I'm Qi Ling, a stay-at-home mother with a 3-year-old child. My life now is to take care of my baby, take care of my family and study wholeheartedly. Daily life is full of positive energy, physical and mental relaxation and happiness. I don't do WeChat business, and I don't go out to earn money part-time. Although my family's income has dropped a lot since I stopped working.
But our balance has increased, my life has become simple, quality, and family happiness has also increased. My temperament has changed a lot since I became a full-time mother. I feel that the whole person can calm down and feel very calm. People are practical, mature, self-aware, know how to educate children and know how to grow up.
In her husband's words, "this is a 30-year-old woman standing for herself and her family." This is also my value as a woman. Isn't it a little surprised and envious? Do you want to know how I became like this? Sell it first, and then I'll tell you what I did before.
What kind of person he is. Before, I was fidgeting. My major in college is computer, which makes me quite collapsed. The whole university was very painful, because that's not what I really like. After graduation, I entered a state-owned enterprise, which is the stable job that most people dream of.
Relatively relaxed and stable. I felt good at first, but later I often lost myself at work and couldn't find the direction of development, which made me feel anxious and confused. Every day is like boiling a frog in warm water, slowly losing the enthusiasm for life. Every day is dull, I feel no happiness, let alone a sense of accomplishment. The work is not ideal.
Life pressure and family chores make my mood change abnormally, and it is easy to get angry with my husband for a little thing. My heart becomes impetuous, I can't calm down at all, I don't know what I should do, I don't know what I want, and I often get confused. I don't know the meaning and true meaning of life. When I am depressed, I think I will lead a chaotic life.