You read 1 Tomorrow's book club is particularly touched. By convention, a picture book should be used at the beginning. The purpose is to increase parents' understanding of picture books so that they can read them with their children at home. At the same time, it is also through simple words and pictures that parents can think about relevant educational issues.
In the picture books accumulated at ordinary times, "You are special" comes into view. I remember seeing this book once and not choosing it. I saw it again this time, so look carefully.
After reading it, I was amazed that it is really a good book that both parents and children can read.
The author of this book is Luke Dodo, an American best-selling author. This story is about a group of Wemmicks in Woodhead. They only do one thing all day and stick stickers on each other. Beautiful Woodenhead with smooth wood and good paint color is always labeled as a star. If the wood is rough or the paint falls off, it will be painted with gray spots. A Wemmick named Pangge can't do anything well, and he has too many gray spots and doesn't want to go out. He is afraid of doing stupid things again and letting others give him another gray spot. He even believed everyone's words, "He is not a good wooden head."
Looking at the fat brother in the picture, the lonely picture with his head bent down, makes me feel pity. There are too many such tagged scenes in life.
We often measure whether a child is a good child by listening or not. So there are good students, obedient children, naughty children, annoying students and poor students in the class.
What parents often say in the family is: You are slow! You just won't listen! You are so naughty! You worry me! You just don't like studying!
It can be seen that children are really birds of a feather flock together. The child gradually became what the parents said, and then the parents added in endless disappointment: Look at me and I will say that you have no talent! It is worrying.
In fact, children are eager to be praised and appreciated and affirmed by parents, teachers and classmates.
Like ourselves, the process of growing up is also our own interpretation of our own stories. In our own stories, we all carry stars and gray dots posted by others. Can you enjoy a peaceful self? Can you treat others completely objectively? How many people are completely natural and unrestrained? How many people can be really calm and indifferent? It seems that everyone acts according to other people's standards. When others praise, they feel right and happy. It seems that many times I live for the criticism and evaluation of others.
You are special. After reading You Are Special, I suddenly found that my classmates are a bit like the Wemmicks in the book. Whether it is summer vacation or school, every day is the same. They live for grades all day, and those who take skills classes can get extra points. So some learn piano, some learn electronic organ, and some play flute. Taking classes can improve your grades, so some people study English, some people take Chinese and math training classes … I also take classes every day for a week. Another student in our class set a class record of 13.
Parents worry that their children can't lose at the starting line. Attend more classes and get high marks in exams, all for scores, just like Wemmicks playing with stickers. A score of 100 in the exam is like putting a Zhang Jinxing sticker on Weimeike, and a score below 90 is like putting a gray sticker on it. One more class is like putting up an extra Zhang Jinxing sticker, and one less class is like putting up an extra gray sticker.
Those who get full marks can know 2000 words and know skills, just like Wemmicks who are covered with gold stars. They are very clever. Students envy him, teachers care about him, parents are proud of him, and other parents regard him as an example to learn.
And I, a person with average grades and average skills, can only live in obscurity one day at a time, while the poor student in my class, like a small fish in a pond, comes and goes in disgrace. Like the fat brother in the book, he became so inferior.
Seeing the lovely lucia in the book, I can't put any gray or gold stickers on my body, so I live more comfortably. Think about how hard I work for my grades!
Seeing what the carpenter who created the Wemmicks said to the fat brother,' No matter what the Wemmicks think, what matters is what I think. I think you are special, because you are mine, so I care about you.
Great father! You care about each of us, no matter what we are, we are all your children, and each of us has the talents you have given us. Just like some great scientists, we can't get high marks in school, but we have made great contributions to mankind!
"You are special" tells us not to feel inferior because you got high marks and missed a study class, but to be a lively, lovely, healthy, happy and special you!
You are special. 3. You are special. This book was given to me by a child a few years ago. It was Teacher's Day, and my child gave me this book. He smiled and said, "Teacher, I think you are very special. I send you a book and wish you a happy Teacher's Day! " I picked up the book and looked at it. It is an illustrated children's book with four words written on it: "You are special."
I lit the lamp at night, made a cup of coffee and savored it. This is a very interesting and profound book. The content is about a group of Woodhead's life stories. They chased each other and scrambled to put stickers on others. They stick star stickers on people who think they are excellent, and gray stickers on ordinary people who often make mistakes. Woodenhead, who has gradually posted a star sticker, is full of confidence. They always try their best to learn technology and stick stars again, while Woodenhead, who is often plastered with ashes, feels extremely inferior. They always give up on themselves and dare not go out. ...
Looking at it, I suddenly found that these wooden heads are very similar to ourselves. In life, we often involuntarily post to ourselves or others, "Why do I always make mistakes?" "This man is very capable!" As teachers, we often evaluate children, "You are very smart." "Why are you so naughty?" "How many times have you said it? Why do you ask?"
Inadvertently, we seem to be putting different stickers on them. Those excellent children are often praised, so they are full of confidence and enthusiasm for study and life. And those children who are not too eye-catching or naughty are often labeled as "grey stickers" for no reason. As the book says, "In fact, some people will come and give him another one just because they see a lot of gray stickers on him. There is no other reason at all. " Sometimes it's not his poor performance, but his inertia evaluation, and all he gets is criticism and accusation, and he doesn't feel successful and respected. Maybe this is the evaluation formula. Imagine how a child who can't get love and affirmation can feel happy and confident.
The fat brother in the book is actually a person who dares to try and likes to explore, but what he gets when he fails is not an encouraging smile, but a gray spot that people despise. Repeated failures made him get countless gray spots, and he began to doubt himself and became afraid to try. He even thinks they are right. He is really not a good wooden head. Suddenly, Xiao Lei's shadow jumped out of my mind. He is a naughty boy in our class, and every time something happens in the class, it has something to do with him (maybe I say this as a fixed evaluation of him). You see, he hurt his classmates during class, and physical education class played a prank. On one occasion, he even took all the children's badminton in his class and sold the copper coins inside. What a headache. In fact, at this time, his body has been invisibly labeled with gray spots by me. I read a book, in which the fat brother wanted to jump high and fell down, and then many wooden heads came to paste gray dots on him. He was about to explain when many wooden heads came over and put gray dots on him. He was extremely depressed. Think about it carefully, maybe the way I treat Xiao Lei is into the misunderstanding of fixed evaluation.
Xiao Lei's mood may be as depressed and inferior as Pongo's. Why can't I post more star stickers on him? I reflect on my own educational methods, and it is better to stick more than more gray spots. Nobody likes to get into trouble all the time. Children's nature makes them like to explore, like to keep trying, and it is inevitable that they will make mistakes on the road of growth. But as long as we understand children with tolerance and guide them correctly, I believe that every child will achieve his own success.
In fact, it was not Lucia who changed the fat brother in the book, but Eli, the carpenter who created him. He embraces everything about Fat Brother with love. In his eyes, Fat Brother is very special. He said, "Because you are mine, I care about you." Imagine what this means to a child who has experienced failures and setbacks. As teachers, if we can take care of our students like our own children, then every child will get not only knowledge, but also confidence, tolerance and deep love.
I began to pay special attention to Xiao Lei, trying to tap his bright spot. I found that he would enthusiastically arrange tables and chairs and mop the floor for the class during recess. Xiaowen vomited once. He is not afraid of getting dirty at all. He picked up the rag and wiped it, which helped me a lot. I'm really touched. I began to praise him in class and affirmed him in my unique way. A star sticker shone on him. During a class, I pulled him to my side and said calmly, "Xiao Lei, do you know? You are very special and the teacher likes you very much. " He looked at me a little surprised and shy, but his eyes showed surprise. Gradually, he began to behave better. Every time he made excellent progress, he always came to tell me that he longed for me to give him a star sticker, and his face showed a confident smile. Although sometimes he still gets gray stickers, it is obvious that the number is far less than that of star stickers. I'm glad to see his performance.
Although in the book, in the end, Fat Brother didn't understand Eli's words, "The sticker will stick only when you let it stick to you. When you care about the sticker, the sticker will be posted. The more you believe in my love, the less you care about their posts. " But he believed in the love Eli gave him.
I really want to thank this book for letting me know that everyone has their own way of life. If you care too much about what others think, you will lose yourself. In fact, every child is special, at least in the eyes of those who love him. The difference is what he got from you. Children's world is beautiful and pure. Let's use Venus stickers to guide children's behavior, cultivate their habits, set a correct example and beautify their lives. Let them be interested in learning, full of expectations for life and the future, and always have a rainbow of dreams in their hearts.
I also want to say to my mother every day: "The season of plum blossoms comes later than any other flower, but it is so unique and fragrant." Children need a growing process. Don't worry, calm down and encourage your children. You know, you are the source of their confidence!
You are special. You are Special is one of my favorite books with my baby daughter. This book tells the story of a group of small wooden heads called Wemmicks. They only do one thing all day and stick stickers to each other every day. In this way, some people are stuck in too much Venus paper, so that they are too independent; Some people have been covered with gray paper, feeling that they are useless and feel inferior and self-pity. Only one Wemmick, lucia, was different. There is nothing on her. Everyone thinks she is special.
My daughter always asks me when she reads this book, is she the most special? I gave her a positive answer. Because children are the most special in my heart. Nowadays, many things are compared by parents. In comparison with others, they unconsciously begin to recognize themselves with other people's comments. Some children will accumulate and revise evaluations, and have a correct understanding of themselves in the process of growing up; Some children have been trapped in others' wrong evaluation of themselves, and always feel that they are not as good as others, so they will live unhappy. Therefore, as parents, we should set an example, don't ask our children to do things they don't like, and don't compare their own shortcomings with the advantages of others. As parents, we should learn from Eli, the creator of Wemmicks, and tell our children loudly: "If you are positive, optimistic, brave and love life, you are special!
You are special. A few days ago, I read a picture book story. The name of this story is "You are special". This book mainly tells the story that Eli, a carpenter, made many micro-grams with wooden heads. These wooden heads have a box of star stickers and a box of gray stickers. They put stickers on each other every day. Stars represent praise and praise, and gray dots represent criticism.
Brother Pang is a Wemmick with gray spots all over his body. Fat brother feels inferior. One day he met a man who had neither stars nor gray spots. Her name is Lucia. Fat brother envies her very much. Lucia asked Fat Brother to find Eli. Fat brother came to Eli's studio. Eli told him, "I love you very much. Don't care what others think of you. You have to believe in yourself. You are very special. " Fat brother listened, and he thought Eli was right. When he thought so, a small gray spot fell from him.
I don't know what everyone thinks after reading this story. I was deeply moved. I think in life, we will inevitably get a lot of criticism and praise. Get praise, we must not be proud, get carried away. Don't be discouraged by criticism, think about whether you are really useless, try to correct what you have done badly, and strive for a little progress every day. You must believe that you are the most special.
I hope everyone can understand this book. Remember, its name is you are special.