The era of content entrepreneurship is coming, and the explosive growth of knowledge makes everyone seem to be involved in this wave. In the past year, I was full of desire for learning. Every day, I am not studying, but on the way to study, such as professional courses, speeches, communication, mind mapping, emotional management, and micro-classes in the workplace. But after learning it, I feel that I have learned nothing except this knowledge. What do I need to learn most? What should I focus on? Fortunately, in these two days' etiquette training class, I found the answer, which seemed to open a new world for me.

This is a two-minute world. You only have one minute to show people who you are, and another minute to make them like you. How can we make others have a good first impression on themselves? The data tells you that appearance accounts for 55%, manners for 38% and conversation content for 7%. These data may subvert your cognition. Maybe before, you said it was really important to learn to speak well, to communicate well, to pronounce well, and so on. But I think these things are more like the top of the pyramid If you want to make this pyramid stronger, the foundation is that you should learn manners.

What is etiquette? To put it simply, the ceremony is concentrated in the heart, and the instrument is obvious. Etiquette has five basic principles, namely, respect, sincerity, modesty, tolerance and moderation. Etiquette is strict with self-discipline and lenient with others. For example, we often smile at each other from the heart to show respect, but the other person smiles at you and even ignores you. Can you go up and have a quarrel with him and say that you are rude? We won't, because we know we are polite people, but we can't ask each other to do the same. The appearance of the instrument will change your aura, your image will speak, and your image power will be influential. For example, smiling is a courtesy and a respect for others, but can you really smile? Teacher Xiaoxiao is the person who laughs the most. Looking at her is like a spring breeze, giving people a feeling of being very comfortable and wanting to be close, and I can't help laughing, and my mood is getting better. For example, standing posture, the external image will make me feel that the smiling teacher is very temperament, elegant and professional. Before she speaks, I will be curious and look forward to what these two days will bring us. This may be the charm brought by etiquette. Under the guidance of teacher Xiaoxiao, let's see if the students look good when they smile.

Etiquette is the expression of comprehensive quality. You should not only learn manners, including communication, receiving people and things, being a man and doing things, but also learn manners, including correct standing posture, squatting posture, sitting posture, bowing, smiling, makeup, expression, hairstyle and so on.

When I know this, I will form a system in my mind, so that I can answer the above questions more clearly. For example, I want to be an elegant, intelligent and temperamental woman first, then etiquette is the most basic quality I need, and then I will continue to build bricks and optimize them, such as learning to communicate, learning to speak, and then studying and practicing in stages to achieve my goal.

Etiquette-make the other person feel comfortable

What is the best etiquette? There is no best etiquette in the world, only the most comfortable etiquette. Gifts are a state of heartfelt respect for others. Like the most comfortable clothes, it makes people feel close and warm.

For example, Chinese etiquette in social etiquette, we need to send an invitation in advance and send a text message, preferably in the evening, which is more formal. When booking a hotel, you should consider the traffic situation, parking situation, meal time, etc. All this is to make guests feel comfortable and convenient. For example, the teacher told you how to pass the pen to others. You need to take off the pen cover first, hold the head and tail of the pen with both hands and pass through with both hands. It was handed to the right hand of another person who could write immediately, so that he could write immediately. At that moment, he really felt the charm of etiquette and made the other party feel comfortable and respected. I believe you will also have a very good impression in his heart.

Etiquette-keep practicing

I may have learned more knowledge in these two days, but I haven't fully mastered the content, so I need to practice and perceive in my life to make myself more sensitive. For example, keep smiling, listen to each other, think about standing up and sitting up straight when walking and sitting, and do things for others on the principle of comfort for others.

These two days not only gained knowledge, but also felt the power of example. The smiling teacher's elegant temperament, kind smile and wise expression made me feel her persistence in things, her love for life and her insight into the world. I wonder from time to time, after ten or twenty years, can I still be a teacher? I believe this possibility is very great, because I have seen people around me do this. When the people around you really made it from 0 to 1 and became better, the shock to you was very strong. You will feel that you need to act immediately and thank the teacher for bringing me this strength.

During these two days' courses, the students were also very helpful. We train together, find mistakes together, improve together and grow together. This feeling is really good. Thank you for your company. I hope we can all keep practicing and make ourselves better.

Finally, I would like to thank teachers such as Mr. Chen and Mr. Liu from Hainachuan for providing us with services and giving us a feeling of home. I hope it will get better and better!