Second, the consistency of educational ideas, a child gave his umbrella to others to play with, but he was wet by the rain. After returning home, the father praised his behavior, while the mother scolded the child. This inconsistency in educational concepts will make it impossible for children to form a unified value scale and a standard for judging right and wrong, thus making children lose the direction of words and deeds. As long as one parent handles such a thing reasonably, the other parent should support it, and never play the devil's advocate, otherwise the educational effects will cancel each other out.
Third, the consistency of the education process, once there are differences, don't quarrel, let alone quarrel in front of the children, and expose the differences to the children. You can calmly understand the situation, find out the reasons and come up with solutions. If there are no differences in principle, we can seek common ground while reserving differences, overcome differences and solve them through coordination. In the education of children, it is very important for family members to understand each other, discuss each other and reach a consensus.