Time has never favored anyone, but different people live different lives. Maybe we come from different backgrounds, but the thickness of life is the result of our own efforts. You may not be rich, but you may be immoral, you may not be famous, but you may not be civilized, you may not have desires, but you may not be ignorant. All the thicknesses are made by ourselves over time, and have nothing to do with others.
How much a person can achieve depends on how he treats his time. Your relationship with time forms you. You make time more valuable and time makes your life more valuable.
My work is quite special, and the busyness of the stage is particularly obvious. Maybe after a big task, I usually have more time. Many people who are engaged in my work are full of energy at first, and gradually become lazy. It feels like a day of slow mixing and hard work. Why are you so tired? So you will find that many people will hold their mobile phones whenever they are free, from morning to play. I have seen a colleague playing games on WeChat and running coolly every day. He said he could run for an hour or two now without dying. I marvel at his skill and feel sorry for him. Unfortunately, a lot of time is wasted on meaningless repetition. In fact, he is still very single-minded, at least he spends his time running games. He can be said to be an expert in games. Another colleague is also holding a mobile phone every day, flipping through this software and fiddling with that software, and one day passes. At ten o'clock in the evening, these two also turned off the lights and went to bed on time, which reminded me of a classic line from Shenyang. As soon as I closed my eyes, the day passed. Sadly, the second half of the sentence is closed.
Although this may be a bit heavy, it is an indisputable fact. I don't think I am much better than others, and I don't think I will develop much more than others in the future. I just think time is precious, and it's hard to get it back when you slip through your fingers.
No matter what the situation, it is always right to accumulate by yourself, or to form your own knowledge system through extensive reading, or to become a professional master through training your own skills. These accumulations will make your life thicker. When I was chosen by the opportunity, I was fully prepared, and then began to release my energy bit by bit. Without this accumulation, even luck is just a flash in the pan, because no one can overdraw capital at all.
I spent most of my spare time reading books, and I liked reading books when I was in college. Before that, I concentrated on my studies all day in high school. The books I buy the most are all kinds of counseling materials. At most, I usually buy magazines and look at the world's contemporary music scene. Perhaps my literary cell was civilized late, but I have never been interested in or dabbled in such books as Han Jing M Guo, which were popular in the north and south of the country at that time. The most extravagant book I bought was Twilight Movie Magazine. At that time, I only took photos of Twilight. Later, I went to college, and my time gradually increased. I fell in love with reading, but I had no idea about reading. Generally, I bought some books that sell well and recommended them. Most of them prefer chicken soup for the soul, which is successful and inspiring. I also carefully prepared a reading notebook, and I will copy and write on it when I have time. Later, I found that sometimes what you wrote down in your notebook may not be remembered, but it is not necessary to write it down in your notebook.
Now I feel that four years of college is really the enlightenment of reading. Did not form their own style routines, reading is omnivorous. Later, I met a good buddy in a year's job training, and his level really gave me a devastating blow to my self-confidence. He dabbles in a wide range, and the high quality of official document writing makes me ashamed. I feel ashamed every time I talk about some writers and books. At that time, I was basically defeated except for the authors of youth series, such as Liu Tong, Lu Sihao and Zhang Haochen. I sincerely regret that I didn't cherish my four years in college, so I studied hard and decided to make some achievements in reading. From last year to this year, I also read a lot of books and bought some reference books for official document writing. I found that my cultural background was still lacking, so I bought some ancient books to improve my cultural literacy. The more you read, the more you find your previous shallowness, and the more you find some truth in the book. A lot of reading makes me feel that sometimes reading alone is not enough. Thinking is the purpose of reading, and thinking is the deepening of reading. So I gradually wrote some insights. I know that one bite is not fat, but I still have to take the initiative to eat. Even if there is no work task every night, I will work overtime to read books. A knowledge panic makes me afraid to fall asleep too early.
Maybe my hobby is one-sided for some people. I admit that I lack exercise, which is a fact. Besides reading, I studied calligraphy in college, which was really a late enlightenment. I didn't have this condition at home when I was a child. My parents are the most ordinary workers. They have done their best for my study, and it is hard for them to see it again. I practiced calligraphy with my teacher for half a year and graduated. Relatively speaking, I don't have a whole block of time to practice calligraphy, so it's a bit deserted. Until last year, the unit needed to write calligraphy materials. Some colleagues knew that I had practiced calligraphy and gave me this task. This really worries me. I haven't written calligraphy for a long time I immediately went online to buy copybooks and calligraphy tools, and practiced late every day. Finally, the leader was satisfied with the results I handed over that night. Now I have bought a new set of calligraphy tools in the office, that is, the calligraphy tool of water painting cloth, and I have decided to write official script first. Not everyone can write regular script well. I think I just need to have my own characteristics and practice calligraphy when I have nothing to do, although I don't know what these hobbies will be like.
Think about it, because of our laziness, we always think that there is plenty of time and everything can be put off, which leads to so many plans, trips, love and in-depth research on life not being implemented! When the disaster comes, we do nothing, and we will find ourselves back in the ordinary life day after day, and our desire for life will be exhausted.
I often tell others that laziness is normal. Everyone is lazy. I feel comfortable sleeping at eleven o'clock today. If I think about it tomorrow, I will go to bed one day earlier, so I will go to bed early every day. Therefore, we all need to remind ourselves to do something we don't want to do every day. After a long time, we will gradually form a habit. Now I read books until after twelve o'clock every night. I don't feel used to reading all day. As long as anything becomes our habit, it will be easy to handle, but I think making ourselves happy is the happy thing.
I was lazy in college, so I regret it now. Didn't learn an housekeeping skill well. It is true that many plans have not been realized. Originally, I said that I would learn office numbers, PS, audio and video, AE and other office software, but they all ended in vain, resulting in the need to learn and sell when I use them now. The only thing worth remembering is traveling. At that time, it was said to be a tour. Now I feel that traveling is a lower level. I must say travel. At that time, I saved my own money, scholarships, lucky money and living expenses, and went to Beijing, Tianjin, Qingdao, Weihai, Rizhao, Laoshan, Jinan, Tai 'an, Ningxia, Nanjing and Shanghai, although I haven't been abroad for four years. Most people have been to these places, but four years ago, I thought I was ok. After all, I saved money for a poor trip. Actually, I like this kind of trip very much. Once on the road, you won't have any troubles and devote yourself to the scenery around you. I think we should take a holiday every year, go out and feel different scenery and customs, and it is also very happy to spend a few days with good friends. As the old saying goes, reading thousands of books is easy.
After work, I found that many things that used to be easy to do are now luxury goods, and I want to repeat the same thing every day. Yesterday and the day before yesterday are the other way around, and there is nothing inconvenient. I think from time to time, what kind of life is this! But I don't feel that my time is wasted. I was just surprised that yesterday was no different from the day before yesterday. I was arranged to live like this. My footprints were blown away and disappeared in the blink of an eye.
Before I went to college, I never thought about what kind of career I wanted to pursue. Perhaps this is the biggest failure of education in our country. What is learning for? In order to get into college. What major do you choose to go to college? It doesn't matter as long as you go to college. So we will find that many people study hard at a cold window but don't know what career they want to pursue. When they took the college entrance examination, they did not have any target majors. Many of them are adjusted or reported first as long as the score is enough. It's good to go to college anyway. I was in the same situation. Although high school was in the experimental class of a key school, it didn't get a satisfactory result in the college entrance examination. My mother always wanted me to study military medicine, but I couldn't study this major because of the conditions. Later, my family kept asking me to apply for national defense students. I have always opposed this major because I don't like being a soldier. I feel that life is too depressing and too hard, but I still signed up. Finally, I joined the national defense students as my parents wished, and now I work in the army.
In fact, the army is considered to be a place of growth and success, but I don't think so. It still depends on individual efforts. This is really a big school. What position can be achieved depends on how individuals struggle. No one will offer to help you. As a cadre, I do have a lot of spare time. Turn off the lights on time at night 10, and the time after turning off the lights is entirely up to you. Some people are more and more comfortable in this environment, less and less motivated, and eat and drink slowly. Moreover, the life of the army is really single. You can basically see the works of that year at the beginning of the year. Even what you eat every meal every day is predictable, too regular, and basically nothing can break the routine. So yesterday and the day before yesterday won't have any influence on the music at all. At first, I was also very upset. I have never lived such a monotonous and constrained life, and my heart is depressed. Later, I tried to understand myself and put the rest of my time into what I like to do. I'm slowly thinking a lot. Admittedly, life is not easy. If you want to live a better life than others, you must endure hardships than others. Behind every successful person, there is a history of silent tears, but they are the strongest side in front of others. I don't know how far I can go on this road in the future, but since I have chosen, I will go through thick and thin, work hard on this road and leave my footprints.
Sometimes I try to qualify myself not to do things I don't like, so that when I meet someone I like, I won't keep them because I'm not good enough. In order to avoid widening the gap with friends, we can also see the same world in the future. To see where you can finally go. One of my soldiers once told me that you are really the hardest platoon leader I have ever seen in five years as a soldier. I smiled and said what to do if I didn't work hard. This is really a problem. I am working hard now to gain more initiative for myself. No matter at work or in life, if you meet a girl you like in the future, you won't be unable to keep each other because of inferiority. Sometimes in front of the person I like, I really think, how can we be happy in the future with such poor living conditions? China society still emphasizes the right match. A marriage without the support of two adults is a missing marriage. I don't want to be a person who wants to go all his life because of his own relationship. In fact, there are obvious differences between different units working in the army. After five or six years, the gap between students in the same group will gradually widen, some will be promoted quickly, and some will stay put. I don't want to be left too far, so I can only rush forward with a smile. I remember a friend in the military academy found that I still kept close contact with many friends in high school. He said that none of my former classmates were engaged in the same job, and it was useless to communicate, so I didn't contact again. Personally, I don't quite agree with this view. Friends don't get together because they are useful. We gradually became bosom friends, because they are congenial and appreciate each other. I never care what my friends do. I think, only with them can I not be eliminated by the outside world and see the scenery outside the army through them. I am working hard now, hoping to be on the same level with my friends in the future, to see the same world with them in the future, and to talk about things together like now.
Life is a one-way trip. How to see different scenery on the same road depends on yourself.