The way to get along with villains, in the process of getting along with others, will inevitably meet villains. The villain is disgusting to many people, but it is inevitable, so we all need to restrain ourselves. Here are some ways to get along with villains.

How little people get along 1 1. Keep your distance: don't let people know your cards in shallow words.

As the old saying goes, "It is better to quarrel with a gentleman than to talk to a villain". When you get along with villains in the workplace, you must keep a safe distance.

In the workplace, you can never tell whether the other person is a person or a ghost. It is better to keep your distance skillfully than to be stabbed in the back. Whether you are an old colleague or a new colleague, there is only work intersection between you, so don't be too personal. Speaking easily is a taboo in the workplace, unless you want to be discovered by others, unless you are not afraid of others using the topic to play.

Be an outsider and keep a proper distance from your colleagues, especially the small people in the workplace. As the saying goes, people near Zhu Zhechi are all black. As you get closer, you will be influenced by it. Colleagues will suspect that you are in cahoots with the villain, so it is difficult to get caught in the middle. If you go away, you will be hated by them, and the villain in the workplace will treat you as a soft persimmon, thus getting back at you.

2, peace of mind: be alert to deliberate praise and calmly respond to provocation.

As an old driver in the workplace, I will give you a piece of advice: people with too sweet mouths should not be too intimate; If you sow discord, just listen;

As the saying goes, "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", and true friendship has always been tepid and uneventful. Whether in the workplace or in life, we should be careful of the "friendship" that suddenly heats up. Don't take others' warm praise and explicit appreciation seriously. Behind the sugar-coated shells, there are often elaborate traps.

There is no need to be angry and worried in the face of villains' sowing dissension and fanning the flames. Thank him calmly for telling me. Don't just listen to the villain's side of the story. Think more when you are in trouble, and you will understand as soon as you listen. Don't jump to conclusions and express your views on someone easily, so as not to be smeared by him.

3, no interest involved: never try to get the skin from the tiger, make three chapters in advance.

A gentleman is figurative, while a villain is figurative. Get along with villains in the workplace and never get involved in interests.

Interests are their lifeblood, and talking about interests with villains is tantamount to getting the eggs from the tiger skin.

When appropriate, learn to play dumb, concentrate, and show that you are harmless and pose no threat.

If necessary, let some petty profits be given to the dog as charity, so as to save trouble.

If you can, you must put an end to interest disputes from the source; Avoidance is inevitable and must be placed in the three chapters of Ming Ming. After all, the villain is narrow-minded, and once there is a conflict of interest, he will often do whatever it takes, from holding a grudge to digging a hole. We can't guard against their despicable means.

4. Don't offend: Don't escalate contradictions and don't be afraid of things.

As the saying goes, it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain. People who don't understand this sentence have a miserable ending.

The villain in the workplace doesn't annoy you, don't offend him actively. You stepped on him when you knew he was a piece of shit. Isn't that a slut Moreover, the villain in the workplace is very vengeful. An unintentional loss can be returned to you ten times and one hundred times, and I want to kill you.

When you have a conflict with a villain in the workplace, don't escalate the conflict without a single shot. Otherwise, there will be a big fight, and the superiors will only hit 50 boards each, which will not be fundamentally solved. It will also be recorded on the "enemy list" by the workplace villain, thinking about how to get rid of it every day.

Don't make trouble if it's okay. If you are not afraid of things, you must live calmly in the workplace. If you meet a villain in the workplace, ignore it first, then wait for the opportunity and kill it!

5. Show your muscles: Show your strong strength and refuse to push your luck.

Bullying the weak and being afraid of the hard is a typical feature of workplace villains. We can compromise appropriately, but we can't just give in, or they will push their luck!

Don't blame others for thinking that you are hello Kitty! When you have a conflict with a villain at work and the other person deliberately picks things up, you must never be soft-hearted, but have the courage to fight to the end. Otherwise, your retreat is bullying, and your weakness is the attack point.

To be a man in the workplace, you must have sharp edges and corners. Find opportunities to let him know your strength and gently tell him that you have a temper. As long as you are right, your tough attitude will make him afraid, and your tough strength will make him have scruples. If necessary, we can also make an example for young people to realize the consequences of their own eating.

6. Grasp the handle: you should hit the snake seven inches, and you should pay attention to the key points.

Small people in the workplace are not easy to provoke, but there is no need to be afraid of being provoked. We should be good at discovering the weakness of the villain and using it to force him to submit.

1 Respond calmly and collect evidence from the villain: There is no evidence in the workplace, and you should pay attention to evidence in everything, otherwise you will become a "villain" who gossips.

Waiting for an opportunity, a fatal blow at the critical moment: when he offends his boss, he will produce evidence that the villain is a traitor, so that he will never stand out.

(3) Alliance, * * * counterattack with evidence: the masses have discerning eyes and should be good at uniting other people who have been hurt by villains and have opinions.

If you don't do it, you won't die. Create opportunities to lure the villain into the urn and let him know that the workplace is also about rules and morality!

For villains, don't take reason, don't make friends and don't offend. Deal with the villain, seize the handle, bide your time and kill him.

People don't attack me, I don't attack. If people make me comity, if people make me uproot again!

The way for villains to get along is 2 1. Don't argue with villains out of thin air.

Confucius said, "an upright man is open and poised, I am worried."

Don't be the debater of the villain, you will win in the end.

2, don't compete with the villain who is mercenary.

Instead of wasting energy and being dragged into the swamp by villains, it is better to be calm and uncontroversial, improve your self-cultivation and not be polluted.

People live in the world, do not compete with mercenary villains, and can earn greater benefits by relying on real skills.

Step 3 keep your distance from villains

As the saying goes: "It is difficult to draw a tiger's skin but a bone. People know its face but not its heart."

When people reach middle age, they buy a few orders for the mistakes of villains, and then slowly see which is good and which is evil.

After seeing the villain's face clearly, I understand that keeping a distance from the villain is the most decent way to get along.

If you have to associate with a villain, it is best to have a nodding acquaintance.

Don't say things you shouldn't say, or you will fall into a trap and leave hidden dangers;

Don't talk about feelings, stay away from feelings, or you will be used and set a trap.

When you get along with villains, you must be careful what you say and do, and it is best not to have any interest with them.

Otherwise, if they win, they will fight for big profits and take advantage of you; After failure, they will help you at all costs.

With little people * * *, after all, it is small-scale operations.

Never offend a villain. This is not timidity, but foresight and wisdom.

The ancients said, "Those who are close to sages are far from villains."

You can't have promiscuity all your life.

Make friends with gentlemen and stay away from villains, so as to be worthy of our sincerity and time.

The way of getting along with villains is 3 0 1. Don't offend the villain.

Never expose yourself alone because of a sense of justice. Villains never consider themselves treacherous and unfriendly. They are highly sensitive, with eyes like eagles and tongues like swords. You are definitely no match.

02. Keep a certain distance from them.

Keep a bland superficial relationship, and never be as close as friends, because the villain's sweet mouth and hard face make you unprepared and at a loss.

03. Speak carefully and greet politely.

If you criticize or talk about other people's privacy, it will definitely become their handle to make waves, or become a bargaining chip for revenge in the future; If they criticize or talk about other people's privacy, you should stop immediately and don't listen to a word, because they will definitely set you up anyway. Especially when they dial the phone to chat, they often record you by the way. This is the villain mentality.

04, not interested in doing it.

They are sociable and engage in small circles. They look very lively and have many benefits. But you must never rely on them to get benefits, because they will definitely demand double returns, and you will definitely lose more because of small things.

05. It doesn't hurt to eat a small loss.

Because you will not only find it difficult to get justice, but also forge greater hatred; They are narrow-minded, cruel, endless with you, and you are more tired; The ancients said: endure a calm moment; Take a step back and broaden the horizon. You should take it as a practical lesson, so that you can grow up and win more respect.

A way to distinguish bad guys

0 1. likes to spread rumors and cause trouble.

There is usually another conspiracy purpose, not just for fun; Sometimes, in order to get promoted, I will set off my own Excellence and vilify my opponents. They are afraid that the world will not be chaotic, and they are used to making sentences by "listening", distorting the facts and making things out of nothing.

02, likes to sow discord.

Divide the feelings of colleagues, create disputes and troubles, and fight with each other, resulting in the benefits of fishermen. They are eloquent and good at clearing their responsibilities; Later, he played a peacemaker, a double-faced spy, and the so-called "double-faced knife ghost" in Min dialect.

03, like flattery

Praise and encouragement is different from flattery and flattery. The latter is full of tricks, full of enthusiasm and sweet mouth, which makes people feel confused and at a loss in Tao Tao. They are more deliberately close to their superiors, and often wait for opportunities and have nothing to fear.

04. I like to keep yin and yang.

In terms of work, words and deeds are different, and I am good at superficial kung fu, and I am also good at taking the opportunity to grab credit. When it comes to dealing with people, they are both two-faced. Sometimes they will praise you for telling your secret in front of you, but betray you behind your back.

I like to have it both ways.

If you gain power, you must depend on him; if you lose power, you must abandon him. Watermelon is close to the big side. They use the power of others to improve their position. Those who have no use value, they don't want to get close, at most they put on airs.

06, like to step on others' shoulders.

You plant trees, he enjoys the cool; Use you to open the way for them, and when they succeed, they will not repay you; Even turn your face and ruthlessly kill you; How can they be grateful when they take advantage of others and take it for granted?

07, like to fall.

As long as someone falls or fails, they will catch up and make up; For example, that person "deserves it" everywhere. They are also wise after the event, and often make sarcastic remarks of schadenfreude.

08, like to find scapegoats.

Obviously there is something wrong with your words and deeds, but you refuse to admit it, and you have to find a big head to take the blame. Their eloquence is sharp, they dare to swear, and they can mislead everyone to send the wrong message. Over time, people will be eager for money and accumulate unsuccessfully. Sometimes the truth sinks into the sea and is always blinded by twists and turns.

In fact, the characteristics of villains are not limited to these. People who despise the law, despise the truth, are mean and heartless, immoral, mercenary, selfish and obsessed with ghosts ... usually have the character of villains.

The ancients said, "It's hard to paint a tiger's skin but a tiger's bone", and said, "Tell everyone, don't throw it all in your heart", and said, "It's impossible to hurt people's hearts, and it's indispensable to guard against people", and said, "Judge a person by his appearance, and don't argue with the sea", and said, "It's easy to hide a gun that opens a bow, but it's difficult to guard against an arrow that opens a bow" …

They all teach children to see the society clearly and protect themselves.