Colorful world, colorful life, so that innocent and yearning for beauty always feel endless natural beauty and humanistic beauty, appreciation will be born from this.
Generally speaking, everyone has a vision of appreciation, but also needs the mentality of others to appreciate. But because of the weakness of human nature, it is easy to appreciate things, but difficult to appreciate people; It's easy to appreciate people who are far away from you, but it's hard to appreciate people who are close to you ... What's more, human beings have some characteristics: their own is the best, and they will disdain or even sneer at the strengths of others. The pace of competition and hard work has passed by in a hurry. Aren't we enjoying the grass and trees in life, the stars on the lake in Yun Lan during the day and the flute floating in the evening wind at sunset with a delicate and calm mood?
Life needs appreciation. Appreciating is practicing hard.
Appreciation is an attitude, a calm and free attitude, strict with self-discipline and respect for others; Appreciation is a kind of mind, which can accommodate the talents and strengths of others, and at the same time serve as the driving force for persistent learning and enterprising; Appreciation is a sense of calmness of the slag that has done all the benefits, and it will not be dizzy in front of the colorful prosperity; Appreciation is a philosophy. A flower can see for a lifetime, and the world can be seen in the grass.
Looking at nature and the world with appreciation, we will find that nature and life are so beautiful; Facing relatives and classmates with appreciation, we will sincerely appreciate this once-in-a-lifetime life, let us walk hand in hand; Working and living in an appreciative atmosphere will make us happier and more confident to do everything we should do, our responsibilities and obligations.
Learn to appreciate, the journey of life will find more beauty and charm, and its own mind and the meaning of survival will become wider and wider. Treat others with an appreciative attitude and vision, and our life will enter a higher world.
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Scholars despise each other since ancient times. For thousands of years, scholars have different degrees of self and arrogance. Or arrogant, or arrogant, or aloof, both. However, it is not easy to be good at discovering and learning from others' strengths and be polite.
Yu Boya, a musician of Chu State, is good at playing, but he has high and low. Woodcutter Zhong Ziqi is a good listener and can understand Boya's thoughts. The two became bosom friends like "high mountains and flowing water" and became brothers. The next year, he died of illness. Boya broke the piano to thank his bosom friend and stopped playing. The story of bosom friends has been circulated for thousands of years and has become a model for mutual appreciation of "heroes know heroes". It tells us that learning to appreciate others is also a supreme realm of life, and appreciation is as happy and successful as being appreciated.
People often use the stories of Bole and Maxima to illustrate the problem of being good at discovering talents. However, talking about appreciation is another matter. There are always talents, and there are often talents who have been discovered, but few people really appreciate them. Appreciation is a heartfelt feeling, a heart-to-heart communication, the driving force of "a scholar dies for a confidant", which is beyond flattery. Of course, no one is perfect, everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages, and talents are no exception. The story of bosom friend explains our real appreciation, that is, we can look at the advantages and disadvantages of others objectively, "choose the good and follow it, choose the bad and change it."
When I was a child, the story of "Yan Zi makes Chu" made me understand the truth that "oranges are born in Huainan and oranges are born in Huaibei", and the role of "soil" in people's growth and progress. It also made me know that people should not wear colored glasses. Sometimes, from another angle, there may be another scene. We know that behind every successful person, there will be a little-known story and their own "noble people". It is precisely because they encourage you, support you and appreciate you in the process of your struggle, so that you can understand your personal value, regain your self-confidence, give play to your personal potential and finally achieve yourself. On the contrary, if no one appreciates you and finds you, you may remain depressed. If gold must shine, someone must extract it from the dark mine and put it in the right place!
To learn to appreciate others, you must be generous, be able to read and tolerate others, enlarge their advantages and ignore their shortcomings. This will not only make others feel their own value, but also benefit themselves. This is also the so-called win-win situation. People who appreciate others are those who are good at discovering "class". He who sees a sage thinks strangely, because he thinks that heroes have the same interests. But those who really appreciate others should also appreciate "non-me" people or enemies, respect their opponents, appreciate their respectable points, and make others flattered, so as to win their real respect. Sometimes, it can achieve the effect of turning hostilities into friendship, and the contradiction of talking and laughing disappears. Why are you unhappy? However, a chicken intestine and a small belly can't hold people, and they can't achieve anything, and ultimately they can't achieve themselves.
Appreciating yourself is narcissistic, while appreciating others is critical. Only by holding the mentality of "giving someone a rose and leaving a lingering fragrance in your hand" can you really learn to appreciate others.
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Scholars despise each other since ancient times. For thousands of years, scholars have different degrees of self and arrogance. Or arrogant, or arrogant, or aloof, both. However, it is not easy to be good at discovering and learning from others' strengths and be polite.
Yu Boya, a musician of Chu State, is good at playing, but he has high and low. Woodcutter Zhong Ziqi is a good listener and can understand Boya's thoughts. The two became bosom friends like "high mountains and flowing water" and became brothers. The next year, he died of illness. Boya broke the piano to thank his bosom friend and stopped playing. The story of bosom friends has been circulated for thousands of years and has become a model for mutual appreciation of "heroes know heroes". It tells us that learning to appreciate others is also a supreme realm of life, and appreciation is as happy and successful as being appreciated.
People often use the stories of Bole and Maxima to illustrate the problem of being good at discovering talents. However, talking about appreciation is another matter. There are always talents, and there are often talents who have been discovered, but few people really appreciate them. Appreciation is a heartfelt feeling, a heart-to-heart communication, the driving force of "a scholar dies for a confidant", which is beyond flattery. Of course, no one is perfect, everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages, and talents are no exception. The story of bosom friend explains our real appreciation, that is, we can look at the advantages and disadvantages of others objectively, "choose the good and follow it, choose the bad and change it."
When I was a child, the story of "Yan Zi makes Chu" made me understand the truth that "oranges are born in Huainan and oranges are born in Huaibei", and the role of "soil" in people's growth and progress. It also made me know that people should not wear colored glasses. Sometimes, from another angle, there may be another scene. We know that behind every successful person, there will be a little-known story and their own "noble people". It is precisely because they encourage you, support you and appreciate you in the process of your struggle, so that you can understand your personal value, regain your self-confidence, give play to your personal potential and finally achieve yourself. On the contrary, if no one appreciates you and finds you, you may remain depressed. If gold must shine, someone must extract it from the dark mine and put it in the right place!
To learn to appreciate others, you must be generous, be able to read and tolerate others, enlarge their advantages and ignore their shortcomings. This will not only make others feel their own value, but also benefit themselves. This is also the so-called win-win situation. People who appreciate others are those who are good at discovering "class". He who sees a sage thinks strangely, because he thinks that heroes have the same interests. But those who really appreciate others should also appreciate "non-me" people or enemies, respect their opponents, appreciate their respectable points, and make others flattered, so as to win their real respect. Sometimes, it can achieve the effect of turning hostilities into friendship, and the contradiction of talking and laughing disappears. Why are you unhappy? However, a chicken intestine and a small belly can't hold people, and they can't achieve anything, and ultimately they can't achieve themselves.
Appreciating yourself is narcissism, while appreciating others is picky. Only by holding the mentality of "giving someone a rose and leaving a lingering fragrance in your hand" can you really learn to appreciate others.
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The second class in the afternoon is science and technology. After only ten minutes, the students in the back row couldn't sit still and demanded freedom. Teacher Zhang agreed to let the students in the first to third rows play on the playground.
I didn't go out to play, but buried myself in writing the sci-fi composition assigned by the class teacher. I twisted my sore neck and looked out of the classroom. At that moment, I was shocked What a horrible and vague scene it is! Zhu, a male student, stood at the door of the classroom, clutching his forehead with his hands. Blood kept spilling from his fingers and his forehead was dyed red. Zhu stood there at a loss, his body trembling slightly. After only staying for a while, he left the classroom and went elsewhere.
My heart beat nervously, and I immediately thought, no!
The laughing students in the classroom suddenly withdrew their smiles and asked each other what was going on. Of course I don't know. I'm used to speculating from my head that I've just returned to reality from a sci-fi fairyland-either being bullied by a strong man or being crazy and hitting something blunt ... Well, there should be another possibility-he accidentally fell down. Based on my understanding of this quiet classmate, I'm sure that nine times out of ten his injuries were caused by careless wrestling.
In the third class, the class teacher strode into the classroom with a textbook in his hand. She tightened her face and frowned. We turned our eyes nervously to the head teacher, afraid to be silent.
After a long time, the head teacher spoke: "I want to ask, do you know about Zhu bleeding?" She refused to let us answer, and continued to say in an angry tone, "I know all about this last class." How many times have I told you, pay attention to safety, don't fight up and down the stairs, don't run around. You all go in one ear and out the other! Zhu exultation, his forehead was bleeding. He should bear more than half the responsibility himself! "The more we listen, the more nervous we become.
The head teacher paused, and his voice increased by eight degrees: "This is not only a lesson of Zhu's blood, but also your lesson! If you fall like Zhu, you can wrap gauze and gently rub the medicine; The worst case is that the needle is stitched, leaving obvious scars. Do you think I'm joking when I say safety? No kidding, safety is very important! " She takes the word "very" seriously.
The grim-faced class teacher ordered witness He Biyan to tell the story of Zhu wrestling.
He Biyan was obviously frightened by the very angry class teacher. Two of the first three words she said were wrong. The basic situation she said is this: when most students go out of the classroom to play in the playground, Zhu's mouth is full of mineral water and he spits in the corridor at will. Then, get ready to run to the stairs. Zhu accidentally stepped on the beach where he vomited and fell heavily.
The truth finally came out.
Embarrassed, the head teacher said to himself, "I see, I see. Hi! Why am I angry ... "
I told myself silently, how bad directional thinking is, how can I look at what I am used to with a habitual eye without making mistakes? I must be careful not to be deceived by "habit"!
I see. 800 words two: civilization, so that's it.
Civilization? This is an abstract but concrete word. Is it enthusiasm for helping others, or is it straightforward and frank? Is it Mona Lisa's enigmatic smile or Picasso's dove that has been flying?
With countless imagination, walking aimlessly in memories, trying to capture what detailed details. The fog of memory gradually dispersed and became clear. . . . . .
On Friday night, I was a student on duty. I think I can rest tomorrow, just like a bird with open wings, fly, fly! "Zhang Han, go and take out the garbage." Orders from the health Committee. I am in a good mood, of course, it is my duty to start working. Shake the trash can, pick up the paper around you and go downstairs leisurely.
Somehow, in my opinion, the stairs have become wonderful keys, and I have become jumping notes, playing one after another. As everyone knows, a piece of paper also "jumped out" and flew out. It is four or five steps away from me before it is ready to go. Pick up ... or not? Struggle, although "lying" there is really unsightly, someone should pick it up, but ... but only a few steps. What should I do? I am still hesitating, and a small hand has quickly picked up the paper. "This …" I was speechless and looked at the little boy who was less than ten years old. I saw him playfully patting the dust on his clapping hands, then turned to me with a serious face, and some seriously said to me, "Elder sister, I see you have been standing here for a long time, why haven't you picked up the paper?" The teacher said that each of us should be civilized and care for the environment. ""I, I ... "The unspeakable sophistry is mixed with deep shame. Face "brush" red up, the atmosphere is very embarrassing. He came up to me like a little adult and said loudly, "Sister, be careful next time!" " "I didn't know what to say or write, so I rushed out like a runaway wild horse.
The wind is blowing in my ear, and I seem to hear the little boy say, "Sister, don't run!" " "Panting back to the classroom, staring blankly at a wall. What am I doing? Scared away by a little guy, it was spineless, but in retrospect, he was quite cute, with bulging cheeks and pouting mouth. No wonder.
That kind of confusing civilization should be the words of the little boy and the innocent heart.
Civilization? I see!
I see. Composition 800 Word 3: I see.
I'm not introverted. I like chatting on weekdays. Every time I change my deskmate, in less than half a day, men and women mix like old friends who have known each other for more than ten years, except him. ...
I only vaguely remember that time, the old class always liked to chat with me, and often spent half a class blowing cool air in the corridor, which made me complain. I talk about the "bad" of the old class every day, and my deskmate goes to the old class's office for tea and chat from time to time. A few days later, the old class transferred me to my deskmate. The new deskmate is a famous "boring gourd" in the class. I thought I would refute the rumor, but I still … became a loser at the gate.
I tried to talk to him. No matter what I say, all I get is "hmm". I don't even have "oh" in class. I discuss or practice at the same table. Everyone else has a good chat, but we are silent. Every time I get up the courage to break the silence, I turn my head and see his glasses on the bridge of his nose, his bangs cocked up at will, his unusually thin white face or a pair of round eyes staring at the textbook, I always feel cold, so I give up the idea.
I can only deepen my complaint to the old class: Why are you doing this to me? But it seems that God still thinks I'm not sad enough. ...
We rotate positions in groups of four every week. This week, I sat at the back door with him. That's good. After class, his friends will run to our seats from all directions in the classroom to discuss something I don't know is very exciting. I can only wander around pitifully.
Their lineup is so large that most boys in the class gather in a small corner after class. The corner without sunshine is darker. When the bell rang, a group of people fled around and returned to their positions. I struggled to find a seat I hardly knew in the crowd, and was surprised to find that he put away all the expressions that could prove that he had laughed and said in one second.
Friends expressed deep condolences for this.
The old class began to talk to me frequently again, each time for a short time, all about my deskmate. I gradually found that because no one spoke, I listened carefully in class and took detailed notes. Because there is no seat to go back after class, I often bask in the sun and breathe fresh air. Because the old class often invites me to tea, I am very cautious. Because I have nothing to say with him, my existing friendship is stronger. Because there is no gag in the homework, the speed of the homework has reached a higher level. ...
Of course, all this was discovered after I changed my deskmate again.
Perhaps, more accurately, I didn't realize it until I got my final report card. I can only regret seeing the high figures that have never appeared on the report card:
I see!
It turned out that the old class deliberately transferred him to be my deskmate, deliberately left me speechless, and talked with me for three days, deliberately. ...
Too much effort, the in the mind so far only moved and grateful.