Is it happier to tear down the top white than ordinary beautiful women?

Typical PUA behavior: all kinds of denial, suppression and destruction.

I hope you will be an honest tool man all your life and don't have other ideas.

How to get along with such people?

Such a person has a big problem with his character.

First of all, what can be blacked out should be blacked out as much as possible, and what can be kept away should be kept away as much as possible.

There is no need to waste your time and energy on such people.

If you can't pull away from it, try to avoid it and avoid confrontation within a certain range.

If it is beyond your tolerance, evaluate the strength gap between you and ta.

If the strength of the other side overwhelmed you.

First, learn to protect yourself and don't let yourself get hurt too much.

For example, keep some key evidence in case of emergency.

Second, learn to ask for help, and don't suffer silently.

For example, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can let her husband deal with these problems. After all, communication between mother and child is smoother.

If the other person is equal to you.

As soon as I want to improve myself, I will ignore ta after widening the gap.

Some people just like to bully others and are afraid of hard work. When your strength crushes ta, ta's attitude towards you is completely different.

Second, fight back in time and let the other party know that you will not blindly tolerate it.

Tolerate ta blindly, it will only get worse and worse, and occasionally it will be hard.

If the other side is far less powerful than you.

Ta is just a buffoon in front of you. There's no need to worry about ta

After a long time, ta knows that she can't get benefits from you, so she won't make waves again.

You fought with ta. It's not honorable to win, but shameful to lose.

It also shows that your pattern is too low and it is not worth calculating you. There are two evils:

One is that she has no talent, so what she says and does hurts you without knowing it. This is not evil, she is only limited by her education level and life experience. This kind of mother-in-law is not vicious, but her emotional intelligence is not high and she is selfish.

One is hypocrisy, which is particularly amiable on the surface. When you are alone, your face is exposed, "evil" is hidden and secretly bites you. This kind of mother-in-law is very jealous, not just for you, but for everyone.

First, if we can live separately, the problem is not too big. As long as she is kind, she will hurt people. Over time, as long as you can mobilize your high emotional intelligence skills and subdue her, that's all.

In the second case, it is difficult to identify, but once found, stay away as soon as possible. This is the main reason of the matter, and it is also the root cause of the unrest in your family.

Specific identification methods, get along more and observe more.

1. Ask your boyfriend about his parents' daily life.

Ask your boyfriend about the relationship between his parents and other relatives.

3. Go to her house, eat with her more, feel the furnishings of her house, whether it is dirty or not, and whether it is appropriate to treat people.

Look at my boyfriend's father, what he looks like in front of his future mother-in-law, and listen to what he says about his wife. A man who has been squeezed at home for a long time will be somewhat timid.

You can also do some tests:

For example, if you buy something and give it to her privately, see if she will tell your boyfriend to express her appreciation and gratitude.

Find an opportunity to participate in group activities with her, even if there is one more strange aunt, to see her usual popularity and how other aunts get along with her.

Some camouflage can't be hidden when there are many people.

In addition, you should also be mentally prepared:

In the real world, there are very few people with great evils, and many people are just ordinary people (including yourself) with some minor faults. Stay away from ungrateful baiwenhang.

Only cruel women are more likely to be happy! Be hard on yourself, and men will not neglect you or take you seriously.

Stay away from four kinds of people;

1, a person with bad conduct;

2. People who don't know how to be grateful;

3. hypocritical people;

4. People who break their promises. 1. Love a person depends on his appearance.

Don't forgive or forget those who betray you.

Don't give him a second chance to betray.

3. Stay away from people who borrow money from you. Honest people don't borrow money from their lovers.

Stay away from the man who is reluctant to spend money for you, and don't expect him to be good to you in the future.

5. Please your man with self-mutilation. He is violent, so don't be moved.

6. People are divided into groups and want to know what kind of person he is? Look at his friends.