It is often said that an understanding heart can touch others. But we often can't treat others with an understanding attitude and always remember others. In fact, understanding between people is like running water. If we can't understand each other, it will flow away like running water, and we can't catch it. Even the occasional residual water stains are taken away by the dazzling sunshine. In the trace, what is left is mutual complaint, and the wind is still gently shaking the branches and leaves. But it can't flap people's wings of mutual understanding.

I shook my head helplessly and inadvertently recalled a scene on the bus a few years ago, which is still fresh in my memory. An old rural lady missed her stop without listening to the conductor's broadcast. The conductor repeatedly apologized to the old man, saying that she didn't take good care of her, and told him to pay attention in the future. The old man said that he was wrong and was too careless. When the old man got off the bus, they both laughed. Although that smile is just an ordinary smile, it is the result of mutual understanding.

Sometimes, we are really selfish. Everything is self-centered, regardless of other people's feelings. I always want others to understand me, but I don't know how to understand and help others. Each of us will encounter many unexpected troubles and difficulties in the long and arduous journey of life. What did we need most at that time? It is the understanding, support and help of others.

So, learn to understand. Calm down and think about it. Why sometimes have conflicts with parents? It's not because your mistakes are unforgivable, nor because your parents are unreasonable and don't leave you room, but because they don't communicate well, which leads to mutual incomprehension. Learn to understand, you should say "I understand your feelings now" when others are sad, and I will try my best to help you. Give them psychological comfort; Learn to understand, but also help others solve problems when they encounter setbacks and difficulties, and overcome difficulties with them. If we can put ourselves in others' shoes, we can understand some unintentional actions they did wrong, understand their impulsive emotions at that time and give them help. If we can do this, we will really learn to understand.

I think people really need to understand each other, because understanding will comfort others, enjoy the happiness of being understood and reap the joy of success. If everyone touches others with understanding, then I believe the world will become better!