1, a mean girl after 90.

Beijing girl, born in 1990, belongs to the post-90s generation. "She often wanders in various forums and is used to reading stories and feelings of strangers in the middle of the night. This time, I packed the post-90s mean girls (my twin sister) and decided to write our own story as an adult gift for her 18 years old. I am A Zi. " On April 18, a netizen with the ID "Bao Bao and Zi Zi" posted his adult manifestos "A Letter to My Dad" and "A Letter to My Mom" on a website. The illustrated post points out that "men are stupid" and also reveals the philosophy of life of the post-90 s generation and their irreconcilable relationship with their parents. By May 8,

The case of Yuanyuan Film Studio suspected of organizing prostitution, which has aroused widespread concern in the society, will be formally heard in Haidian Court. The whistleblowers of this case are Beijing twin sisters Baobao and A Zi, who call themselves "post-90s mean girls", and their blogs have received more than 50 million hits. They are also victims of this case. Whether at the beginning of exposing the "hidden rules" of Yuanyuan Film Studio or after the basic facts come out now, there are always people who think that their actions are speculating themselves. What do they really think? In their growing experience, is the star dream the chief culprit of being cheated into the jaws of death?

Make-up, miniskirts and high heels, when these two tall girls dressed avant-garde appear in front of you, you would never think that they just said goodbye 20 days ago 18 years old, but they said that they were dressed only to show themselves and each other.

2. Rao Xueman pays attention to "problem girls"

What makes a girl deviant? Is it the negative influence of society, the rebellious psychology of adolescence, or the bias of family education? With the increasing number of teenage abortions and crimes, people begin to pay attention to the group of adolescent "problem girls"-how can we help them grow up smoothly? What else can we do?

Recently, the summer camp "I am not a bad girl" organized by young writer Rao Xueman Yili came to an end in Shanghai. It is understood that among the ten campers who participated in this summer camp, the youngest is only 14 years old and the oldest is only 19 years old, but drinking, smoking and clubbing are their daily activities. These young "problem girls" restored their undercurrent truth of life with brave voices: "Which girl is born willing to rebel and degenerate?"

Although they downplay "skipping classes, fighting and clubbing", those innocent faces and bright smiles make people believe that these so-called "bad girls" are just a group of children in the mood for love. "Every girl has her own rebellious period. Some children really put rebellion into their lives and stubbornly resist the rules of the world, but they are really too young. Finally, Rao Xueman, the host of the summer camp, described her understanding of these girls like this: "I never thought they were bad girls.

Similarly, these girls born in the late 1980 s and early 1990 s never consider themselves "bad girls": it is not a big mistake to go to bars and have a one-night stand. The key is not to hurt yourself; It's okay to smoke and drink. If you are not addicted, everything will be fine ... they are brave, but easy to get hurt. Recalling the past full of scars, in addition to sadness, more is the yearning for future life.

Second, writing:

Examples of the concept of multidirectional materials

Topic 1, values (or moral persistence)

"I don't call you dad because it seems too hypocritical", "You have established a respected image, and you are like a grandstanding clown in the eyes of our students", "This may be the difference between us post-90 s and you post-80 s and post-70 s. We don't care if we do something, so we have no scruples and face everything more truly." "We will take everything when we should, so you don't have to worry too much." "We will truly face everything, including your contempt." ... "Bao Bao and A Zi" called themselves "mean girls" and published a declaration for 18-year-old adults on major portals and blogs, showing the post-90s life concept and contradictory relationship with their parents.

"If you love her, please give her a lot of RMB." In a word, the root of their depravity. Men get bad when they have money, and women get rich when they get bad, don't they? What's wrong with selling your body for the colorful RMB? Fans, show off wealth, fashion people, in short, parents are not as good as a lot of money. Spiritual emptiness can only be made up by material comparison. "This may be the difference between our post-90 s and your post-80 s and post-70 s. It doesn't matter whether we do one thing or not, so we have no scruples and face everything more truly."

I am a vain woman. What I gave was not my heart, but my body. I cheat with a pure face in the sun, and my lust stinks in the moonlight. I live so heartlessly, I don't remember who I loved, and no matter who loved me, I sucked away the purest memory like being brainwashed, leaving only a bright empty shell.

Kant said: "In this world, there are two things worth looking forward to all our lives: one is the bright stars above us, and the other is the noble moral law in people's hearts."

Topic 2: Facing temptation

I have to admit that some teenagers, in colorful and tempting real life, have lost their inner purity, abandoned the bottom line of morality, and finally lost themselves and went to sin. Although there are many reasons, the most important thing is that they lack correct values and do not keep moral laws in mind. For example, the twins, sisters, babies and A Zi, who recently became popular on the Internet, are not examples of fame by vulgarity?

In this materialistic society, we are sure to encounter all kinds of temptations. You paid the due price for chasing your dreams and being mercilessly insulted. If you want to find out the root cause, you still have to find it from yourself. Everyone makes mistakes, that's for sure. However, the most important thing is not to make mistakes again. Cherish what you have and forget the pain. Don't miss the future happiness because of your extreme stubbornness. Indulgence is a violation of your dignity.

Message from the youth: When you are young, you should study hard, set up lofty ideals, have your own life orientation, and have a down-to-earth work style. The lifestyle of young people in each era is different in form, but the excellent qualities such as diligence, responsibility, self-motivation and love will not change. It is promising to combine your own position with these when you are young.

Theme 3: Reflection

It is better to reflect than to ask questions. Why are there "post-90 s cheap girls" in our society? Is it because they are cheap, or is there something wrong with our society? A parent once told me with deep feelings that nowadays girls are more worry-free than boys, and "staring at her all the time is a loss". I wonder if such worry is a common psychology?

The post-90s and post-00s are the masters of the future society, and Liu is very worried about their environment. Combined with this case, she told the host that all the people involved will be punished as they should, and the court's judgment on them is established, but it will not be life imprisonment. Hu Weidong may get a heavier sentence, while others may get a lighter sentence. We should reflect on this case and see what kind of environment this society provides for the post-90 s or post-00 s.

There are two misunderstandings in the name "post-90 s base girls". One is that they can't represent the post-90s generation, and the other is that their depravity is not as simple as being young and unreasonable. Dickens wrote in A Tale of Two Cities: "This is the best time, this is the worst time …" When a society is increasingly diversified, it is like a huge dye vat, which is easy to be dyed black for children with immature mental development.

First of all, we should praise the justice of this incident. If it weren't for them, more little girls would be cheated. Who is young and ignorant, they are the first victims, this tragedy is directed by the whole era.

Topic 4, "hidden rules"

People who walk around in the "hidden rules" for a long time will definitely lose the ability to self-examine. Only by introspection can people enter a more advanced awakening stage; Only when people wake up can they finally get rid of the entanglement of greed. Those who take "hidden rules" for granted, even those who regard "hidden rules" as the banner of progress, will mistakenly think that the so-called real rules in this world are actually "hidden rules" when they see that everyone around them is "hidden rules", and it is easy to keep "hidden rules" introspectively until they "dive" into crimes.

Individuals controlled by "hidden rules" can easily become the protagonists of tragedies; The society that allows "hidden rules" to prevail is also facing great danger. Only when China sweeps all the "hidden rules" into the garbage of history and makes everything run on the legal track of "showing rules" can the future of China be more in line with the expectations of everyone in China.

Topic 5, family education

Babies, like A Zi's parents, don't understand education, which distorts children's psychology and should be scolded. It's their fault. Bao Bao and Zi Zi value money very much. They value the enjoyment of money very much, which proves that their family is not very rich, at least not as rich as they thought. It can be inferred that their parents have to live hard to meet their demands in order to make their twin sisters live better. Even meet some unreasonable demands of them. In this way, the two sisters were cultivated with material desires, but their parents never followed up the education of "love". In this way, when they grow up, they will form their own outlook on life: they spend their parents' money, but they don't understand their parents' hard work. Instead, they feel dissatisfied and even scold their parents. Love is soil and water, and money is fertilizer. Their parents poured what should be used as fertilizer (money) on the baby and Ah Zi, abandoned the "love" (water and soil) on which they grew up, and turned them into empty shell plants when they grew up. This is really the parents' fault.

Many growing post-90s tend to interpret the value of life in a single and narrow way. In their minds, they simply and naively imagine and expect that they can become stars at once, dress strangely, talk in a daze, pay close attention to every move of idols, and their mentality of becoming famous is getting more and more serious.

Experts point out that family education is the most important. After 90s, families broke through many traditions, and parents' attitudes towards life also changed greatly. Parents advocate independence and openness, pursue career success and pursue a high-quality life. Some parents can't get rid of the "copper stink" in the education of their children, and they can't influence their children from an emotional point of view, which is bound to make their children have rebellious psychology.