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Adolescence is an important stage of children's growth and a difficult point of family education. At this stage, children are not confronting their parents, but challenging the boundaries of power. This article will provide some educational suggestions for parents to help them better communicate with their children and establish good family relations.

Listen patiently and respect the requirements.

In the face of children's demands, no matter whether they are reasonable or not, we should listen patiently and give respect. In the dialogue, learn about their hobbies and find potential problems. Listen attentively, find resonance, break barriers, and make family their warmest harbor.

Avoid corporal punishment and scolding.

Avoid corporal punishment and scolding in the rebellious period of children. Such behavior will only make children feel hurt, but will not achieve the purpose of education. Corporal punishment will only reduce children's guilt and make them more likely to make mistakes. Smart parents will communicate with their hearts to convince others and let their children grow up with respect and understanding.

Trust, let go and avoid nagging.

Children in rebellious period are eager for independence, and they have the ability to handle their own affairs well. Too much nagging will only make them bored. Trust them, give them space and let them grow in practice.

Emotional support, encouragement and guidance

In the face of children's complaints and emotions, learn to listen and understand. Don't rush to criticize or blame, but give them emotional support. When they feel accepted and understood, they will get out of trouble more easily and become more confident and strong.