After a rigid era that stifles nature, people rediscover the importance of diversity when they look at the mistakes they made in the past. As a result, "publicizing individuality" has become a new slogan. "Personality!" Young people shouted that they couldn't wait to be free; "Personality!" The students jumped with joy, although they didn't fully understand the meaning of the word; "Personality!" The teacher followed, and they had to change their educational ideas and methods.
Under the wave of personalization, people's views have also changed. Words like "you dress with personality" and "he has personality" no longer imply irony, but become great compliments. Yes, who will be content with mediocrity in a society with personality?
Really? The so-called "personalized dress" may be just a T-shirt with a messy pattern, a pair of white jeans and a bunch of strange silver ornaments; The person who is rated as "true personality" may be just because he can hurt people regardless of time, place and occasion.
Is the "personality" that people pursue so much?
The real "personality" should be from the inside out. It should be a kind of self-cultivation, a concept of life formed after experience, far more profound than external dressing. It is true that a person's clothes may reflect his character, but his character will not change because of his clothes. Those who try to pursue individuality in clothing can only pursue shallowness in the end.
At the same time, we can't show our personality at will. Even a society that respects individuality must have the most basic constraints, such as morality, such as law. In other words, the premise of showing personality is not to hurt others, but to make our thinking soar instead of breeding bad habits.
When the whole society is shouting "individuality", there are too few people who really have individuality and really know how to publicize individuality.
Personality is the correct understanding of yourself and others, the firmness of not going with the flow, and the courage to face incomprehension and ridicule. Jane Goodall, a female scientist who has lived with orangutans for more than ten years for scientific research, has a great personality, although she looks just an old woman with simple clothes and gentle face; Thoreau lived alone by Walden Lake, meditating and writing. He had a great personality. Although he didn't dye his hair fashionable blue, he must work as hard as a farmer. Yes, these are brave people with personalities. They made a noble choice different from ordinary people and persisted.
In the face of their achievements, I want to say that those who wear strange clothes and moan vulgar are not qualified to talk about the word "personality"