back. When I came back, my mother found the child's eyes glazed over. Later, when I changed her clothes, I found that the diaper was covered with blood.
It really hurts to see here. The sex offender is simply insane, but the child is taken away casually, which also shows that the mother's awareness of prevention is insufficient. At present, most cases of child sexual assault are committed by acquaintances. If parents don't be vigilant, it is likely that a child's life will be a tragedy because of a moment's negligence.
How dangerous are children who lack sex education?
In the recent frequent sexual assault incidents, children played with their mobile phones indifferently when they were victims, as if they didn't know what they were suffering. So how does a child who lacks sex education know how to protect himself?
Sex education is not sexual incitement. Sexual knowledge, like other knowledge, needs to be learned. Children will not learn by themselves without a teacher, let alone naively think that they will naturally understand when they reach a certain age.
This is a Weibo forwarded by Xu. In the picture, the boy was photographed naked on the subway. Abnormal Xu forwarded it and left an unbearable comment.
The world of children is very simple and real. When a child asks, "Mom and Dad, where am I from?" Don't joke that "you picked it up." It is the responsibility of parents to give their children sexual knowledge. You never know where a sex offender/pedophile will hide.