Experience: How Teachers Care for Students
Makarenko, an educator in the former Soviet Union, said: "Love is the foundation of education. Without love, there is no education. " The ancients said well: "Only by kissing the teacher can you believe in your way." All this shows that loving students is not only the bounden duty of teachers, but also one of the most effective means of education and teaching.
However, if teacher's love is illegal, it may not have a good educational effect, so people often say: "Love for students is a science and an art". Then, how should teachers care for students?
First, love is boundless. Give love to every child.
It is human instinct to love children, which a hen can do. Only a teacher can love other people's children. A noble and great teacher is one who loves both those beautiful and obedient teachers with good grades and those ugly and naughty teachers with poor grades. Teacher's love should be a great love beyond family, blood and father's love.
There is a student named Ma in my class, who is usually taciturn and lags behind in his grades. Her father is in prison and her mother goes out to work. She is the oldest in the family. After school, she must take care of her brother and sister. One day between classes, the biting cold wind blew on us. I saw her cringing and doing exercises when I was on patrol. Then I looked at her. She was only wearing a thin coat. I asked her why she only wore this dress. She told me that her coat had not been washed. I was very upset when I heard this, because I knew that her family was poor and my mother rarely sent money back. All the side dishes she eats are planted in her spare time, and there are no extra clothes at all. I immediately ran home and found a smaller winter coat for my wife and gave it to her. I said to her, "Don't dislike this old dress. It is very warm. Put it on. " Seeing her red eyes in that dress, I knew that this dress not only warmed her body, but also warmed her heart. During the winter vacation, she wrote me a letter and talked about it affectionately. She also said that it was because of the care given by the teacher that she fell in love with the school, the teacher and the Chinese course.
Through this incident, I deeply realized what Mr. Tao Xingzhi said: "Real education is a kind of soul-to-soul activity, and only from the heart can we touch the depths of the soul." It is not only her, but also other students and myself that moved me. An umbrella when it rains, a letter when you are depressed, and a hand when you wrestle … These wordless cares are all bridges of harmonious care between teachers and students.
Second, caring for students should learn tolerance and respect.
"If you want others to tolerate you, you must know how to tolerate others", especially for students. Teachers are a special profession, because they are faced with a group of lively, curious and ignorant children, who lack the ability to judge right and wrong and need the help and guidance of teachers. We should tolerate their shortcomings, their mistakes and their personalities. At the same time, teachers should accept students' opinions with an open mind. Point out the shortcomings of students, teach them how to correct them and give them enough time to correct them. The idea of quick success and instant benefit is not desirable. Teachers should constantly improve their teaching methods, reflect on their own shortcomings, dissect themselves strictly, and strive to cultivate a democratic atmosphere. A teacher is not only a model of being a man, but also a model of learning, a strict teacher and a confidant.
Generally speaking, problem students bring many difficulties to teaching, and these students are often unpleasant. If teachers satirize, reprimand and punish these students, it will only lead to the failure of education.
I remember last year, I was a sixth-grade Chinese teacher. There is a student named Liu in the class who hangs out with a group of people in the society all day, surfing the Internet, playing billiards and even stealing. One day, I actually took away the pens of more than 60 students in my class. When I walked into the classroom, all the students realized what would happen. I changed my old habits and continued to attend classes as planned. In class, I observed the change of his expression and asked questions from time to time, so that students could applaud his answers. I have been telling myself in my heart that I can't let students lose face in public, I can't satirize him, and I should protect children's self-esteem like I protect my eyes. After school, the student came to my office and gently put a big bag of pens on my desk. Plup down on your knees. "Sorry, teacher, please hit me!" "Why should I hit you? Because I believe you, holding a pen is not your intention. You can confess that your heart is sincere and kind ... "Since then, the student has stopped being naughty and studied hard. He wrote in his diary: "Teacher, you have restored my dignity, and I will not live up to your expectations ..."
Through these years of work, I understand that people will inevitably have shortcomings, weaknesses and deficiencies. As the saying goes, "the jade of Jing Yao must be flawed, and the dragon ball is also tiny." Who cares? As a teacher, no matter how your students make you sad, you should learn to be tolerant. You must inspire your students' hearts with noble feelings on the basis of respect, trust, love and understanding.
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