Since ancient times, people have? Expect your son to succeed and your daughter to succeed? This is a normal idea of parents. However, with the increasingly fierce social competition and the worsening employment environment, parents nowadays are more and more anxious. They are afraid that their children are slower than others, so they start prenatal education from pregnancy, and give their children preschool education as soon as they are born, and report them to various training classes and cram schools; What's more, he was in a hurry to see a doctor, believing that opening his eyes would make the child smarter, and he was cheated of 20 thousand yuan in vain. Parents' feelings are understandable, but if children want to succeed in the future, it is not just good academic performance. Parents also need to pay more attention to their children's personality, outlook on life, personality, thoughts and feelings of love, so that their children can grow up healthily.

Academic performance is important, but academic performance does not determine the child's next life. In the long run, giving children a relaxed and happy childhood is more conducive to their perception of life. Children who have a carefree childhood will be more cheerful and confident when they grow up than those who have to bear heavy burdens since childhood. Therefore, parents should not blindly pursue how to make their children get ahead, but relax their mentality and let their children grow naturally.

In addition, it is far more important to teach children how to learn to love, feel love and establish a correct three views than academic performance. Even if a person has a higher education in the future, but he is not correct, calculating and unloving, then he will not have long-term development anyway. Just like the graduate student who spent the night in someone else's house but abused his owner's pet dog, he has a diploma, but he has no bottom line in life. So to some extent, it is more important to guide children in other ways.

Although parents' feelings are understandable, being too anxious is tantamount to encouraging young people. Rice needs sowing and germination to mature, especially for children. If children want to grow up healthily, they must learn to look at problems in the long run, influence them with more love, and form a sound personality with the right means, which is far more important than written achievements.