In the process of educating children, many children will inevitably find that children will be timid in character, and many children will be embarrassed or cautious when facing strangers. In view of this situation, children are timid, how to cultivate their courage? What parents should do is to focus on cultivating their children's self-confidence and frustration.

1, characterization

Some experts' research shows that a child's personality shaping before the age of three determines his life development, that is, as the saying goes, many children can't keep up with their childhood family education, and their fathers' role in family companionship is becoming less and less. The shaping of children's self-confidence is closely related to their father's company. His father's company and encouragement in childhood will enhance his self-confidence. When a child makes a choice, his bold letting go will make the child affirmed, which is very important to exercise his courage. The education of both parents, one partial rationality and the other partial sensibility, can make the child's personality more comprehensive.

2. Cultivate the ability of frustration

More and more children collapse when they encounter some small things, which is caused by his inner lack of frustration ability. The ability to be frustrated is also an important aspect of courage. The greater the courage of children when things happen, the stronger their inner support, which is called high frustration. Cultivation of frustration psychology Parents can do some training on trivial matters, such as not taking responsibility for their children after they fail in exams at ordinary times, but actively helping them find out the reasons for the mistakes and encouraging them to work hard to achieve good results next time. Or take your children for routine physical training, such as walking training, to help them strengthen their willpower and cultivate their positive and optimistic attitude after frustration. In the long run, his courage will gradually increase and his timidity will gradually improve.

Every child is a pure blank sheet of paper, and parents are the ones who draw pictures. A child's courage must depend on the shaping of personality and the cultivation of frustration psychology. What parents should do is to take positive measures to accompany their children to grow up happily. In this process, remember to encourage more, wait patiently and don't worry. Everything will blossom and bear fruit with time.