How to keep romantic love flowers fresh for a long time when the secret of romantic love preservation is open? It's not as simple as putting two aspirin in a rose vase. Then, let's open this transparent plastic wrap and see the "sesame coup" of "opening the door"! On Jennifer's calendar, February 14 is painted romantic pink. Of course, it was Valentine's Day! This day is a festival of love. How many boxes of sweet chocolates are sent with love, how many fragrant roses are happily received, and every love is valued and cared for. But love is precious, and it is not enough to rely solely on the care and nourishment of Valentine's Day. If you want love to be lazy for a long time, you can't do less "preservation" homework at ordinary times. One of the stories: "Koala" got up. Since the relationship with Martin was confirmed, Juanzi got the nickname "koala", and Martin was the "eucalyptus" she clung to. Juanzi keeps in three-dimensional contact with Martin through telephone, pager, mobile phone and even writing letters every day. He immediately told Chen Feng about the headache and brain fever, and pulled Martin to do all the things, big and small, and immediately sent an email to Martin to see how he felt. After work, when they are together, they hardly associate with others. Gradually, Martin talked less and less, and every time he met, he was listless, crying and making a scene, which didn't help. Juanzi really doesn't understand. I miss him everywhere, and I always want to be with him. Why are my feelings getting weaker and weaker? To add fuel to the fire, Martin was sent to Germany by the company for a project for half a year. Juanzi's old life was broken. Without that man by his side, he had to do what he wanted. Now he has to do it by himself. What was originally poured out to him had to be dealt with separately. Doing all these things is as painful as being forced to get up early. In order to fill Martin's gap, Juanzi started to go clubbing with friends, went to the park with his parents, resumed phone porridge with his long-lost girlfriend, and even attended a folk paper-cutting training class on weekends. Gradually, Juanzi no longer missed Chen Feng and shed tears. E-mail to Chen Feng has changed from a few letters a day to several letters a few days. After half a year, Juanzi has a feeling of growing up. He can not only arrange his life reasonably and calmly, but also learn to think. No wonder Martin has been boasting that she has become more sensible and feminine since she came back. [Mirror Language] Chen Feng: When I fell in love with Juanzi, I felt that I was wearing several hats-driver, nanny, secretary, psychologist ... I had to run around every day when she called, and I had to take care of her romantic feelings, which affected my work. More importantly, I feel less like a boyfriend and more like a daughter. I almost wanted to break up several times, not because I didn't love her, but because I didn't have the energy to deal with it anymore. I was a little worried when I first arrived in Germany, thinking that a trickle of flowers would wither if left unattended. But then she wrote in an email: "Don't worry, I can take care of you now." She really looked like a different person when she came back, but fortunately she didn't break up at the beginning! Jennifer: A good relationship between two people can show attachment, but it must not develop into dependence. If you blindly rely on it, you will unconsciously turn yourself into a "boyfriend's daughter" or a "girlfriend's son". How can you love this relationship? Story 2: Let's go on, it's more exciting. Wei Wei and Wu Jiang have been introduced for more than a year, and their passion for love has gradually faded. It seems a little premature to talk about marriage now. Both of them are bank employees from other places, with stable jobs, stable personalities and stable friends. They have no special hobbies, but they eat and go shopping. In this small city, they are just those places. Gradually, Wu Jiangdu was too lazy to date. On weekends, he often sleeps in the dormitory all day. In a rage, Weiwei takes a long-distance bus back to her parents' home every weekend. On March 8th, the company distributed several free tickets to Meika Tennis Club. Weiwei is the kind of person who never exercises except in school physical education exams, let alone tennis. She casually wanted to give the ticket to her colleague Chick, but Xiaoya said enthusiastically, "Let's go together and I'll teach you. You see that you are fat now, and Wujiang will not want you if you don't exercise! " Vivian was surprised, blushed and agreed. In the afternoon, Vivian stood dazed on the tennis court under the guidance of Xiaoya. Looking at her own shadow on the red rubber floor, she couldn't help taking a deep breath and throwing the jade tennis ball in her hand into the sky ... In the evening, Vivian called Wujiang excitedly: "You must come to Friends' Day. It's really fun. I have never sweated so much. Now I can connect three balls ... "The next day, after work, Vivian called Wujiang excitedly. The laughter of two young couples filled the gymnasium. After the exercise, four people had a meal together, talking and laughing. Wujiang and Weiwei both felt that the food that day was somehow particularly fragrant. Later, Wujiang and Weiwei became frequent visitors to Meika, and went straight to the stadium on weekends. Wujiang made rapid progress and was selected to participate in the amateur group competition after half a year. Weiwei's ball skills have not improved much, but she no longer has to worry about her figure. They made a group of happy friends in the club. Besides playing ball games, they often go out to play together. Tennis has opened a colorful door for their monotonous employee life. On Wei Wei's birthday, Wujiang gave her a Wilson tennis ball, which read: Marry me. Wujiang: That day, I crustily skin of head came to Meika. On the court, Wei Wei showed rare excitement and happiness, and seemed to be a few years younger than usual. I can't help being infected by her. I really should thank her for bringing tennis into my life. This kind of fun will never be experienced when eating or shopping. The originally listless days seemed to be a tonic. Every time we walk down the street with tennis rackets on our backs, I am particularly proud. You see, how healthy, happy and in love we are! Jennifer: Sports is actually an entertainment game for adults. The fun of sports is not limited to watching the broadcast of the ball game. When your love trend is a little "weak", I strongly recommend this "exercise" prescription for keeping fit. When two people are together, the goal is happiness, and exercise can bring you real happiness. Story 3: Carry their love to the end. Xiao Nan and A Hao are model lovers among engineering graduate students. It is enviable to get married in pairs, and they also plan to get married as soon as they graduate. Xiao Nan loves to plan for the future of A Hao: what kind of company to work in, what kind of city to live in, what kind of house to buy, and what kind of company to run in the future ... but gradually planning has become a set goal. Xiao Nan said to A Hao: Let's start working hard now! So under the command of Xiao Nan, the two kept looking for part-time jobs in the company and developed their own software in the computer room all night. During the summer vacation, I had promised to go to Inner Mongolia with some friends, but Xiao Nan changed her mind and resolutely advised A Hao to take the TOEFL and GRE exams in Beijing New Oriental. When she thought it was a shortcut to study in Europe, she urged A Hao to start learning foreign languages, foreign languages and even foreign languages. Later, her strategy changed again, thinking that the MBA would make them even more powerful, so she mobilized A Hao to take the exam together. Under the guidance of Xiao Nan's intensive study plan, the two were so busy that they hardly had time to meet. If they want to meet, they will also go to places like the French corner and the library to study together. Until one day, A Hao took a picture of a boy and said sadly to Xiao Nan, "This is my brother, an MBA from Peking University, who is going abroad this year. You see, he did everything you asked me to do. Let me introduce him to you. " Xiao Nan couldn't help crying ... [Magic Mirror Speaking] A Hao: At first, we would be very much in love like other lovers and spend time together, but later Xiao Nan completely omitted emotional communication. We are together, either studying or doing things. She is not interested in anything else. Her new goals are endless. It seems that we have to work hard to be Bill Gates before we can stop and enjoy a normal life. I was as nervous when I saw her as when I saw the leader. I was always worried that she would ask me if I had done this. It's not that I don't want to work hard for tomorrow. I care more about the feeling of love when I get along with her, which has become less and less. I thought of her, too I brought a photo of Zhang Shuai's brother. On that occasion, she cried so bitterly that she ignored me for several days. Sadly, I think we must end it. On Tuesday, she appeared in front of me in beautiful clothes. I asked cautiously, "To the Cape of France?" She shook her head and smiled brightly. "No, let's go to the movies." Jennifer: If you don't talk about love, how can there be love? Don't think that established feelings don't need to care. Love cannot be done once and for all. Without emotional communication, even marriage is just a name. Maybe some people are career-oriented people, but we must never pursue career-oriented love!