First, parents should learn to let go appropriately. Because they love their children too much, many parents always like to help their children manage everything. They always think that eating, drinking and having fun are the most important things for children. Actually, this is not right. In addition to eating well, drinking well and sleeping well, we should also cultivate children's independent ability, so that children can take care of themselves without their parents.
If you want your children to take care of themselves and their own lives, then as parents, you should let them do it and think for themselves.
Second, parents give time to study. Parents should not let go too fast, too fast, and children will easily have the illusion that their parents don't love me. As a parent, you can slowly cultivate your child's autonomy. For example, learn to put socks in the bathroom today, and learn to put bowls and chopsticks in the washbasin after dinner tomorrow. In short, you only need to ask your child to do an action at the beginning.
When a child knows that his socks need to be put in the bathroom, he will take the initiative to put the dishes and chopsticks in the sink after eating, and then develop his next life skills. In this cycle, he will gradually develop his life skills, he will take care of himself, and he will learn how to take care of others.
Third, parents must encourage and praise their children. Parents should encourage and praise every little progress. If you remember to send socks to the bathroom, it's very thoughtful of you to help your mother solve a big trouble. As long as the child makes progress, praise him hard, praise him for being warm and considerate, and finally say that mom loves you.
Children like to listen to the language praised by their parents. The more he listens, the more confident he is, and the more he will take the initiative to do and learn, so as to form a good cycle. It won't be long before the child's self-care ability will be all right.
In addition to self-care, parents should also cultivate his life skills, such as simple scrambled eggs, noodles, boiled water and so on. , so as to cultivate his ability to cook and let him not be hungry when his parents are not at home.