How to be a good mother? This is a question that every mother will ask herself. However, when anxiety and anxiety occupy our hearts, we tend to ignore children's voices. This article will share a conversation with my son, hoping to give some inspiration to anxious mothers.

Educational anxiety

During my pregnancy, I was worried about how to be a good mother. I have read many parenting classics and papers, even involving quantum physics and the history of human evolution. However, these did not bring me real answers, but made me anxious.

A child's voice

When I was talking to my son about this topic, he told me that he had 100 mothers, and each mother had her own characteristics and advantages. It suddenly dawned on me that I only saw the teachers and mothers, but ignored the children's voices.

The child's answer

The child told me that his favorite mothers are those who can chat with him, play with him and tell stories. This makes me understand that what children need most is our companionship and care, not our anxiety and pressure.

Be a good mother

To be a good mother is not to pursue perfection, but to give her children the truest self. We need to listen to children's voices, accompany them to grow up and let them feel our love and support.