My best friend complained to me that her husband was having an affair after she gave birth.

I asked her, "Didn't you notice any prelude before?" My best friend cocked his head for a long time, and then said faintly: since he gave birth to a child, he didn't spoil me as before. I was too focused on the children to think so much. I thought about it and asked: Are you harmonious? My girlfriend blushed and gave me a white look: "Four or five times a night when I first got married, and I didn't get out of bed the next day. Once every two or three days after half a year, after giving birth to a child ... "My girlfriend pursed her lips and paused. "After giving birth, it becomes once a week ..."

"Is there anything wrong with your relationship with your husband?" I keep asking. My best friend thought for a moment: "No, there was a little trouble between husband and wife, which was fairly stable." It was after I gave birth to a baby that I discovered a secret of my husband ... "After my girlfriend suddenly patted her head, she was embarrassed." Say it quickly! "I hurried to hold my best friend". My husband took a bath secretly at night after I gave birth ... When he went back to bed, he said he was tired, and then he fell asleep ... He had a woman. Why should a man do it himself? "Hearing this, I remembered what a gynecologist had said to me before, and I was lost in thought.

I dare not say that the cheating of my best friend's husband must be caused by disharmony in sexual life, but it does matter. By the way, I would like to popularize some knowledge about women's postpartum privacy:

Although the vagina itself has a certain repair function, postpartum expansion can be restored in 3 months after delivery. But after all, after squeezing and tearing, the muscles in the vagina are damaged, so the recovery of vaginal elasticity takes longer.

Postpartum needs some exercise in time to strengthen the recovery of elasticity and promote vaginal tightness. Tightening vaginal movement is a way to practice the contractility of pubic coccyx muscle, because vaginal contraction mainly depends on pubic coccyx muscle during sexual intercourse or orgasm.

The above is what I heard in the open class of gynecologists in Yao Business School. Of course, the following is my personal opinion. This is what I said to my best friend:

First, due to different personal physical conditions and delivery process, different constitutions and different recovery situations, many people may be overworked because of improper rest, and they don't know how to maintain their private parts and recover after childbirth. Even through exercise, the vaginal recovery is not satisfactory (China women are subconsciously shy about sex, and my best friend is also a conservative person, let alone discuss and communicate together. However, this is exactly what men want from women.

Second, women are insecure in their bones. If all these things happen (for example, my best friend has a good relationship, but her postpartum sexual life tends to be disharmonious), will she suspect that her man is "picking wild flowers" outside? Yes, if it happened to me, I would doubt it, too! However, as a person, sometimes an animal with a lower body thinking, something may happen on impulse without emotion and love ... As a woman, if she can't hold a man's lower body, she can't hold his heart! How to bolt it? Make yourself tight, tight, tight! (Say the important things three times)

Tightness is external: make your face and skin tight and learn to maintain your face. Most men are from the Appearance Association. A man's eyes can never be separated from a woman's face, breast enhancement and buttocks.

Second, it is internal: make yourself strong, nervous and independent. Form your unique temperament and charm.

Three tights are the maintenance of private parts. Personally, I don't recommend surgery (shrinking vagina) and taking medicine, and the side effects are obvious. What I did three months after delivery was bare-handed privacy, which seems to be Yao's finger privacy ... I can search by myself, so I won't advertise.

I am very hurt about my best friend, and my best friend has been divorcing. As a friend, I can only be advised not to leave. After all, feelings are still there, and you can't hurt your child. While trying to match it. I enlightened her and took her to a modeling training class in Yao. It's almost a year now, at least in my opinion, their husband and wife have made up.

After the affair, what makes me feel most is that women are not only a little hard on their men (henpecked), but also a little hard on themselves (investment)! Men's infidelity is not directly related to sexual happiness (vaginal relaxation), but it is definitely related. Women make themselves more "exquisite", not only in heart and appearance, but also in private maintenance and sexual happiness!