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Debt200,000 to buy BMW only for children to go to kindergarten without losing shares. Why do parents love to keep up with the joneses?
There are many ugly phenomena in China's social atmosphere now, and it is estimated that many people have felt them. In fact, we can see the source of these ugly phenomena on the news every day. For example, there is a program "Where is Dad Going?", which obviously leads China's children's education astray. What kind of life is full of, can the average family bear it? Some stars exaggerate the confusion of spending money like running water and the luxury of children, which seriously causes the continuous deterioration of social comparison psychology.

I saw a lot of emotions in the news. In the news, a couple bought a BMW with a debt of 0.2 million/200 thousand just because their children went to kindergarten and didn't lose their jobs. If parents do this, your children will also be affected. Therefore, things that love to compare with others will get worse and worse, and the social atmosphere is not easy to guide, resulting in a heart to compare with others everywhere in the country. If this continues, how should the education of children in China go astray?

Now people in society are beginning to think rationally. Why do parents like to compare? In fact, this is a deep-seated reason. First of all, society has a subconscious contempt for ordinary workers. For an ordinary family, it will naturally not be valued by school teachers, nor will it be liked by other children. Many of these almost come from the bad influence of media propaganda and entertainment circle.

Parents' comparison also comes from the imbalance of social education. Now the school is divided into three or six grades, and even the kindergarten is divided into three or six grades. Faced with the imbalance of education, parents' investment in their children will continue to rise, and the social impact will naturally bring parents to keep up with the joneses. What kind of school children go to and what kind of clothes they wear has become an unhealthy trend to measure their status in school.

Now parents' heart of comparison comes from their own children, because it is also popular for children to compare, and compare clothes, shoes and hats at home. In this way, children will put pressure on parents, and parents' heart of comparison will rise, which has become a serious ideological and moral problem in society. There are social, family and educational reasons for parents' comparison, which together cause parents in the whole society to love comparison more and more.