Flower of life, also known as the Balance Wheel, is a career counseling tool. It can make a one-month career plan for itself-let life bloom like a flower.
This tool can help you:
A picture tells you that it is enough to do the eight most important things in life.
At the end of August, I first came into contact with flower of life Balance Wheel. This tool is very useful for me who is used to making plans and writing summaries. It is simple and clear, the biggest thing is mutual balance, mutual support and mutual inspiration, which makes life simple and clear.
The following is a September summary of eight things I tried to do with flower of life's balance wheel.
1, Work: Stay in a unit for a long time, or become an old smooth, shirking responsibility for everything. Or become a panacea, a good person, others don't know, I don't know if I will find you. People come and go in the company, and the tasks you take over will become more and more overloaded.
In September, I broke out because of overwork and unclear work. Although there are still some unprofessional and immature, I faced the problem and solved it. Work is getting easier and easier.
After the Mid-Autumn Festival, the work will usher in great changes and storms, and I will be at the center of the storm. Always remind yourself: it's just a job. Things are not as good as imagined, and certainly not as bad as imagined.
Occupation: I have been in a period of burnout for ten years, and now I am still a psychological counselor who can combine my interests with my career. Non-professional background, has reached the age of embarrassing career change, it is difficult to re-learn and reposition. But I'm on my way, accumulating and preparing. It's never too late to start, let alone do something that interests you.
Career planning, the core problem now is to prepare for the psychological counselor exam in June 1 1. The next two months will be a key issue. Face it directly, don't delay, don't run away.
2. Financial situation: The wardrobe was broken in September, reducing impulse consumption and shopping. Expenditure is mainly used to build relationships, buy books and educate children. In terms of income, there are still only wages, rent and a small amount of stock investment income, which can be balanced, but there is not much balance. The classical economic theory of diligence and thrift, increasing revenue and reducing expenditure is still my economic view.
3. Health: There are too many tangled things in early September, such as work and occupation, reading and writing, family disputes, children entering a new school, and they are very busy and chaotic. Only ignore your own body, no wonder your body protests. The eye rain table of physical anxiety, acne is coming again, unstoppable. But when I saw the acne, I smiled and accepted it. Thank you for reminding me. We are busy and want to go out. The only thing we don't listen to is body signals.
When I pay attention to my health, health will certainly not be a problem. Five-minute exercise has been gradually integrated into my life, study and work. Pay attention to your body anytime, anywhere, completely relax and stay healthy.
4. Entertainment: This month, I climbed mountains happily, got cramps in my legs, ate meat unscrupulously, drank too much, completely relaxed, played crazily, and stayed crazy all night. This kind of entertainment is Japanese.
5. Family: The new semester has arrived and my son has entered a new school. I also recommended myself to join the family Committee and set a good example for the children. Listening to my son's gossip and news broadcast is something I insist on every day, and I continue to maintain it now. The first thing to do when I get up in the morning is to record my son's growth, and I will stick to it.
Home is a place of love, not a place of reason. Every moment with your family, express your love and your needs.
6, other important people: relatives just want to be ordinary, friends just want to get together often, you have to pay time and energy for this. There's no need to blend in with a group. People are attracted to each other, not forced. Care about the people who care about you, not the people you think are important.
Participated in two class reunions. The former sisters were scouring, and the brothers walked away. Don't be sad, just cherish what you have.
7. Self-growth: Read paulo coelho's classic The Fantasy Journey of the Shepherd Boy (Brazil).
Learning Tao Te Ching is a bit difficult, but if you try to understand it, maybe a little fur is the whole of life.
Who's in My Home is a classic work of bert hellinger, the founder of German family system arrangement, which belongs to modern psychotherapy. Now I don't understand or even agree.
Writing: I wrote 7 articles on the website and 4 articles on the homepage and today's hot spots.
Writing slowly finds its own writing mode, reading+writing+psychology. I look forward to reading 100 psychology books and sharing 100 reading notes. Don't follow the trend, don't preach, don't do it, let the book speak for itself.
Reflection: books are internalized into their own things and form their own thinking.
8. Self-realization: We strive to realize ourselves. In fact, people are small, and only by putting themselves in an infinitely small position will they not be hurt. Enlarge yourself and you will get hurt. These injuries are all self-inflicted.
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Postscript: This article is my first attempt to use mobile phone code words to write by taking the subway and waiting for free time.
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