Now, in many colleges and universities, the most news that reaches our ears is: another student jumped off a building in the university, and another murder case occurred in the university ... We can't deny that with the improvement of our knowledge level, more and more people have psychological problems to varying degrees, and more and more lives have disappeared from us, and nine times out of ten these lost lives are college students of our age. Have we ever thought about the death of these lives? No, many of us don't care. At best, we are jokes after dinner. However, when we talk about other people's lives numbly, do you think that we will one day go to the point of no return like them? Or, have we ever worried about the safety of our own group and thought about how to prevent this from happening?
As we get older, more and more people around us leave. I gradually realized that life is so fragile, so I cherish it psychologically and dare not give up life easily. I think many people have similar ideas with me, because life is hard-won, because I am sorry to leave my parents who have worked hard to raise me, and I am sorry to love myself and my loved ones. In this way, we will not commit suicide, on the contrary, we will protect our lives. This is also an instinct, and human beings have the instinct to survive. But this is just an idea, it doesn't mean that we will never give up life. Suicide is an impulse. At that moment, people who commit suicide will not think about so many responsibilities and hard-won life.
I have asked many people: When you are extremely depressed and feel that you have no confidence in life, will you give up your life? I am glad that most of them answered no, but this is not the case in reality. The college students around us take the extremely negative words "I don't want to live", "I want to die" and "I want to jump up and hug ..." as their mantra. I don't know if they are related. These are all very bad psychological hints. If it accumulates to a certain extent, it will be out of control. The more we say such things, the less we cherish our lives. In extreme cases, we will be unable to control our behavior and will also cause lifelong regret. In any case, it is also an irresponsible waste and pollution to life.
Bernard Shaw once said: "There are two tragedies in life, one is despair and the other is complacency." If we don't cherish, use and abandon, life is not life. Therefore, we should control our life with a positive and peaceful heart. Even in the storm of life, don't give up and don't lose heart. Don't complain about life, we should have hope and yearning to meet a sunny day after rain. Think of every dawn as the beginning of life. I hope not fade away, but we haven't found it.
Cherishing life not only means not giving up life, but also is the most basic condition. Without this condition, everything is nothing and meaningless. However, having this condition does not mean cherishing life. To borrow a sentence from Whitman: When I am alive, I want to be the master of life, not its slave. I think that's enough. If you don't be a slave to life, you won't be helpless to fate. If you don't be a slave to life, you won't live a decadent life.
Look at our college life. Do we regret wasting time? Are we ashamed of mediocrity? Colorful campus life, continuous gatherings and attractive society, are we lost? When we lie in bed exhausted from the party, have we ever asked ourselves: What have we learned, what have we got, and is our life meaningful?
There is a simple reason. If you say now: Never mind, I have plenty of time. It doesn't matter, I'm still young. It doesn't matter, death is far away from me. I want to say that each of us has a sick experience, and each of us has a physical discomfort. So when you are sick or uncomfortable, do you miss your healthy time? The answer is yes, yes, this is the general psychology of us ordinary people. So in order not to regret when we die, the only thing we can do now is to cherish life.
There is only one life that belongs to human beings. In this short life course, it is intertwined with contradictions and pains, full of pursuits and hardships, full of thorns and bumps, just like the unknown and lonely weeds. Only by paying extremely heavy efforts can we get extremely rich sweetness. Small and great, sad and rich, frustrated and remolded, frustrated and lucky Only by cherishing life and grasping yourself can we abandon small, sad, frustrated and frustrated and embrace great, rich, remolded and lucky. You know, life is so precious that even the grass is constantly challenging the limit and perfecting itself!
I hope everyone will cherish life, family, lovers, people around them, nature and everything that is alive and sustains life! Life is not only your own life, it belongs to those who love you and those you love, but also to our society and all mankind. So for the sake of those who love us in good faith and for the sake of our society, let us assume this most basic responsibility!